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WHAT MAKES LIFE WORTH LIVING

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WHAT MAKES LIFE WORTH LIVING

“Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human

being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this

light”

Albert Schweitzer

https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/55109-sometimes-our-light-goes-out-but-is-blown-again-into#:~

Hello Folks!

Today is a very special day for me and I want to share some life gained experiences till now. What makes life worth living. So let’s start.

Now and then, we are faced with confusion, anxiety, and even questions; if life is worth living. Obviously, as humans, we do come across such questions in our lives.

What matters at the end of the day is to analyze the output/by-product of all our efforts of the years gone by. That will help us in understanding whether life is worth living.

Helping others makes my life worth living. The satisfaction I gain from it cannot be explained in words.

The smiles and joy that it puts on People’s faces are of great value to me and I would love to cherish each day with the same zest and zeal.

Secondly, is the Purpose in Life. Life is not just being happy. It has much more to offer.

As humans and individuals, our aim should be, be useful, honorable, and be compassionate. To make a difference and say it out loud that one has lived and lived well.

Thirdly, Focus on Developing Meaningful Relationships. Our relationships with people in our environment give solid meaning to our lives. Thus making it worth living.

However, we need to be very careful while fostering relationships with people. Supportive relationships help us in excelling to our purpose in life whereas non-supportive relationships can bring us down.

Fourthly, a Positive Mindset is a must thing for having a life that is worth living.No one has ever gained anything productive from a negative mindset.

The more positive and productive the thoughts are, the more productive would be the output.

Fifth is Appraisal.No one can progress without the acknowledgment or appraisal from others for what you have done or are doing.

Positive appraisal or acknowledgment can take one to greater heights of achievement making life worth living after all.

Sixth is the Sense of Achievement which makes life worth living. Achievement can be anything from simple to complex.

For some upbringing of children in the most productive way is an achievement. For others, pursuing a top-most career is an achievement.

Whatever, be the achievement, make sure, you are satisfied with it fully.

Seventh is Gratitude which makes life worth living. Whatever small or big you have gained, be gratified for it.

Do not make your or others’ life miserable for what you do not have or have not gained.

Eighth, Love with all your might. Always give without expecting anything in return. You, yourself will witness the benefits in countless ways.

Ninth, Listen to what others have to say. Not everyone gets the privilege to be a listener. It’s a gift and needs to be used very wisely. Thus making life worth living.

And Lastly, learn from other people’s mistakes instead of creating your own. This keeps you ahead of everyone.

Never fear to take the advice of someone younger than you. They might have more wisdom than you have.

In the end, I would like to reiterate that there are so many other things in life than the ones mentioned above worth living.

If one is a seeker, one will find them in the due course of time. As Barack Obama once said; https://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/6356.Barack_Obama

“The best way to not feel hopeless is to get up and do something. Don’t wait for good things to happen to you. If you go out and make some good things happen, you will fill the world with hope, you will fill yourself with hope.”

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BONDING BETWEEN SIBLINGS

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BONDING BETWEEN SIBLINGS

Hello Folks!

We are so struck in our day to day chores that we forget about the little gestures that make life worth living.This keeps on reminding me of Words Worth poem; ” we have no time to stand and stare…”

So here,I am today to talk about the times we spent as siblings.The bonding/relationship between a brother and sister is one of its kind.A beautiful yet sacred relation.Yet it varies; sibling to sibling.

A good bonding/relationship is always based on the people in your surrounding.If one gets positive vibes from the surroundings, the relationships will be of a different kind.

If there are negatives vibes in the surroundings, so would it effect the bonding/relationships.

Let us try to dive deep between the bonding/relationship of a brother and sister.I have often observed that relationship has a lot to do with number placements within a core family.

A boy who is elder than the other siblings will altogether act in a different way.More responsible,independent, caring and organized.This is because of the models he would be having in front of him.

On the other hand, a boy who is second, third or even fourth in placement may act in a more different way as compared to the older siblings. More dependent,loving, caring and protective.

Whatever the number placements, all brothers have their own way of expressing their love and care for their sisters.

Most of the time they are observed being fighting on trivial issues such as why did she take my car? or This is my teddy bear.And the sisters would say that mommy, daddy bought it for all.

This is the time when their arguing skills are developing and it is best not to intervene.Let them come up with a solution.If they need your assistance, they will definitely approach you.

Till then sit back and relax;but do keep your ears open just in case things get out of hand.

Then, i have seen brothers and sisters teasing one another.At times, it is really fun to see where do they get such ideas.We are talking about our future generations.

Here, too if you observe,you will find a lot of insight about their behaviors and how you, as a parent need to tackle them.

Often, siblings are seen spending quality time together by watching their favorite TV shows or You Tube videos or even some movie.And this is how they are bonding good relationships in the years to come.

But, what I, enjoy the most is their looking at past time games as a reminder of the times they used to have.They would indulge in it with the same zest and zeal as they used to when they were children.

Pick up any board game of that time and see the reaction of your children. I am sure you will enjoy watching as much I do.

These are simple pleasures of life and long lasting bonding’s that remain long after we are gone.

Every child and his or her relationship with their sibling is unique.As a parent, we need to foster their bonds in the most productive way without undermining the other.

They may be offended with us at times for not behaving in the way they thought us to.That my friend, is called parenthood.We all trial and experience before we learn the right tactics.

In the end, I would like to say that enjoy these bonding’s while you can.Bring out the best in yourself and others.Praise those around you in a productive way.You never know whose life depends on your single word of praise or motivation.

