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flashback 2021 explained

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flashback 2021 explained

Hello Folks!

Entering into 2022, many of us have many important thoughts, pieces of advice, and flashbacks to share. Today, I aim to share a few Flashbacks of 2021, with you. So let’s start.

The year, 2021, started with great aspirations and a pre-planned, mode of action to be implemented, for the year through but Nature had something else in mind. All aspirations and pre-planned things took a new course altogether leading to another New year.

Secondly, everyone witnessed new transformations in the way. Some optimistic yet some pessimistic; overall helping us all through difficult times.

Thirdly, the year 2021, turned out to be an eye-opener even for the Pharaohs of time. Never think of yourself as a sole power; there is one from whom no one can escape.

Fourthly, a Flashback on 2021 reiterates that nothing in this world is permanent. You will have it now and the next moment it will elapse from the hands like quicksand. Such has been the lives of many near and dear ones in the time of COVID.

Fifthly, 2021, taught many of us that true friendships are rare. Mostly, people are here for their own gains and benefits. Only a few will see eye to eye with your passions and concerns.

Sixth, invest your time and energy with your loved ones; for you will never get the chance once gone. Cherish them, embrace them and tell them that you love them and miss the times you spent together.

Life will go on the usual way it used to but you will not have them between you, in your lives to tell them how much you miss them.

Seventhly, take out time for those who you know not and invest time in them. Be it charity work or just a call. Your positive behavior matters to them.

In the end, I would like to say that there is only one life; value it and value those who love you and care about you. There is no rewind button. So cherish every moment and be a better version of yourself with each passing day.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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A CHANGED BODY: HERE IS WHERE I EXIST

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A CHANGED BODY: HERE IS WHERE I EXIST

Hello Folks!

Have you ever had the feeling of being unacceptable for the way you look? About your changed body, about your existence, I have it every day.

Today, I will give you another insight into a married woman’s life and the role people play in her day-to-day life. So let’s start.

A girl/woman goes through many phases before she is accepted to be someone’s life partner. The real test starts after the marriage.

However, she makes so many compromises and sacrifices to make an ideal marriage. She is always lurking on the edge to make it work.

Sometimes even fighting with the insecurities she might face. So, everyone has their own monsters/battles to fight.

I fight my battles every day with the acidic people in my surroundings who keep on reminding me about the way I look.

And the weight I have put on, the spots I have on my face, and whatnot. How do I deal with them? I will tell you shortly.

A question for the sensible people out there. Does being married to a girl /woman who is beautiful before marriage put a tag around her neck of being sold to you?

You got it right. She is married and not sold to you. Being beautiful from the outside forever is not a guarantee that you sign in your marriage contract.

However, the marriage contract does not say that apparent beauty cannot expire. It may expire soon or late but what won’t expire is that what lies inside her/you/me.

Women and their bodies change at an incredible speed after childbirth. Does that mean they have left their inner beauty? Not at all.

Then why do husbands fail to see it? Their only concern is the outside beauty. I have seen women kill themselves to get their pre-pregnancy bodies back.

Seriously, how good is the outside physique if it is being rotten bit by bit by your(husband’s) acidic remarks.

Physical beauty might be a small part of a relationship but for sensible people, it is not even that factor. In Pakistan, most people marry for looks, wealth, and all that sparkle.

Virtuous women don’t look for these things in a husband. They need husbands who can respect them and accept them, cherish them, no matter how ugly they might become.

Physical beauty https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness is a factor that needs to be eliminated in marriages and there is a dire need to change the mindset of the majority.

In a changed body; this is the height of sacrifice, a woman makes to complete the family; knowing she may or may not come back to her normal self/physical state, but she is ready to take the risk.

Both my pregnancies were difficult ones. At my daughter’s birth, I had shooting blood pressure and had to go for a C-section.

Similarly, at my son’s birth, I had borderline, Diabetics. So, I had another C-section.

Now, I have neither Diabetics nor blood pressure but have a changed body along with the most beautiful kids in my life who are my pillars of strength.

