FLAWS OF PARENTING

FLAWS OF PARENTING

 

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered even parents, too can commit serious crimes in the name of Parenting?

Today, I will share with you what are the things that give birth to Flawed Parenting? So, let’s start.

Firstly, as a parent, it is our responsibility to give the best products to the community in the form of children who will make the future generations.

And in doing this, we need to be very strict in terms of the values that we are imparting.

Secondly, while imparting the core values of love, respect, honesty, care, help, etc, are we as parents observing the same thing? If not, then we should know how the product would be.

Another thing that adds to flawed parenting is the emotions of jealously, love, hate, pain, etc.

These are natural emotions and some emotions need to be subsided to have the best product but if as parents, you try to cover up their mischiefs, you are committing a crime and giving rise to flawed parenting.

Fourthly, actions have repercussions. Any mistake that is committed and tried to be concealed leads to crimes of grave nature.

To prevent such crimes, own up these mistakes and teach your children the same.

Fifthly, as a parent, you might be successful in preventing your children from a small incident but in the longer run, it will only make your child insecure and fearful.

Children who face bullying or are treated weak and told to be strong often turn out to be stronger than the bullies in the long run.

They are not bullies but are the real fighters and that is the real product the world needs.

It is my humble request to all parents who think covering up for a child will benefit him or her is grievously wrong in doing so.

You are turning them into a monster who thinks can get away with anything. But in the long run, such monsters are always crushed by their own benefactors.

Think about it before it is too late.

Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading!

 

THE AGE OF GEN Z

 

THE  AGE OF GEN Z

 

Hello Folks!

Recently, I came across The GEN Z, and by the time, I was through talking with them, my head was spinning. You must be thinking, what could have they said to make my head spin. So today, I will share with you the views of teens/Youth now called The GEN Z.

Firstly, Gen Z, have their views regarding the parent’s generations. They have coinage words to describe us. For instance, parents born in the ’40s and ’60s are categorized as Baby Boomers.

Similarly, those belonging to the late ’60s and early ’80s are known as Generation X. And those belonging to the ’80s and late ’90s are categorized as Millenials.

And finally, the post Millenials are categorized as GEN Z.

Secondly, they consider themselves to be high tech when it comes to software and gaming and so. If they are very generous, they might categorize us as NOOB or Pro. However, the title of Hacker or god cannot be assigned to you for you do not belong to their clan.

Thirdly, the GEN Z, have assumed your role as parents. To them, every parent is a child and they are their parent. Does it bother? Yes, at times; when we draw analysis with our times, there is a huge difference in thinking.

Fourthly, the GEN Z is too much monetized. They think everything in terms of money and has calculated everything from A to Z. Something to ponder upon. Think about your times. Back then we were least bothered about money. A free soul to be exact.

Fifthly, they approach you with the kindest of praises when they need a thing. Definitely, as parents and as a loving generation of our times, we always try to facilitate them but sometimes it becomes suffocating.

Many parents cannot facilitate GEN Z  and feel pressured and stressed out due to the ongoing demands of the children.

Sixthly, these are troubled times for all; especially the GEN Z. They need our guidance and due counseling to address their issues. Only then can we be successful in our training and make them a contributing factor to society at large.

In the end, I would like to say that no matter, however, we are categorized, our authority as a parent cannot be taken away. We need to educate ourselves with trending times.

Be it Tech or Education or Gaming or multitasking or time management, we have to be an all-rounder. Doesn’t matter if we are categorized as NOOBS, we can become whatever we want.

Their change in thinking regarding money matters is good for they are born in times when everything is on the high be it schooling, education, entertainment, grooming, profession, competition, etc.

They are more sensitized than we are but we too need to take off the burden from their shoulders by facilitating them as back supporters. In the end, what matters is the outcome, nothing else. So dear friends, parenting is an ongoing process and we are all in the mode of continuous learning.

Think about it. Until next time, stay Safe and Healthy.

Happy Reading.

SMILING FACES/HAPPY CHILDREN

SMILING FACES/HAPPY CHILDREN

 

Hello Folks!

I often feel happy when I see a smiling face/Happy Children. Have you ever wondered the reason behind a smiling face? Today, I aim to discuss the reasons behind a smiling face. So, let’s start.

The first reason behind a smiling face/happy children is a conducive environment. Children are prone to be happier when they have happy parents.

Parents who are cribbing and fighting all the time may not have happy children.

The second reason behind a smiling face/happy children depends on the amount of time you are willing to invest in your children. Growing up children require more of your time and attention.

