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A CHANGED BODY: HERE IS WHERE I EXIST

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A CHANGED BODY: HERE IS WHERE I EXIST

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Have you ever had the feeling of being unacceptable for the way you look? About your changed body, about your existence, I have it every day.

Today, I will give you another insight into a married woman’s life and the role people play in her day-to-day life. So let’s start.

A girl/woman goes through many phases before she is accepted to be someone’s life partner. The real test starts after the marriage.

However, she makes so many compromises and sacrifices to make an ideal marriage. She is always lurking on the edge to make it work.

Sometimes even fighting with the insecurities she might face. So, everyone has their own monsters/battles to fight.

I fight my battles every day with the acidic people in my surroundings who keep on reminding me about the way I look.

And the weight I have put on, the spots I have on my face, and whatnot. How do I deal with them? I will tell you shortly.

A question for the sensible people out there. Does being married to a girl /woman who is beautiful before marriage put a tag around her neck of being sold to you?

You got it right. She is married and not sold to you. Being beautiful from the outside forever is not a guarantee that you sign in your marriage contract.

However, the marriage contract does not say that apparent beauty cannot expire. It may expire soon or late but what won’t expire is that what lies inside her/you/me.

Women and their bodies change at an incredible speed after childbirth. Does that mean they have left their inner beauty? Not at all.

Then why do husbands fail to see it? Their only concern is the outside beauty. I have seen women kill themselves to get their pre-pregnancy bodies back.

Seriously, how good is the outside physique if it is being rotten bit by bit by your(husband’s) acidic remarks.

Physical beauty might be a small part of a relationship but for sensible people, it is not even that factor. In Pakistan, most people marry for looks, wealth, and all that sparkle.

Virtuous women don’t look for these things in a husband. They need husbands who can respect them and accept them, cherish them, no matter how ugly they might become.

Physical beauty https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness is a factor that needs to be eliminated in marriages and there is a dire need to change the mindset of the majority.

In a changed body; this is the height of sacrifice, a woman makes to complete the family; knowing she may or may not come back to her normal self/physical state, but she is ready to take the risk.

Both my pregnancies were difficult ones. At my daughter’s birth, I had shooting blood pressure and had to go for a C-section.

Similarly, at my son’s birth, I had borderline, Diabetics. So, I had another C-section.

Now, I have neither Diabetics nor blood pressure but have a changed body along with the most beautiful kids in my life who are my pillars of strength.

I am not embarrassed by the way I look. I have been blessed with what people will give millions to have.

I live every day for them as they are my strength. I might be many people’s strength but my strength lies in their smiles, their wishes, their joys, and the people I love, etc.,

Anyone can survive acidic husbands if they have strengths in their lives. These strengths can be in the form of good friends, colleagues, sisters, brothers, aunts, acquaintances, followers, etc.,

In a changed body, here is where I exist. I have a wonderful audience who waits to read about what essence I have to share with them.

Those who can draw so many lessons from a single or multitudes of lives. Who make me go on in my endeavors to bring good around me.

So much so help me stay positive and on the right track. Thanks for being my pillars of strength.https://www.sabahataamir.com/body-size-does-n…ock-good-clothes/

In the end, I would like to say to all husbands out there to cherish their wives. Life is too short to waste on exchanging acidic remarks. Live each day as it is your last day.

Don’t accumulate bad memories to regret when time slips away from the hands

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading Folks!

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EID CULTURE IN PAKISTAN

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EID CULTURE IN PAKISTAN

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How nice it is to celebrate one’s happiness among loved ones.

This need is felt mostly in cases when one cannot celebrate due to the events that are taking place in the surroundings.

Today, I aim to discuss the Eid scenario in Pakistan and how it is being celebrated in these times. So let’s start.

Firstly, Eid is a festivity that is celebrated with a grandeur after observing 30 Days of Fast along with prayers and duas for forgiveness.

It is celebrated with the buying of new clothes, jewellery, shoes, and other accessories which make the Eid festivities special.

Secondly, all loved and dear ones gather on this day to their relative’s homes to enjoy the celebration with the traditional sweets and foods.

What a joy it is to eat sheer khurma and kheer along with the spicy Biryani. Oh God, even writing makes my mouth water.

Thirdly, what makes this day more special is the money/Eidi given by the elders to the young.

