Childhood friends who are conscious about each others changing appearances

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Growing up, we all go through a lot of physical changes. We lose our baby teeth, grow taller, our voices deepen, and we develop secondary sexual characteristics. These changes can be both exciting and challenging, and having someone to share them with can be very comforting.

Childhood friendshttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friendship who have been through these changes together are more likely to be aware of and sensitive to each other’s changing appearances.

As children, we are not aware of our appearances, and we don’t care much about how we look. However, as we enter our teenage years, our appearance becomes more important to us. We become more aware of our bodies, and we start to compare ourselves to our peers.

This is the time when our childhood friends can be a great support system. They understand what we are going through because they are going through the same changes.

What are the Reasons that can lead to complications in Childhood Friendships?

Childhood friends can become conscious of each other’s changes for several reasons, including:

1. Fear of losing the friendship:

When childhood friends have known each other for a long time, they may feel like they have a bond that can never be broken.

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However, as they grow and change, they may start to see differences that make them feel like they are no longer compatible, causing them to become overly conscious of each other’s changes.

2. Feelings of insecurity:

When friends have known each other for a long time, they may feel like they know each other inside and out. As they grow and change, they may feel like they are losing touch with their friend, which can be unsettling and cause feelings of insecurity.

The impact of being too conscious of each other’s changes can be significant. It can cause feelings of discomfort, insecurity, and resentment, which can undermine the friendship and lead to a breakdown in communication.

It can also make it difficult for friends to be open and honest with each other, which is essential for any strong and positive relationship.

3. Difficulty accepting change:

It can be challenging for some people to accept changes in their friends, especially when those changes are significant. This can cause them to become overly conscious of their friend’s changes and make it difficult for them to maintain the friendship.

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However, being conscious of each other’s changing appearances can also have some negative effects.

Sometimes, childhood friends can become too focused on appearance and can develop body image issues.

They may compare themselves to each other and feel inadequate if they don’t measure up to their friend’s appearance.

This can lead to low self-esteem and negative body image.

4. Nostalgia:

Childhood friends may become conscious of each other’s changes because they have memories of their past together that they hold dear. When they see their friend changing, they may become nostalgic for the past and resist the present.

As we grow older, our appearances continue to change. We start to develop wrinkles, gray hair, and other signs of aging. These changes can be challenging, and it is natural to feel self-conscious about them.

Childhood friends who are aware of each other’s changing appearances can help to alleviate some of these insecurities. They understand that aging is a natural process, and they accept each other for who they are.

How Childhood friendships can play a constructive role in our Lives?

Having childhood friends who are conscious of each other’s changing appearances can also be helpful in terms of health.

1. Seeking Medical Attention:

Friends who notice changes in each other’s appearance can encourage their friends to seek medical attention if needed. For example, if a friend notices a mole that has changed in size or color, they can encourage their friend to see a dermatologist.

If a friend notices that their friend has lost or gained a lot of weight, they can encourage their friend to see a doctor to make sure there are no underlying health issues.

2. Noticing Emotional Changes:

Childhood friends who are conscious of each other’s changing appearances are not only aware of physical changes but also emotional changes.

They notice when their friend is happy or sad, when they are struggling with something, or when they are going through a difficult time. They are sensitive to their friend’s needs and are always there to support them.

3. Keep a Balance:

It is essential to strike a balance between being aware of each other’s changing appearances and not being too focused on appearance.

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Childhood friends should focus on accepting each other for who they are and not placing too much emphasis on appearance.

They should support each other in being healthy and happy rather than trying to look a certain way.

These friends have been there with us through thick and thin. They have been with us since our formative years and have seen us grow up into the people we are today.

Childhood friends are the ones we share our secrets with, play with, and learn with. They are the ones who know us better than anyone else, and it is natural for them to be conscious of each other’s changing appearances.

4. Communication:

It is important for childhood friends to communicate and understand each other’s perspectives and to accept each other for who they are, regardless of any changes that may occur. By doing so, they can strengthen their friendship and build a more supportive and positive relationship.

This can be done by taking the time to talk openly and honestly about what is happening, what each person is feeling, and what they hope to achieve from the friendship.

It is also important to accept each other for who they are, regardless of any changes that may occur. This means being supportive, understanding, and non-judgmental, even if you do not always agree with each other’s choices or decisions.

Conclusion:

Childhood friendships are often some of the strongest and most meaningful relationships that we have in our lives. They often form the foundation for our social lives and provide a sense of comfort and security that can last a lifetime.
However, when childhood friends become too conscious of each other’s changes, it can lead to severe challenges in the friendship.
This can cause feelings of insecurity, discomfort, and resentment, and can sometimes even lead to the breakdown of the friendship altogether.
One should always remember that a true friendship is one that is built on mutual respect, trust, and support, and that is able to withstand any changes that may occur.

 

 

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NEW BEGINNINGS; THE POWER OF SELF HEALING

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NEW BEGINNINGS; THE POWER OF SELF HEALING

Hello Folks!