I am not embarrassed by the way I look. I have been blessed with what people will give millions to have.

I live every day for them as they are my strength. I might be many people’s strength but my strength lies in their smiles, their wishes, their joys, and the people I love, etc.,

Anyone can survive acidic husbands if they have strengths in their lives. These strengths can be in the form of good friends, colleagues, sisters, brothers, aunts, acquaintances, followers, etc.,

In a changed body, here is where I exist. I have a wonderful audience who waits to read about what essence I have to share with them.

Those who can draw so many lessons from a single or multitudes of lives. Who make me go on in my endeavors to bring good around me.

So much so help me stay positive and on the right track. Thanks for being my pillars of strength.https://www.sabahataamir.com/body-size-does-n…ock-good-clothes/

In the end, I would like to say to all husbands out there to cherish their wives. Life is too short to waste on exchanging acidic remarks. Live each day as it is your last day.

Don’t accumulate bad memories to regret when time slips away from the hands

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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GRANDPARENTS

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GRANDPARENTS

Hello Folks!

How is the feeling of being loved and wanted generation after generation? It is a great feeling. Especially for those whose grandparents are alive.

In today’s busy lives, most of us have forgotten even if they exist. Today, I aim to talk about them and the impact Grandparents have in our lives. So let’s start.

Firstly, I could never have been the mother, I am if it wasn’t for them. I owe it to them for what I am today.

Parenting is no easy task. Every generation has its own problems, which the parents need to tackle.

However, if they are around, the pain is lessened to a great extent.

Secondly, the Grandparents act as a bridge between the parents and the new generation.

They pass down the ethics, history, and traditions to the generations to cherish them.

It is a great asset for our generations and they should take pride in it.

Thirdly, the love and affection of Grandparents for their grandchildren is manifold in so many ways.

At times, we as parents complain that we had a more strict course of action to follow as compared to our children.

Fourthly, they have so much to share in terms of experience and skills, even a lifetime looks less to learn from them.

Fifthly, the patience and determination borne by them have no alternative. As parents, children, every one of us should learn something from them be it small or big.

Sixth, grandparents are the real spoilers when it comes to children and we should not mind at all.

All year long, parents discipline their children according to them.

So really there is no harm if children can have their way around in the company of grandparents.

Seventh, children who do not have grandparents should adopt other people’s grandparents and see the miracles themselves.

A Visit to a destitute or a senior care home is always good.

And Lastly, grandparents only need our time and love.

We as children often fail to acknowledge their presence and forget to tell them how much we love them.

It is never too late to make amends. Time is ticking.

I would therefore like to reiterate that grandparents are a blessing in disguise. One needs to cherish them the way one cherishes their own children.

It is never too late to make amends and look for better days to come. Think about it.

Until next time, stay safe and happy.

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A CHANGED BODY: HERE IS WHERE I EXIST

Hello Folks!

Have you ever had the feeling of being unacceptable for the way you look? About your changed body, about your existence, I have it every day.

Today, I will give you another insight into a married woman’s life and the role people play in her day-to-day life. So let’s start.

A girl/woman goes through many phases before she is accepted to be someone’s life partner. The real test starts after the marriage.

However, she makes so many compromises and sacrifices to make an ideal marriage. She is always lurking on the edge to make it work.

Sometimes even fighting with the insecurities she might face. So, everyone has their own monsters/battles to fight.

I fight my battles every day with the acidic people in my surroundings who keep on reminding me about the way I look.

And the weight I have put on, the spots I have on my face, and whatnot. How do I deal with them? I will tell you shortly.

A question for the sensible people out there. Does being married to a girl /woman who is beautiful before marriage put a tag around her neck of being sold to you?

You got it right. She is married and not sold to you. Being beautiful from the outside forever is not a guarantee that you sign in your marriage contract.

However, the marriage contract does not say that apparent beauty cannot expire. It may expire soon or late but what won’t expire is that what lies inside her/you/me.

