DEGENERATING VALUES AND THE YOUTH

DEGENERATING VALUES AND

THE YOUTH

Hello Folks!

Over the years, I  have viewed a tremendous shift regarding the moral degeneration of society and how it is impacting the youth and the aged alike at large. Something, I have been wanting to discuss for a long time. Today, I will unveil some of the stimulating factors in this regard. So, let’s start.

IDEALS ABOUT LIFE

The foremost stimulating factor responsible for the degeneration of society is the unrealistic ideals about life. There is no single individual in this world who has an ideal life. Everyone has to go through certain struggles to get where he/she might be. There will always be some deficiency in one’s life one way or the other.

The youth and aged alike fail to understand this fact of life and are quick in making hasty decisions leading to a degeneration of society.

LUST TO GET WEALTHY

Another stimulating factor leading to the degeneration of society is the lust to get wealthy quickly. This is another stimulating factor that has affected the youth greatly. They think by marrying an elderly rich woman or vice versa will solve their problem of getting rich quickly.

However, in reality, that is not the case scenario. Not everyone is interested in getting married or looking for affairs or being hooked up with men or women just for pleasure or being married at all. There is so much more to do in life rather than being on the outlook for this. Dramas are Dramas. They don’t add value to real lives. It is not rocket science to understand this.

BLOOD BONDS/RELATIONSHIPS

The lack of blood bonding/ relationships between parents and children and between the siblings now is another stimulating factor leading to a degeneration of society. Parents have a very important role to play in this scenario.No, one said bringing up children was easy. However, as a parent, you cannot put your responsibility on a caregiver or attendant to do your job. You need to be there for your children.

This is what they will learn for the future when they grow up and then you have to be prepared for what comes your way. Earning just money is not everything.

NO/LOOSE PARENTAL HOLD

There was a time when the raising of a brow was sufficient and the children knew their place but now the changing times are making parents fearful of their own children due to the degenerating values that they are picking up.

It is a scary situation that will lead to further degradation of society and lives at large.

USE OF DRUGS

Yet, another stimulating factor is the use of drugs, very common among the youth. By intaking such drugs, the person is always on high, thinking one might achieve the unbelievable. So many lives have gone to dogs due to the use of such drugs, yet there is no check or control. All this is adding to the further degeneration of society.

MEDIA, AS A WEAPON

With the ever-going entertainment and freedom to access, the use of media has turned out to be a weapon in the hands of the youth at large and it is greatly adding to the degeneration of moral values. The poor lot called youth simply fails to see the repercussions of all this at hand and falls prey to this fancy tool.

ONLY ME

The focus of only me to has contributed a lot to the degeneration of society. When every individual focus will be on self and not whole, the results will be very alarming. This rat race of getting all has affected the self of the individual to a great extent.

In today’s world, everyone is thinking about oneself without stopping for a moment and thinking about others. If people at the large start thinking as we, a great many problems can resolve and the youth be saved. It’s never too late to change only if one realizes the cost at the end.

VENT:

The inability to vent one feeling, the right way is adding to the moral degenerating of society and greatly affecting the youth. Mostly, the youth thinks talking and acting dirty would help them achieve what they want in life. Sorry, to break the ice, but such acts and talks only lead to more degeneration.

The vent to feelings and emotions needs a proper platform and medium. Online chats and bombardment of unwanted feelings will do no good. Momentarily, you will feel nice but at the end of the day, you will be the same.

THE ROOT

Addressing the root is the need for time. If you want to nip the evil in the bud, you need to address the root cause of degenerating values in society. The youth of the time needs a lot of mentoring and guidance in the right direction to understand the repercussion of their actions on either the individual or the society at large.

Life is not very complex if you understand the meaning of it and can interpret it in the light of wisdom and religion. You will always have a path of good values and bad values. It is up to you how and what you choose. Think about it before it is too late.

Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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SECRETS THAT LIE IN POVERTY

 

 SECRETS THAT LIE IN POVERTY

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered about the secrets that lie in poverty? Well, today, I am going to talk about all the good there is, in being poor. So, let’s start.