The Search for I/Me is like a book of new beginnings that is similar to coming into this world. Except for the fact that our realities differ then and now in terms of self-healing and discovery.https://www.sabahataamir.com/what-makes-life-worth-living/

When we come into this world, we are accepted as Individuals with open arms irrespective of our Genders or the attitude we may form in the later years of our life. This not only alters our individuality but tends to make us a cog, strangled in Reality altogether.

As we grow older our personality starts taking the shape formulated by other people’s opinions/family/relatives/ society etc. In this whole process the word, I/Me/Individuality is lost in the abyss giving power to the Reality of bonds.

We become what others want us to become. Some people accept this as their fate whereas others whom the society calls by such names as rebels, stereotypes, black sheep, or even as vagabonds do not accept this fate.

Today, I will give you an insight into such people and the power of self-healing. This blog is based on my personal observations and experiences.

VAGABONDS:

Firstly, they are no vagabonds. They are as much as you and me but with a slightly different lens to view the world. They are the real people for they are simple, honest, truthful, and take the world as it is. I would unhesitantly say that they are as pure and innocent as babies.

ACCEPTANCE:

Secondly, they are never accepted for who they are. They have to fight all their life to make people understand them and to accept who they are. I would not call such people stereotypes.

They are like visionaries who look a step forward which common people cannot see. More or less they are like people born out of their time. History is full of examples of such people who were born in the wrong place, in the wrong time then, and even in the present times.

YEARNING:

Thirdly, they have a yearning, a thirst to be felt needed, wanted, and be loved and owned by their family.

Here too, they are out cased and thrown in front of the selfish world like some lunatic to learn lessons and behave according to the family desires and thinking. These people need to be recognized and be brought up according to their needs and thinking.

 

ROLE OF PARENTS

Fourthly, parents need to update themselves according to the latest technology, training, and psychological patterns of human behavior to let their children be who they want to be. Turning down their thoughts and creativity paralyzes them for life.

Putting oneself in their shoes and sensing how it feels to shun one’s right to liberty, though, experimenting with things a child/adult thinks important to him. How can they fly if you as parents cut their wings?

STRANGLED:

Fifthly, they are strangled in the bond of acceptance from family. Further, when they move into family life, they are strangled into another bond of relationship.

Such relationship be it fruitful or fruitless has to continue in the name of what people may say or that parents won’t accept you for speaking out.

Either, the life is ended by remaining bonded with the burdened relationship or one achieves ultimate freedom. It all depends on how sound you are in terms of survival.

MANIPULATIONS:

Sixth, while going through all the processes, one is manipulated according to the situation; yes that applies to all of us. We are molded through trial and experience and turn out to be what we are.

But the stereotypes are the ones who come out as gems. They are the ones who truly show who they are? They are the ones who change the people around them.

They take the pains of people as their own, distributing smiles along the way, living a pauper life yet ready to give whatever they have especially their goodness of heart and time.

 

In the end, I would like to say that we are no one to judge who is a vagabond or a stereotype. We all come with a purpose to serve. Some find that purpose earlier yet others spent all their lives to find that purpose strangled in various forms.

And during that journey, we may hurt many through our actions but that does not mean we do not love them or care any less for them. It is just that we are as naive as they are and are struggling to co-exist. As Roy T. Bennett,

           

“The outer world is a reflection of the inner world. Other people’s perception of you is a reflection of them; your response to them is an awareness of you”.

 

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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WANT OF A MAN

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WANT OF A MAN

 

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered what men want from a woman in Pakistan? I know what you are thinking and many of you will second my thoughts. Today, I will share with you some of the insights regarding men’s wants.

Previously, I discussed a woman’s want but today I will keep my focus on men exclusively.

Firstly, most men are looking out for a good time with any woman. They are least bothered about the cultural barriers or background or likes or dislikes.

Their uttermost concern is that it has to be something that can be portrayed as a woman even if it is a bottle.

Secondly, most of the time, men will approach women in the name of friendship and it is only a matter of exchanging some messages, they will come to their motives.

You need to be vigilant to understand where the conversation is going. However, men too differ as women do.

Thirdly, sometimes, they just reach out to share their side of the story. Not all men coming after women have the same want.

Wants differ from person to person as well as the situation. And men too, are cultured, to understand this.

Fourthly, every man wants to find true love in the form of a wife or family, or even friends. Every one of us needs to play a positive role in this scenario.

As an individual, we need to think out of the box to assure our insecurities and insecurities of the one called a man. If you have a clear mind, you will know how to go about all this.

Another want of a man is related to something we called vulnerability. He wants an assurance where he and his love can be accepted and nurtured. He may not accept this because he thinks it is childish to accept it in front of a woman of her dreams or wife or even family.

It is a very simple and innocent want and requires acceptance from the person across the border.

Lastly, as a society, we treat our men as superior being unlikely to make any mistake or even commit to one or even accept things. We need to think out of the box and give them space too.

The wants can only be addressed when we are ready to accept them as they are; be they introvert, extrovert, expressive, nonexpressive, self-centered, etc.,

The want of a man needs to be tackled at the family level first. When there is acceptance in the family, everything will ultimately fall in place in the long run.

You don’t have to turn them into Jackal and Hyde to realize this.  Think about it.

Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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