Women and their bodies change at an incredible speed after childbirth. Does that mean they have left their inner beauty? Not at all.

Then why do husbands fail to see it? Their only concern is the outside beauty. I have seen women kill themselves to get their pre-pregnancy bodies back.

Seriously, how good is the outside physique if it is being rotten bit by bit by your(husband’s) acidic remarks.

Physical beauty might be a small part of a relationship but for sensible people, it is not even that factor. In Pakistan, most people marry for looks, wealth, and all that sparkle.

Virtuous women don’t look for these things in a husband. They need husbands who can respect them and accept them, cherish them, no matter how ugly they might become.

Physical beauty https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness is a factor that needs to be eliminated in marriages and there is a dire need to change the mindset of the majority.

In a changed body; this is the height of sacrifice, a woman makes to complete the family; knowing she may or may not come back to her normal self/physical state, but she is ready to take the risk.

Both my pregnancies were difficult ones. At my daughter’s birth, I had shooting blood pressure and had to go for a C-section.

Similarly, at my son’s birth, I had borderline, Diabetics. So, I had another C-section.

Now, I have neither Diabetics nor blood pressure but have a changed body along with the most beautiful kids in my life who are my pillars of strength.

I am not embarrassed by the way I look. I have been blessed with what people will give millions to have.

I live every day for them as they are my strength. I might be many people’s strength but my strength lies in their smiles, their wishes, their joys, and the people I love, etc.,

Anyone can survive acidic husbands if they have strengths in their lives. These strengths can be in the form of good friends, colleagues, sisters, brothers, aunts, acquaintances, followers, etc.,

In a changed body, here is where I exist. I have a wonderful audience who waits to read about what essence I have to share with them.

Those who can draw so many lessons from a single or multitudes of lives. Who make me go on in my endeavors to bring good around me.

So much so help me stay positive and on the right track. Thanks for being my pillars of strength.https://www.sabahataamir.com/body-size-does-n…ock-good-clothes/

In the end, I would like to say to all husbands out there to cherish their wives. Life is too short to waste on exchanging acidic remarks. Live each day as it is your last day.

Don’t accumulate bad memories to regret when time slips away from the hands

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading Folks!

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GRANDPARENTS

Hello Folks!

How is the feeling of being loved and wanted generation after generation? It is a great feeling. Especially for those whose grandparents are alive.

In today’s busy lives, most of us have forgotten even if they exist. Today, I aim to talk about them and the impact Grandparents have in our lives. So let’s start.

Firstly, I could never have been the mother, I am if it wasn’t for them. I owe it to them for what I am today.

Parenting is no easy task. Every generation has its own problems, which the parents need to tackle.

However, if they are around, the pain is lessened to a great extent.

Secondly, the Grandparents act as a bridge between the parents and the new generation.

They pass down the ethics, history, and traditions to the generations to cherish them.

It is a great asset for our generations and they should take pride in it.

Thirdly, the love and affection of Grandparents for their grandchildren is manifold in so many ways.

At times, we as parents complain that we had a more strict course of action to follow as compared to our children.

Fourthly, they have so much to share in terms of experience and skills, even a lifetime looks less to learn from them.

Fifthly, the patience and determination borne by them have no alternative. As parents, children, every one of us should learn something from them be it small or big.

Sixth, grandparents are the real spoilers when it comes to children and we should not mind at all.

All year long, parents discipline their children according to them.

So really there is no harm if children can have their way around in the company of grandparents.

Seventh, children who do not have grandparents should adopt other people’s grandparents and see the miracles themselves.

A Visit to a destitute or a senior care home is always good.

And Lastly, grandparents only need our time and love.

We as children often fail to acknowledge their presence and forget to tell them how much we love them.

It is never too late to make amends. Time is ticking.

I would therefore like to reiterate that grandparents are a blessing in disguise. One needs to cherish them the way one cherishes their own children.

It is never too late to make amends and look for better days to come. Think about it.

Until next time, stay safe and happy.

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