MEANINGS ASSOCIATED WITH BEING POOR

Firstly, most people associate the poor with not having the necessities of life or not having the standard of a comfortable living. Whatever the criteria out there, there is much more to this definition.

According to my personal observation, I have met many families who by their backgrounds are landlords but are still poor. This does not mean they do not have a comfortable standard of living. They live a life that is comfortable to them.

LEVEL OF CONTENTMENT BETWEEN THE RURAL AND URBAN

Secondly, in comparison to urban lives, where comfortable living means a house in a posh area, a salary in six digits, sending children to elite schools where parents can boost with their acquaintances about their accomplishments. This is not the case with rural lives.

The rural people are contented with what they have and have no desire to look beyond that.

MEANING TO POVERTY

Thirdly, their poverty has a meaning. Something the urban world cannot understand. This meaning is their basic instinct of survival and ethical values which is rarely found in urban life. And it often comes as a shock to the ones living in urban life.

CONCEPT OF MATERIAL THINGS

Fourthly, when one is poor, one is beyond the concept of material things which makes life a living hell if someone possesses it. Let me explain How? See, if you own a car or house or even bank balance, you’ll always be in the fear of keeping it safe and buying more things to keep it safe.

On the other hand, if you don’t have material pursuits other than the self, you don’t have to worry about anything, other than keeping yourself sacred and safeguarded.

PAINDO AND THE ELITE

Fifthly, I have heard and seen people categorizing, a village person as paindo for keeping cattle and hens whereas a city life person modern for keeping dogs and cats and making them a brand. If a rural person is that paindo, then why drink the milk and eat dairy products from his cattles or hen? Why not drink the milk of their cats and dogs?

LOVE AT ITS HEIGHTS

Sixthly, if you want to experience love at its extreme, true nature, go and explore the villagers or people belonging to rural life. You will know the meaning of true love. You can’t find true love sitting over social media. You need to go out, meet people, like minded people and experience it.

EVERLASTING FRIENDSHIPS

Seventhly, poverty teaches all of us the meaning of true friendships that are everlasting. Though it may take a lifetime to find such friendships. However, good judgement and trust too can help one in achieving those friendships easily.

PASSION TO THRIVE

And Lastly, Poverty teaches us the passion to dream, to thrive, to do things differently, yet with great determination and consistency. This is something found more in rural people who are down to earth and have the desire to rise above their means as and when needed.

However, not all rural people can possess all qualities or faults. Sometimes we find a mix in both rural and urban life. It is just a matter of exploring the right path. Think about it. Until next time stay safe and healthy.

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THE CATALYST

THE CATALYST

As a child, I often used to wonder why are marriages spoiled? The most beautiful relationships coming to end in the spur of a second. What can be the reason for breaking a beautiful sleep?

I have got my answer. There can be 101 reasons for a breakup in a marriage or even a relationship. But what I am going to tell you today will be something, no one ever told you. A catalyst. So let us start.

We often talk about parents bonding and vice versa but anything in excess has its side effects. In marriages, every day is a battlefield where either the husband or the wife plays the role of a warrior to save the family from forces that want to harm them.

But then, there are days when this battle is lost and the forces at work win. This all seems like a fairy tale, but real life is no less than these tales; only the characters are human beings facing real-life threats and scams and negativity.

In most marriages, either person/partner needs to be of sound/balance mind lest you want a break-up. Anyways, being a woman and a wife, most of us know where to hit the nail.

If the nail is not hit on the head, then the consequences can be great. The same is the case of a break-up in Marriages. Husbands are born to bear a lot of pain obviously not childbirth which is not their realm but theoretically speaking loss of a loved one and other craps.

One thing a husband can never bear is anything said against his parents or maybe siblings. You want to bring out the monster in him, take a shot and then you will know what I mean.