This is a token of their love for their children, relatives, and acquaintances.

The amount of the Eidi, as we call it here in Pakistan does not matter. What matters is the love and affection that is associated with it.

Fourthly, is the social interaction with friends, colleagues, and acquaintances. And this love and affection are transferred to each separately.

Fifthly, people also travel to a different part of the country just to enjoy their Eid.

And also to witness Eid festivity in different regions and groups.

In the present scenario, most people observed social distancing this time to be safe and keep their loved ones safe too.

Sixthly, people did interact with their loved ones, family, and friends but not by hugging them directly rather through skype, what’s app, and Zoom calls.

A bit different though, yet not undermining the spirit of Eid.

Seventh, most people did not buy new clothes this Eid not because they could not afford them.

Rather stand with the ones who have lost their means of livelihood due to COVID-19.

This my friend, is the true spirit of Eid.

Eighthly, these Eid people have exclusively opened their hearts for the ones in need rather than focussing on the celebration among the better lot.

And lastly, on this Eid, people have employed new ways of making their Eid productive. They are flying kites on their rooftops.

Though maintaining social distancing, still their hearts are in line with each other.

In the end, I would like to say that these times are a test of our patience and determination to pull through.

We may in the future have many more Eids but the lessons we will learn now will go a long way.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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GRANDPARENTS

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GRANDPARENTS

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How is the feeling of being loved and wanted generation after generation? It is a great feeling. Especially for those whose grandparents are alive.

In today’s busy lives, most of us have forgotten even if they exist. Today, I aim to talk about them and the impact Grandparents have in our lives. So let’s start.

Firstly, I could never have been the mother, I am if it wasn’t for them. I owe it to them for what I am today.

Parenting is no easy task. Every generation has its own problems, which the parents need to tackle.

However, if they are around, the pain is lessened to a great extent.

Secondly, the Grandparents act as a bridge between the parents and the new generation.

They pass down the ethics, history, and traditions to the generations to cherish them.

It is a great asset for our generations and they should take pride in it.

Thirdly, the love and affection of Grandparents for their grandchildren is manifold in so many ways.

At times, we as parents complain that we had a more strict course of action to follow as compared to our children.

Fourthly, they have so much to share in terms of experience and skills, even a lifetime looks less to learn from them.

Fifthly, the patience and determination borne by them have no alternative. As parents, children, every one of us should learn something from them be it small or big.

Sixth, grandparents are the real spoilers when it comes to children and we should not mind at all.

All year long, parents discipline their children according to them.

So really there is no harm if children can have their way around in the company of grandparents.

Seventh, children who do not have grandparents should adopt other people’s grandparents and see the miracles themselves.

A Visit to a destitute or a senior care home is always good.

And Lastly, grandparents only need our time and love.

We as children often fail to acknowledge their presence and forget to tell them how much we love them.

It is never too late to make amends. Time is ticking.

I would therefore like to reiterate that grandparents are a blessing in disguise. One needs to cherish them the way one cherishes their own children.

It is never too late to make amends and look for better days to come. Think about it.

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A CHANGED BODY: HERE IS WHERE I EXIST

Hello Folks!

Have you ever had the feeling of being unacceptable for the way you look? About your changed body, about your existence, I have it every day.

Today, I will give you another insight into a married woman’s life and the role people play in her day-to-day life. So let’s start.

A girl/woman goes through many phases before she is accepted to be someone’s life partner. The real test starts after the marriage.

However, she makes so many compromises and sacrifices to make an ideal marriage. She is always lurking on the edge to make it work.

Sometimes even fighting with the insecurities she might face. So, everyone has their own monsters/battles to fight.

I fight my battles every day with the acidic people in my surroundings who keep on reminding me about the way I look.

And the weight I have put on, the spots I have on my face, and whatnot. How do I deal with them? I will tell you shortly.

A question for the sensible people out there. Does being married to a girl /woman who is beautiful before marriage put a tag around her neck of being sold to you?

You got it right. She is married and not sold to you. Being beautiful from the outside forever is not a guarantee that you sign in your marriage contract.

However, the marriage contract does not say that apparent beauty cannot expire. It may expire soon or late but what won’t expire is that what lies inside her/you/me.

Women and their bodies change at an incredible speed after childbirth. Does that mean they have left their inner beauty? Not at all.

