How Pornography Jeopardizes Relationships?

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Effects of Pornography on Relationships

 

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered, what Porn can do to the mind, body, and soul?

 

Not to mention the overall impact it has on jeopardizing the relationship between a husband and wife.

 

Today, I aim to delve into the effects of Pornography and how it jeopardizes relationships between husband and wife. So let’s start.

 

Before starting, we need to know what is Pornography.

 

Well, Pornography encompasses material that is predominantly sexually explicit and intended primarily for the purpose of sexual arousal.

 

The first effect of Pornography on the relationship is that it leads to anti-social behavior toward the partners, women in general, and even rape victims.

 

Male viewers tend to be more aggressive towards women particularly their partners and less responsive to the pain and suffering their partners might face.

 

The second effect of pornography on the relationship is that it induces violence. The relationship between partners is very pure, based on mutual consent.

 

There is no room for violence in such relationships. The ultimate motive should be pleasure rather than pain.

 

The third effect of pornography on the relationship is that it diminishes a person’s sexual happiness.

 

Such males have an inclination to diminished satisfaction with their sexual partners’ physical appearance, affection, curiosity, and sexual performance.

 

They are more inclined towards sex without emotional involvement.

 

The fourth effect of pornography on the relationship is the loss of interest in actual sex. The males may lose interest in the advances of their partners.

 

This makes them seem distant or even uninterested when you try to engage with them sexually. You may even need to use more strategies to arouse them before they can perform.

 

The fifth effect of pornography on relationships is that it makes the male more demanding.

 

They can easily be frustrated and alienate their partners due to their unrealistic ideals about sex.

 

This can lead to emotional and physical distress in the partner making them uncomfortable altogether.

 

The sixth effect of pornography on relationships leads to a lack of communication and time. When all the time is allocated towards one cause, there is no room left for communication with the partner.

 

And we all know, where this is going to lead the marriage.

 

And Lastly, the effect of pornography on the relationship leads to oral sex, group sex, anal sex, and sadomasochism.

 

In the end, I would like to say that God created both men and women in His image as sexual beings. Due to the sins in the world, sex has been misused and abused.

 

Pornography not only attacks the dignity of men and women but also distorts the gift of sex which should be practiced only within the bounds of marriage. (This may vary in different cultures).

 

The Holy scriptures maintain a basic modesty toward women and men’s sexual organs and condemn the practices that result from pornography such as sexual exposure, adultery, bestiality, homosexuality, incest, and prostitution.

 

Pornography is an addiction that ruins not only the life of one individual but also the people associated with that individual. As soon as someone close to you starts showing signs of pornography, seek their help at the earliest before they can ruin their and others’ life.

 

Think about it.

 

Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

 

 

 

 

 

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A CHANGED BODY: HERE IS WHERE I EXIST

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A CHANGED BODY: HERE  IS WHERE I EXIST

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Have you ever had the feeling of being unacceptable for the way you look? About your changed body, about your existence, I have it every day.

Today, I will give you another insight into a married woman’s life and the role people play in her day-to-day life. So let’s start.

A girl/woman goes through many phases before she is accepted to be someone’s life partner. The real test starts after the marriage.

However, she makes so many compromises and sacrifices to make an ideal marriage. She is always lurking on the edge to make it work.

Sometimes even fighting with the insecurities she might face. So, everyone has their own monsters/battles to fight.

I fight my battles every day with the acidic people in my surroundings who keep on reminding me about the way I look.

And the weight I have put on, the spots I have on my face, and whatnot. How do I deal with them? I will tell you shortly.

A question for the sensible people out there. Does being married to a girl /woman who is beautiful before marriage put a tag around her neck of being sold to you?

You got it right. She is married and not sold to you. Being beautiful from the outside forever is not a guarantee that you sign in your marriage contract.

However, the marriage contract does not say that apparent beauty cannot expire. It may expire soon or late but what won’t expire is that what lies inside her/you/me.

Women and their bodies change at an incredible speed after childbirth. Does that mean they have left their inner beauty? Not at all.

Then why do husbands fail to see it? Their only concern is the outside beauty. I have seen women kill themselves to get their pre-pregnancy bodies back.

Seriously, how good is the outside physique if it is being rotten bit by bit by your(husband’s) acidic remarks.

Physical beauty might be a small part of a relationship but for sensible people, it is not even that factor. In Pakistan, most people marry for looks, wealth, and all that sparkle.

Virtuous women don’t look for these things in a husband. They need husbands who can respect them and accept them, cherish them, no matter how ugly they might become.

Physical beauty https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness is a factor that needs to be eliminated in marriages and there is a dire need to change the mindset of the majority.

In a changed body; this is the height of sacrifice, a woman makes to complete the family; knowing she may or may not come back to her normal self/physical state, but she is ready to take the risk.

Both my pregnancies were difficult ones. At my daughter’s birth, I had shooting blood pressure and had to go for a C-section.

Similarly, at my son’s birth, I had borderline, Diabetics. So, I had another C-section.

Now, I have neither Diabetics nor blood pressure but have a changed body along with the most beautiful kids in my life who are my pillars of strength.

I am not embarrassed by the way I look. I have been blessed with what people will give millions to have.

I live every day for them as they are my strength. I might be many people’s strength but my strength lies in their smiles, their wishes, their joys, and the people I love, etc.,

Anyone can survive acidic husbands if they have strengths in their lives. These strengths can be in the form of good friends, colleagues, sisters, brothers, aunts, acquaintances, followers, etc.,

In a changed body, here is where I exist. I have a wonderful audience who waits to read about what essence I have to share with them.

Those who can draw so many lessons from a single or multitudes of lives. Who make me go on in my endeavors to bring good around me.

So much so help me stay positive and on the right track. Thanks for being my pillars of strength.https://www.sabahataamir.com/body-size-does-n…ock-good-clothes/

 

In the end, I would like to say to all husbands out there to cherish their wives. Life is too short to waste on exchanging acidic remarks. Live each day as it is your last day.

Don’t accumulate bad memories to regret when time slips away from the hands

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading Folks!

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