It is not that they don’t know about the ills done by their family; it’s the acknowledgment that they fail to recognize. We train our children right from the beginning to accept their mistakes and own them but why do we not teach them to question their parents when they are wrong.

I know the rights and duties of parents but why are we failing in this regard. When the survival of marriage becomes difficult, why is a woman always told to have patience and bear all the shit of the inlaws and husbands? And why is she reminded of her duty towards all?

Why is not the husband told all this and why don’t the inlaws stop meddling with the affairs of the couple and put their noses where it is needed?

Not all in-laws or parents have the stamina to share their sons with an outsider(wife). No matter how devoted she might be, there will always be a reason to corner her and have what one seeks.

It’s a sorry state of affairs but this is a common practice in 90 percent of cases in Asian marriages and there is no single law to put the in-laws in their places and not to meddle with couple personal matters.

When training and grooming our children, we need to teach them justice and to keep all at par without infringing anyone’s right.

In the end, I would say that unless and, until there is a balanced in training and laws enforced to keep people in their places, then would marriages survive. Think about it.

Until next time, stay safe and Healthy.

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HOW MY JOURNEY BEGAN? UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

 

 

 

HOW MY JOURNEY BEGAN?

UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

Hello Folks!

People often ask me how I began my journey of writing. So, today, I will tell you how it all began. Let’s start.

I have always found expression in one form or another. Being creative and sensitive, I always sought refuge in painting.

And in doing so, poured my heart out on the canvas. But I always felt that something was lacking and I was not able to communicate myself.

This, I witnessed on different platforms when people used to ask me the meaning of what I had drawn/painted. I had never liked the idea of explaining a painting.

It’s more about the feelings, emotions associated with that piece. And I want the audience to experience it and interpret it. And tell me what they think?

And frankly, most people in Pakistan don’t understand creative work, let alone the biases they have associated with a certain school of thought.

Anyway, all this has never stopped me from achieving what I want.

To keep moving and communicating better, I started exploring platforms where I could write and explore my skills.

Back in 2015, I came across a media agency, where I had the opportunity to write on the topic of Terrorism(PIC quoted above).

My article was published in Sunday Times, Pakistan.A turning point in my journey of freelancing.

Trusting my guts, I didn’t continue with the media agency and did not pursue further with them.

The overall experience had given me enough know-how on the working environment for any female writer.

I was utterly disgusted with the mentality of the people working in the media industry. I went in solitude to work on skills, I thought would aid in the future.

So, I invested in myself in different fields and after a few years, I was mentally prepared and more matured to enter the field of writing.

It is then, I developed a WordPress website and started experimenting with the acquired skills on it. I started in 2019 and from that day onward, I have never looked back.

In my journey, I meet amazing people on a day-to-day basis and I have learned a lot from them.

I am indebted to them for what they have taught me along the way. They have proved to be the rightful well-wishers.

Am open to sharing my knowledge with everyone and not for once I think about competition or any of the sought.

And look forward to like-minded people who can add value to what I am doing and want to do. And learn more if needed and as required.

Life is a  blessing. Make the most of it and enjoy the blessings as they come along.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and Healthy.

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MOTHER’S DAY; EXPECTATIONS VERSUS REALITY

MOTHER’S DAY; EXPECTATIONS VERSUS REALITY

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Every year, people across the globe celebrate Mother’s day to pay coinage to the efforts a mother does all year long. Today, I will unveil some of the realities of Mother Day; Expectations versus Reality. So let’s start.

When we think about expectations, seriously mothers who all year long make efforts to put food on the table by maintaining a balance between family life and work life, too at times expects.

The expectations might not be great but do comprise a bit of acknowledgement for her efforts, but this is not experienced in reality.

Even the thought of celebrating mother’s day for a day does ring a bell but it is short-lived as these mothers do far more than a day can do for them.

We are again and again reminded of the fact that actions speak louder than words. And that is true when it comes to showing off. This too reiterates the stance of Expectations versus Reality.

Seriously, who are we fooling under the disguise of a Mother’s day. The big shots and media and all, do they in practise, follow the notion? All are doing lip service to boost their credentials.

