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NEW BEGINNINGS; THE POWER OF SELF HEALING

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NEW BEGINNINGS; THE POWER OF SELF HEALING

Hello Folks!

The Search for I/Me is like a book of new beginnings that is similar to coming into this world. Except for the fact that our realities differ then and now in terms of self-healing and discovery.https://www.sabahataamir.com/what-makes-life-worth-living/

When we come into this world, we are accepted as Individuals with open arms irrespective of our Genders or the attitude we may form in the later years of our life. This not only alters our individuality but tends to make us a cog, strangled in Reality altogether.

As we grow older our personality starts taking the shape formulated by other people’s opinions/family/relatives/ society etc. In this whole process the word, I/Me/Individuality is lost in the abyss giving power to the Reality of bonds.

We become what others want us to become. Some people accept this as their fate whereas others whom the society calls by such names as rebels, stereotypes, black sheep, or even as vagabonds do not accept this fate.

Today, I will give you an insight into such people and the power of self-healing. This blog is based on my personal observations and experiences.

VAGABONDS:

Firstly, they are no vagabonds. They are as much as you and me but with a slightly different lens to view the world. They are the real people for they are simple, honest, truthful, and take the world as it is. I would unhesitantly say that they are as pure and innocent as babies.

ACCEPTANCE:

Secondly, they are never accepted for who they are. They have to fight all their life to make people understand them and to accept who they are. I would not call such people stereotypes.

They are like visionaries who look a step forward which common people cannot see. More or less they are like people born out of their time. History is full of examples of such people who were born in the wrong place, in the wrong time then, and even in the present times.

YEARNING:

Thirdly, they have a yearning, a thirst to be felt needed, wanted, and be loved and owned by their family.

Here too, they are out cased and thrown in front of the selfish world like some lunatic to learn lessons and behave according to the family desires and thinking. These people need to be recognized and be brought up according to their needs and thinking.

ROLE OF PARENTS

Fourthly, parents need to update themselves according to the latest technology, training, and psychological patterns of human behavior to let their children be who they want to be. Turning down their thoughts and creativity paralyzes them for life.

Putting oneself in their shoes and sensing how it feels to shun one’s right to liberty, though, experimenting with things a child/adult thinks important to him. How can they fly if you as parents cut their wings?

STRANGLED:

Fifthly, they are strangled in the bond of acceptance from family. Further, when they move into family life, they are strangled into another bond of relationship.

Such relationship be it fruitful or fruitless has to continue in the name of what people may say or that parents won’t accept you for speaking out.

Either, the life is ended by remaining bonded with the burdened relationship or one achieves ultimate freedom. It all depends on how sound you are in terms of survival.

MANIPULATIONS:

Sixth, while going through all the processes, one is manipulated according to the situation; yes that applies to all of us. We are molded through trial and experience and turn out to be what we are.

But the stereotypes are the ones who come out as gems. They are the ones who truly show who they are? They are the ones who change the people around them.

They take the pains of people as their own, distributing smiles along the way, living a pauper life yet ready to give whatever they have especially their goodness of heart and time.

In the end, I would like to say that we are no one to judge who is a vagabond or a stereotype. We all come with a purpose to serve. Some find that purpose earlier yet others spent all their lives to find that purpose strangled in various forms.

And during that journey, we may hurt many through our actions but that does not mean we do not love them or care any less for them. It is just that we are as naive as they are and are struggling to co-exist. As Roy T. Bennett,

“The outer world is a reflection of the inner world. Other people’s perception of you is a reflection of them; your response to them is an awareness of you”.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading!

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SIGNS/SYMBOLS

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SIGNS/SYMBOLS

Hello Folks!

I have often wondered why is it said, one should always look for signs/symbols? Over the years, I have come to understand the reason for this.

Today, I aim at talking about signs/symbols and how they affect our day to day life. So let’s start.

As an individual, in our day to day life, I observe and look for signs/symbols that can smooth one’s life. And believe me, these signs are very transparent.

You just need to respond to them.

Most of the time, we are alone in life. We may not have parents who can attend to our problems or needs or siblings or our marital relations.

It is these signs/symbols that pull us through these times.

I would rather say that it is God in one or the other form who is protecting us from evil and bad that is spread out in the world and society at large.

We, as individuals and as a whole need to have a positive bent of mind to grasp these signs and symbols. Positivity always draws positivity, remember that.

In our day to day conversation with people at large, we come across all kinds of people.

I would recommend all of you to have a positive approach towards people. You never know, with what bent of mind they are approaching you.

They might be in grave need of talking to someone or might be going through some trouble in their financial lives. Don’t worry they will not ask for your money.WHY?

The reason is if they have self-respect, they will always offer you their skill in response to which you in return will offer them money. It is a two-way trade and you my friend, need to be vigilant to assess this.

The internet is full of fake and fraud people, I know and have seen much-extorting money from the innocent in the name of help and all kind of stories. Use your brain and don’t become prey to their sugar-coated tongue.

All the same, I would not deny the fact that this is the trouble times, and you never know, who around the corner is in desperate need and approaches you.

There are times when you need to listen to your heart than your mind and this is the reason why I reiterate on looking for signs/symbols around you.

And let me tell you one more thing, it is the Creator’s will to put fear and sympathy for the needy in your heart. Keep on doing your share without thinking for a moment, what will happen next.

There is a reason for people and events to come your way. Sometimes, you become a beacon of light for others, and sometimes it is vice versa. Whatever, the scenario, adapt accordingly.

Our Holy Book, again and again, refers us to look for signs and read between the lines. For, there is a clue for those who seek. Think about it.

