WANT OF A MAN
Have you ever wondered what men want from a woman in Pakistan? I know what you are thinking and many of you will second my thoughts. Today, I will share with you some of the insights regarding men’s wants.
Previously, I discussed a woman’s want but today I will keep my focus on men exclusively.
Firstly, most men are looking out for a good time with any woman. They are least bothered about the cultural barriers or background or likes or dislikes.
Their uttermost concern is that it has to be something that can be portrayed as a woman even if it is a bottle.
Secondly, most of the time, men will approach women in the name of friendship and it is only a matter of exchanging some messages, they will come to their motives.
You need to be vigilant to understand where the conversation is going. However, men too differ as women do.
Thirdly, sometimes, they just reach out to share their side of the story. Not all men coming after women have the same want.
Wants differ from person to person as well as the situation. And men too, are cultured, to understand this.
Fourthly, every man wants to find true love in the form of a wife or family, or even friends. Every one of us needs to play a positive role in this scenario.
As an individual, we need to think out of the box to assure our insecurities and insecurities of the one called a man. If you have a clear mind, you will know how to go about all this.
Another want of a man is related to something we called vulnerability. He wants an assurance where he and his love can be accepted and nurtured. He may not accept this because he thinks it is childish to accept it in front of a woman of her dreams or wife or even family.
It is a very simple and innocent want and requires acceptance from the person across the border.
Lastly, as a society, we treat our men as superior being unlikely to make any mistake or even commit to one or even accept things. We need to think out of the box and give them space too.
The wants can only be addressed when we are ready to accept them as they are; be they introvert, extrovert, expressive, nonexpressive, self-centered, etc.,
The want of a man needs to be tackled at the family level first. When there is acceptance in the family, everything will ultimately fall in place in the long run.
You don’t have to turn them into Jackal and Hyde to realize this. Think about it.
Until next time, stay safe and healthy.