It’s more like a topi drama where every actor/actresses know their line and know how to react to a certain questions. So much for expectations versus reality in the name of Mother day.

If you ask me, the true essence of mother day does not lie in the celebration of mother day once a year. It is the recognition needed every passing day of the year.

How can anyone earn Jannat(Heaven) by just celebrating a day in a year as Mothers day?

It is a very responsible task that the Almighty has assigned a woman to be a mother and maintain all balances when it comes to upbringing a generation.

We don’t need special days to understand the basics. We just need a positive mindset to understand that all mothers matter no matter big or small, poor or rich, coloured or white.

Embrace them every day, acknowledge their efforts every day and show them that they are not bound to be paid homage on one particular day. It is time to change the beliefs and norms and bring forth real mothers on  Mother’s Day.

 

Do something genuine to show that you care and mean it.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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WHAT THE WORLD WOULD BE LIKE IF HAPPINESS DIDN’T EXIST?

WHAT THE WORLD WOULD BE LIKE IF HAPPINESS DIDN’T EXIST?

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Have you ever wondered, what would the world be like if happiness didn’t exist at all? Well, I have thought about it many times and today I will lay my emphasis on it. So let’s start.

To begin with, no one really can describe happiness in concrete terms. It is more of a feeling associated with all living beings. Happiness is just like our body temperature which makes us feel different things and analyze them according to the rise and fall in temperature.

For me, no world can exist without happiness. Happiness is one of the elements that make our existence possible. How? You must be wondering. Well, you see, our life is made up of so many elements; pain, sorrow, weakness, downtrodden, pessimism, tragedy, etc.

What elevates us out of this is the illumination of joy, happiness. Just the thought about this illumination puts a smile on our faces. This is Happiness. Who can even think of the possibility of having a world without happiness?

Keeping in view, the death toll and the disease that is prevailing nowadays, still there is hope, a desire to see the good old days and get back to life. This is what happiness gives us.

If we imagine the possibility of having a world without happiness, it is even impossible to comprehend it. Happiness doesn’t require a fortune or even wealth. It is rather the contentment of having what you have at present.

The satiety of being comfortable with whatever means that is available, along with good health and a loving family around is sufficient. You don’t need anything else.

Think of a dying man. His wealth is not going to give him health or love rather it is the investment of time he has done all his life that is going to pay him off at this stage and that my friend is the everlasting happiness for him.

In the end, I would like to add that a world where no happiness exists can either be Hell or lifelessness. We live in a living world made of people, nature, hope, happiness, joy, play, and consciousness.

And till the time these elements are around, we don’t have to worry about the world with no happiness. Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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EFFECT OF FASTING ON A WORKING INDIVIDUAL

EFFECT OF FASTING ON A WORKING INDIVIDUAL

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We all know that Fasting in the month of Ramadan has a multitude of benefits regarding physical, spiritual, and mental benefits. Without undermining the benefits, I will lay my focus on the effect Fasting has on a working individual. So let’s start.

The first effect Fasting has on a working individual is the impossibility to maintain a balance between work and personal life. Still, people manage without complaining as it is God who will reward them for this virtue.

Secondly, while Fasting, it is very difficult to write about anything. It is like all ideas are in the state of fasting. It took me nearly 2 hours to get here at this point.

The third effect that Fasting has on an individual is that after a certain time of the day, the mind fails to even think about what one wants to say. That is the time when one only reverts to solitude and thinks about what is expected from him as a believer.

Fifthly, the effects may vary from person to person depending on the number of responsibilities a person has to perform. Some may experience nothing at all but most may.

Sixth, Fasting takes us to greater levels of self-exploration and to understand the whole concept of Fast. People may interpret fast according to their culture and religion but there is a need of going beyond basic interpretations and understand the manifold benefits.

And Lastly, one needs to go through these effects only to be more grateful to what God Almighty has given us in terms of blessings. As an individual, I will thank Almighty for allowing me to observe fast and observe myself and let others know the effects it has on a working, responsible individual.