Until next time stay Safe and Healthy.

Happy Reading.

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NEW BEGINNINGS; THE POWER OF SELF HEALING

Hello Folks!

The Search for I/Me is like a book of new beginnings that is similar to coming into this world. Except for the fact that our realities differ then and now in terms of self-healing and discovery.https://www.sabahataamir.com/what-makes-life-worth-living/

When we come into this world, we are accepted as Individuals with open arms irrespective of our Genders or the attitude we may form in the later years of our life. This not only alters our individuality but tends to make us a cog, strangled in Reality altogether.

As we grow older our personality starts taking the shape formulated by other people’s opinions/family/relatives/ society etc. In this whole process the word, I/Me/Individuality is lost in the abyss giving power to the Reality of bonds.

We become what others want us to become. Some people accept this as their fate whereas others whom the society calls by such names as rebels, stereotypes, black sheep, or even as vagabonds do not accept this fate.

Today, I will give you an insight into such people and the power of self-healing. This blog is based on my personal observations and experiences.

VAGABONDS:

Firstly, they are no vagabonds. They are as much as you and me but with a slightly different lens to view the world. They are the real people for they are simple, honest, truthful, and take the world as it is. I would unhesitantly say that they are as pure and innocent as babies.

ACCEPTANCE:

Secondly, they are never accepted for who they are. They have to fight all their life to make people understand them and to accept who they are. I would not call such people stereotypes.

They are like visionaries who look a step forward which common people cannot see. More or less they are like people born out of their time. History is full of examples of such people who were born in the wrong place, in the wrong time then, and even in the present times.

YEARNING:

Thirdly, they have a yearning, a thirst to be felt needed, wanted, and be loved and owned by their family.

Here too, they are out cased and thrown in front of the selfish world like some lunatic to learn lessons and behave according to the family desires and thinking. These people need to be recognized and be brought up according to their needs and thinking.

ROLE OF PARENTS

Fourthly, parents need to update themselves according to the latest technology, training, and psychological patterns of human behavior to let their children be who they want to be. Turning down their thoughts and creativity paralyzes them for life.

Putting oneself in their shoes and sensing how it feels to shun one’s right to liberty, though, experimenting with things a child/adult thinks important to him. How can they fly if you as parents cut their wings?

STRANGLED:

Fifthly, they are strangled in the bond of acceptance from family. Further, when they move into family life, they are strangled into another bond of relationship.

Such relationship be it fruitful or fruitless has to continue in the name of what people may say or that parents won’t accept you for speaking out.

Either, the life is ended by remaining bonded with the burdened relationship or one achieves ultimate freedom. It all depends on how sound you are in terms of survival.

MANIPULATIONS:

Sixth, while going through all the processes, one is manipulated according to the situation; yes that applies to all of us. We are molded through trial and experience and turn out to be what we are.

But the stereotypes are the ones who come out as gems. They are the ones who truly show who they are? They are the ones who change the people around them.

They take the pains of people as their own, distributing smiles along the way, living a pauper life yet ready to give whatever they have especially their goodness of heart and time.

In the end, I would like to say that we are no one to judge who is a vagabond or a stereotype. We all come with a purpose to serve. Some find that purpose earlier yet others spent all their lives to find that purpose strangled in various forms.

And during that journey, we may hurt many through our actions but that does not mean we do not love them or care any less for them. It is just that we are as naive as they are and are struggling to co-exist. As Roy T. Bennett,

“The outer world is a reflection of the inner world. Other people’s perception of you is a reflection of them; your response to them is an awareness of you”.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading!

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SIGNS/SYMBOLS

Hello Folks!

I have often wondered why is it said, one should always look for signs/symbols? Over the years, I have come to understand the reason for this.

Today, I aim at talking about signs/symbols and how they affect our day to day life. So let’s start.

As an individual, in our day to day life, I observe and look for signs/symbols that can smooth one’s life. And believe me, these signs are very transparent.

You just need to respond to them.

Most of the time, we are alone in life. We may not have parents who can attend to our problems or needs or siblings or our marital relations.

It is these signs/symbols that pull us through these times.

I would rather say that it is God in one or the other form who is protecting us from evil and bad that is spread out in the world and society at large.

We, as individuals and as a whole need to have a positive bent of mind to grasp these signs and symbols. Positivity always draws positivity, remember that.

In our day to day conversation with people at large, we come across all kinds of people.

I would recommend all of you to have a positive approach towards people. You never know, with what bent of mind they are approaching you.

They might be in grave need of talking to someone or might be going through some trouble in their financial lives. Don’t worry they will not ask for your money.WHY?

The reason is if they have self-respect, they will always offer you their skill in response to which you in return will offer them money. It is a two-way trade and you my friend, need to be vigilant to assess this.

The internet is full of fake and fraud people, I know and have seen much-extorting money from the innocent in the name of help and all kind of stories. Use your brain and don’t become prey to their sugar-coated tongue.

All the same, I would not deny the fact that this is the trouble times, and you never know, who around the corner is in desperate need and approaches you.

There are times when you need to listen to your heart than your mind and this is the reason why I reiterate on looking for signs/symbols around you.

And let me tell you one more thing, it is the Creator’s will to put fear and sympathy for the needy in your heart. Keep on doing your share without thinking for a moment, what will happen next.

There is a reason for people and events to come your way. Sometimes, you become a beacon of light for others, and sometimes it is vice versa. Whatever, the scenario, adapt accordingly.

Our Holy Book, again and again, refers us to look for signs and read between the lines. For, there is a clue for those who seek. Think about it.

Until next time stay Safe and Healthy.

Happy Reading.

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