Then why do husbands fail to see it? Their only concern is the outside beauty. I have seen women kill themselves to get their pre-pregnancy bodies back.

Seriously, how good is the outside physique if it is being rotten bit by bit by your(husband’s) acidic remarks.

Physical beauty might be a small part of a relationship but for sensible people, it is not even that factor. In Pakistan, most people marry for looks, wealth, and all that sparkle.

Virtuous women don’t look for these things in a husband. They need husbands who can respect them and accept them, cherish them, no matter how ugly they might become.

Physical beauty https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness is a factor that needs to be eliminated in marriages and there is a dire need to change the mindset of the majority.

In a changed body; this is the height of sacrifice, a woman makes to complete the family; knowing she may or may not come back to her normal self/physical state, but she is ready to take the risk.

Both my pregnancies were difficult ones. At my daughter’s birth, I had shooting blood pressure and had to go for a C-section.

Similarly, at my son’s birth, I had borderline, Diabetics. So, I had another C-section.

Now, I have neither Diabetics nor blood pressure but have a changed body along with the most beautiful kids in my life who are my pillars of strength.

I am not embarrassed by the way I look. I have been blessed with what people will give millions to have.

I live every day for them as they are my strength. I might be many people’s strength but my strength lies in their smiles, their wishes, their joys, and the people I love, etc.,

Anyone can survive acidic husbands if they have strengths in their lives. These strengths can be in the form of good friends, colleagues, sisters, brothers, aunts, acquaintances, followers, etc.,

In a changed body, here is where I exist. I have a wonderful audience who waits to read about what essence I have to share with them.

Those who can draw so many lessons from a single or multitudes of lives. Who make me go on in my endeavors to bring good around me.

So much so help me stay positive and on the right track. Thanks for being my pillars of strength.https://www.sabahataamir.com/body-size-does-n…ock-good-clothes/

In the end, I would like to say to all husbands out there to cherish their wives. Life is too short to waste on exchanging acidic remarks. Live each day as it is your last day.

Don’t accumulate bad memories to regret when time slips away from the hands

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading Folks!

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EID CULTURE IN PAKISTAN

Hello Folks!

How nice it is to celebrate one’s happiness among loved ones.

This need is felt mostly in cases when one cannot celebrate due to the events that are taking place in the surroundings.

Today, I aim to discuss the Eid scenario in Pakistan and how it is being celebrated in these times. So let’s start.

Firstly, Eid is a festivity that is celebrated with a grandeur after observing 30 Days of Fast along with prayers and duas for forgiveness.

It is celebrated with the buying of new clothes, jewellery, shoes, and other accessories which make the Eid festivities special.

Secondly, all loved and dear ones gather on this day to their relative’s homes to enjoy the celebration with the traditional sweets and foods.

What a joy it is to eat sheer khurma and kheer along with the spicy Biryani. Oh God, even writing makes my mouth water.

Thirdly, what makes this day more special is the money/Eidi given by the elders to the young.

This is a token of their love for their children, relatives, and acquaintances.

The amount of the Eidi, as we call it here in Pakistan does not matter. What matters is the love and affection that is associated with it.

Fourthly, is the social interaction with friends, colleagues, and acquaintances. And this love and affection are transferred to each separately.

Fifthly, people also travel to a different part of the country just to enjoy their Eid.

And also to witness Eid festivity in different regions and groups.

In the present scenario, most people observed social distancing this time to be safe and keep their loved ones safe too.

Sixthly, people did interact with their loved ones, family, and friends but not by hugging them directly rather through skype, what’s app, and Zoom calls.

A bit different though, yet not undermining the spirit of Eid.

Seventh, most people did not buy new clothes this Eid not because they could not afford them.

Rather stand with the ones who have lost their means of livelihood due to COVID-19.

This my friend, is the true spirit of Eid.

Eighthly, these Eid people have exclusively opened their hearts for the ones in need rather than focussing on the celebration among the better lot.

And lastly, on this Eid, people have employed new ways of making their Eid productive. They are flying kites on their rooftops.

Though maintaining social distancing, still their hearts are in line with each other.

In the end, I would like to say that these times are a test of our patience and determination to pull through.

We may in the future have many more Eids but the lessons we will learn now will go a long way.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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GRANDPARENTS

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