As parents, if you want to see them smiling and happy, start sowing the seed from this moment. So you can enjoy the fruit in the future.

The third reason behind a smiling face/happy children is the availability of choices in life. The more you as a parent are open to options for your children, the happier are the children.

The results depend on you, my friend.

The fourth reason behind a smiling face / happy children is to listen to your children patiently. They are curious by nature. At times they will pose you questions that will blow your head off.

No need to be mad at them, listen to them with patience and try to answer their questions. It will only strengthen your bond with them. Children need the surety, who to come to when they are in need.

And that’s what you want. Right.

The fifth reason behind smiling faces/happy children is understanding your children. There are all types of children; easy-going, medium, and difficult ones. You need to understand their requirements and act according to their nature.

That my friend is called parenting.

The sixth reason behind smiling faces/ happy children is how you reward them when they make you happy. What matters is your response to their achievement not what you give them.

They are children. They can be happy with just a hug or applause or candy. You do not have to burden yourself financially to show them you are happy with them.

Big rewards, you may want to save for big occasions such as Birthdays or family get together or promotions, or even Christmas.

And Lastly, Value their friends as you value your children. Do keep an open eye on their company, talk about their friends, and do try to establish contact with their parents.

In the end, I would like to say that all children are born with a smiling face. It is we who alone can turn them into monsters. We need to curtail the monsters in our being and let them have a happier childhood and a smiling future.https://www.sabahataamir.com/how-parents-infl…gh-their-actions/

Think about it before it is too late.

Stay safe and healthy until next time.

Happy Reading!

TIPS ON GROOMING BOYS/SONS PART I

TIPS ON GROOMING BOYS/SONS

 

PART I

Hello Folks!

Parenting, is no easy task.Being a mother of two, I exactly know how hard it can be at times.Don’t be scared,we all have our times.

We all are faced with great challenges along the way; but what matters is the end product.

So here, i am with a few tips on how to groom children especially boys/sons.

The number one tip we as parents can follow in grooming our boys/sons is to talk things out with them.There is always something going on in their little minds.Whatever is there,does come out sooner or later.

As a parent, it is our responsibility to help them ease their thoughts however,troublesome might it be.This act will give them the surety that as a parent ,we are always there for them.

Secondly, to groom boys/sons,start assigning small tasks to them.Tasks such as cleaning their rooms,picking up their toys,putting away the dinner plates.This will induce a sense of discipline in the children.

Thirdly, try to assess their likes and dislikes.Some children might like to wash the dishes yet others might like to prepare food in the kitchen with or without your help.Ask them to help you out with food preparations in the kitchen.

This will not only enhance your bond with them but will also lead them towards being more responsible in the later years of life.

Fourthly,encourage their ideas of creativity or ideas related to money making.Children who have parents support at their back tend to make a great success in their future lives as compared to those children who are always discouraged for their ideas.

Fifthly,spent time with your children like watching their favorite TV shows or it can either be a game.Don’t ever think its boring.

It is the time we are investing in them which will be rewarded to us in so many ways,we are unaware of.

Sixth, we should teach our children especially boys to respect women of all age brackets.When we will observe a value system, our self, they automatically will follow it.

And if we are not clear our self why do we expect them to be clear.So the lines have to be clearly defined.

Seventh, never insult your children in front of any one especially your maternal and paternal relations not to mention the outside world.

For in the longer run if they turn out to be totally the opposite of what they were,they would never be appreciated for what they have become but would always be remembered as who they were.

Eighth, trust your children in what they tell you.If you trust them today,they will not betray your trust in future but if its vice versa you have deformed them for life.

At the same time, as a parent you need to have a hawk eye.After all you are the parent and know your child in and out. However, no need to make it obvious to them.Observe and apply.

Ninth, to make them a productive citizen of the community,set a positive example in front of them. As it is said; Do unto others as you want others to do unto you.

Lastly, I would ask all mothers out there to keep on observing from other people’s lives who have raised wonderful sons.Interview them, talk to them and see what different have they done and you are missing.

It is always good to learn from other people’s experiences rather than going through the same mistakes.

I would like to add that there is no ready made recipe for bringing up boys.We have to experiment with each and every stage of children’s growing up.

Some things might work well with one child whereas for the others totally a different set of strategies might be needed.

But what is more efficient is your communication with the child.Only this, will help you in understanding the true nature of your children and act accordingly.

In the end, I would like to express my gratitude to all mothers who despite of their professional life,hectic household chores still try their best to balance their lives and in that balancing work hard to raise good children especially boys.

Happy Reading.