Until next time, Happy Reading.

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WHAT MAKES LIFE WORTH LIVING

“Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human

being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this

light”

Albert Schweitzer

Hello Folks!

Today is a very special day for me and I want to share some life gained experiences till now. What makes life worth living. So let’s start.

Now and then, we are faced with confusion, anxiety, and even questions; if life is worth living. Obviously, as humans, we do come across such questions in our lives.

What matters at the end of the day is to analyze the output/by-product of all our efforts of the years gone by. That will help us in understanding whether life is worth living.

Helping others makes my life worth living. The satisfaction I gain from it cannot be explained in words.

The smiles and joy that it puts on People’s faces are of great value to me and I would love to cherish each day with the same zest and zeal.

Secondly, is the Purpose in Life. Life is not just being happy. It has much more to offer.

As humans and individuals, our aim should be, be useful, honorable, and be compassionate. To make a difference and say it out loud that one has lived and lived well.

Thirdly, Focus on Developing Meaningful Relationships. Our relationships with people in our environment give solid meaning to our lives. Thus making it worth living.

However, we need to be very careful while fostering relationships with people. Supportive relationships help us in excelling to our purpose in life whereas non-supportive relationships can bring us down.

Fourthly, a Positive Mindset is a must thing for having a life that is worth living.No one has ever gained anything productive from a negative mindset.

The more positive and productive the thoughts are, the more productive would be the output.

Fifth is Appraisal.No one can progress without the acknowledgment or appraisal from others for what you have done or are doing.

Positive appraisal or acknowledgment can take one to greater heights of achievement making life worth living after all.

Sixth is the Sense of Achievement which makes life worth living. Achievement can be anything from simple to complex.

For some upbringing of children in the most productive way is an achievement. For others, pursuing a top-most career is an achievement.

Whatever, be the achievement, make sure, you are satisfied with it fully.

Seventh is Gratitude which makes life worth living. Whatever small or big you have gained, be gratified for it.

Do not make your or others’ life miserable for what you do not have or have not gained.

Eighth, Love with all your might. Always give without expecting anything in return. You, yourself will witness the benefits in countless ways.

Ninth, Listen to what others have to say. Not everyone gets the privilege to be a listener. It’s a gift and needs to be used very wisely. Thus making life worth living.

And Lastly, learn from other people’s mistakes instead of creating your own. This keeps you ahead of everyone.

Never fear to take the advice of someone younger than you. They might have more wisdom than you have.

In the end, I would like to reiterate that there are so many other things in life than the ones mentioned above worth living.

If one is a seeker, one will find them in the due course of time. As Barack Obama once said; https://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/6356.Barack_Obama

“The best way to not feel hopeless is to get up and do something. Don’t wait for good things to happen to you. If you go out and make some good things happen, you will fill the world with hope, you will fill yourself with hope.”

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BONDING BETWEEN SIBLINGS

Hello Folks!

We are so struck in our day to day chores that we forget about the little gestures that make life worth living.This keeps on reminding me of Words Worth poem; ” we have no time to stand and stare…”

So here,I am today to talk about the times we spent as siblings.The bonding/relationship between a brother and sister is one of its kind.A beautiful yet sacred relation.Yet it varies; sibling to sibling.

A good bonding/relationship is always based on the people in your surrounding.If one gets positive vibes from the surroundings, the relationships will be of a different kind.

If there are negatives vibes in the surroundings, so would it effect the bonding/relationships.

Let us try to dive deep between the bonding/relationship of a brother and sister.I have often observed that relationship has a lot to do with number placements within a core family.

A boy who is elder than the other siblings will altogether act in a different way.More responsible,independent, caring and organized.This is because of the models he would be having in front of him.

On the other hand, a boy who is second, third or even fourth in placement may act in a more different way as compared to the older siblings. More dependent,loving, caring and protective.

Whatever the number placements, all brothers have their own way of expressing their love and care for their sisters.

Most of the time they are observed being fighting on trivial issues such as why did she take my car? or This is my teddy bear.And the sisters would say that mommy, daddy bought it for all.

This is the time when their arguing skills are developing and it is best not to intervene.Let them come up with a solution.If they need your assistance, they will definitely approach you.

Till then sit back and relax;but do keep your ears open just in case things get out of hand.

Then, i have seen brothers and sisters teasing one another.At times, it is really fun to see where do they get such ideas.We are talking about our future generations.

Here, too if you observe,you will find a lot of insight about their behaviors and how you, as a parent need to tackle them.

Often, siblings are seen spending quality time together by watching their favorite TV shows or You Tube videos or even some movie.And this is how they are bonding good relationships in the years to come.

But, what I, enjoy the most is their looking at past time games as a reminder of the times they used to have.They would indulge in it with the same zest and zeal as they used to when they were children.

Pick up any board game of that time and see the reaction of your children. I am sure you will enjoy watching as much I do.

These are simple pleasures of life and long lasting bonding’s that remain long after we are gone.

Every child and his or her relationship with their sibling is unique.As a parent, we need to foster their bonds in the most productive way without undermining the other.

They may be offended with us at times for not behaving in the way they thought us to.That my friend, is called parenthood.We all trial and experience before we learn the right tactics.

In the end, I would like to say that enjoy these bonding’s while you can.Bring out the best in yourself and others.Praise those around you in a productive way.You never know whose life depends on your single word of praise or motivation.

Until next time, Happy Reading.

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