There is nothing wrong with accepting what you cannot do while fasting. Focus on what you can do and make the best of that time. That is the true essence of fasting. Think about it.

Until next time stay safe and healthy.

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THE BLAME GAME; UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

THE BLAME GAME

UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

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Recently, I have been going through a lot of turmoil regarding the online classes and the problems at hand. Today, I aim at discussing these problems, the Blame Game, and the suffering party. So let’s start.

The foremost problem that students are facing online is regarding I.T issues. Even the most competent lot has failed to understand basic issues related to I.T; let alone the teachers.

How hard is it to turn on a simple computer and apply the appropriate software to the system? What are the so-called big systems installed in school doing in this regard except blaming each other regarding the responsibility?

The second problem that students are facing online is the lack of delivery regarding lessons. I won’t deny the fact that people who have been teaching all their life face to face find this mode of delivery rather difficult but trust me guys it’s not that difficult. You just need to get the hang of it. There is a way to everything if one has the will to do it.

Our children have proved this by grasping the new modes then why can’t the deliverers do the same. There is no insult to learning something new. At the age of 43, I am learning each day from my children, surroundings, and like-minded people. So can you.

The third problem that students are facing is the biases on part of the teachers. All students deserve attention and no single student should be sidelined for your meaningless biases.

The fourth problem that students are facing online is regarding the explanation of a topic. Research is good no doubt but even to research children/students need concepts. Without explanation, you can’t expect a student to write a Research paper. So stop giving video links in the first place rather, start explaining.

The fifth problem that students are facing is the blame game. Every time a student account is locked, the one responsible doesn’t take the responsibility rather the vicious cycle begins of blaming; switching from one department to the other.

And in this whole blame game who is the sufferer? Not the schools. It is the students who suffer each day. The institutions are getting their share in the form of fees. Why should they even care for the loss a student has to go through?

And Lastly, the problem that students have to face is the wrath of the teachers who are exposed at the hands of students for telling the truth. It’s a shame such teachers bring on the whole community of teachers/Educationists.

Dear Institutions, it is not COVID that is to be blamed. Rather it has always been your attitude due to which the endless number of students have suffered as well as their parents who are just clients to you.

Of all private schools, The CITY SCHOOL is, unfortunately, the worst institution, I have found so far. All corrupt to the core. The more you try to analyze, the more darkness you will find within. It’s too late for you to even think about it as you are at a point of no return.

May God Almighty help you and ease the pains of the sufferer.

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THE POWER OF PRACTISING GRATITUDE

THE POWER OF PRACTISING GRATITUDE

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Today, I  will talk about Gratitude and how we can practise it in our lives. So, let’s start.

First of all, we need to know, what is Gratitude? It is a feeling of thankfulness towards the world in general and also towards specific individuals.

One who has gratitude does not seek more.

Secondly, Gratitude can be practised by journaling about it. Writing about anything and everything especially gratitude has a multitude of benefits. So do practise this art whenever you can.

Thirdly, you can practise gratitude by start observing the little things happening around you. There are small gestures that might make someone’s day.

All that is required is your acknowledgement of it.

Fourthly, appreciating people in your life too helps you in practising gratitude. This practice greatly works for couples as both need to complement one another for a good life.

Fifthly, if you want to practise gratitude, then you have to be thankful to the people who enlighten your day with their positivity and messages.

Sixth, Gratitude can be practised through practising on the positive aspect of one’s life. Everyone’s life is a blend of many things but the practice of Gratitude can raise oneself from many shackles.

And lastly, one can practise Gratitude through prayers. All of us have our own way to show Gratitude and practise it.

With the Holy month of Ramzan/Fast around the corner, as Muslims, we need to practise Gratitude more to have a happy life. Think about it.

In the end, I would like to express my gratitude to all my readers who always have something positive to add to my blogs and my work. I would also like to thank the people who make this site work smoothly.

Until next time stay safe and Healthy.

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