Hello Folks!

Now, this is what I would call good luck. I have been yearning to write something on a topic like this for ages. And here I get an opportunity to do so. The statement itself gives its answer. Body size does not matter to rock good clothes. I will discuss, why it does not matter in the following paragraphs based on my own experiences. So let’s start.

As a child, I was more into playing and athlete stuff but as I grew up my focus shifted more towards studying and work on the laptop and all. All-time sitting and very less physical activities. Until one day, I looked at myself in the mirror. I was startled to see my image. That very moment, I realized, if I will not love myself who else would.

So with certain adjustments in my lifestyle, I was back to my good old self. What I want to reiterate here is that stop caring about what people are going to say or what your partner is going to say about your body; you should be satisfied with it and opt for ways to keep it in a way that is healthy and not problematic for you or people around you.

Secondly, you should have a positive image of yourself. I am sure you must have heard a lot about vibes and how they work. Yes, that is true. We all have a certain aura around us. The people in our surroundings pick up this aura or vibe or energy or light whatever you want to categorize it as.


They are going to look at you the way, you want them to. So even if you have the body size of a wrestler, yet you think yourself no less than a movie star, people will treat you like one.


Thirdly, you should always wear what you are comfortable with and what looks nice on you. Dressing according to your body shape is the best way to rock.

If you dress up in a way that does not suit your gait, you definitely will feel the odd man out.

However, if you dress up rather simply, no matter what your body size is, you will rock. You need to find out your style or signature according to your body type.

Also, be open to the dressing and clothes of other cultures. You never know their custom stitched clothes look fit on you rather than the ones you use.

Fourthly, I believe nobody should kill themselves to be someone they are not.…is-where-i-exist/

You may feel good about yourself for some time but in the longer run, you will become frustrated with what you have become.

The man-made appearance comes with a price but the appearance gifted by your Creator can never be undermined. You should always remember that.


The world is a small place. We encounter a lot of people in our day-to-day life and learn a lot from them both consciously and unconsciously.

What, I have learned so far is that Heaven has made a partner for everyone.

They might come soon or late in life but surely will come. And for him/her body size would not matter as he/she would love you for what you are and not how you look in terms of a body.

The soul is the one that needs to be beautiful, appearances and people are short-lived.

People remember us in terms of our deeds and good heart. No one will remember us for what kind of body we had or how satisfied they were with us. So, I will end, with John Keats’s note that beauty is truth and truth is beauty. and that is what one needs to remember in this world.


Think about it. Until next time stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading!




Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered, what Porn can do to the mind, body and soul?

Not to mention the overall impact it has on jeopardizing the relationship between a husband and wife.

Today, I aim to delve into the effects of Pornography and how it jeopardizes relationships between husband and wife. So let’s start.

Before starting, we need to know what is Pornography?

Well, Pornography encompasses of the material that is predominantly sexually explicit and intended primarily for the purpose of sexual arousal.

The first effect of Pornography on the relationship is that it leads to anti social behaviour towards the partners,women in general and even rape victims.

Male viewers tend to be more agressive towards women particularly their partners and less responsive to the pain and suffering their partners might face.

The second effect of pornography on the relationship is that it induces violence.Relationship between partners is very pure, based on mutual consent.

There is no room for violence in such relationships.The ultimate motive should be pleasure rather than pain.

The third effect of pornography on the relationship is that it diminishes a person’s sexual happiness.

Such males have an inclination of diminished satisfaction with their sexual partners physical appearance,affection,curiousity and sexual performance.

They are more inclined towards sex without emotional involvement.

The fourth effect of pornography on the relationship is the lost of interest in actual sex. The males may lose interest in the advances of their partner.

This makes them seem distant or even uninterested when you try to engage with them sexually. You may even need to use more strategies to arouse them before they can perform.

The fifth effect of pornography on relationships is that it makes the male more demanding.

They can be easily be frustrated and alienate their partners due to their unrealistic ideals about sex.

This can lead to emotional and physical distress of the partner making them uncomfortable altogether.

The sixth effect of pornography on relationships lead to lack of communication and time.When all the time is being allocated towards one cause,there is no room left for communication with the partner.

And we all know,where this is going to lead the marriage.

And Lastly, the effect of pornography on the relationship leads towards oral sex,group sex,anal sex, and sado-masochism.

In the end,I would like to say that God created both men and women in His image as sexual beings.Due to the sins in the world,sex has been misused and abused.

Pornography not only attacks the dignity of men and women but also distorts the gift of sex which should be practised only within the bound of marriage.(This may vary in different cultures).

The Holy scriptures maintain a basic modesty towards women and men sexual organs and condemns the practices that result from pornography such as sexual exposure,adultery,bestiality,homo sexuality,incest and prostitution.

Pornography is an addiction that ruins not only the life of one individual but also the people associated with that individual.As soon as someone close to you starts showing signs of pornography,seek them help at the earliest before they can ruin their and others life.

Think about it.

Until next time,stay safe and healthy.