Effects of Porn on Youth/Teens

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Effects Of Inappropriate Content On Minors

 

Hello Folks!

 

Earlier, I discussed, how pornography jeopardizes relationships. Today, I aim at discussing the effect pornography has on Youth/ Teens. So let’s start.https://www.sabahataamir.com/how-pornography-…es-relationships/

 

Firstly, the Youth/ Teenagers involved in the activity of porn lose their interest in things related to social interaction, developing good friendships, communication with family, and things that can give a boost to their personality.

 

Secondly, watching pornography is a sin and it can lead to bigger sins. Our Youth/Teens may not be mentally developed to make healthy choices for themselves. Let alone watch such stuff without any parental guidance.

 

They may or may not be successful while watching the stuff available on the internet. If they are successful in getting what they are looking for; parents/mentors need to be watchful regarding their children’s activity on the net without jeopardizing their self-esteem.

 

There are also cases where the Youth/Teens have been unsuccessful in getting what they needed. These Teens adopt life-risking ways that are not only hazardous to health but can at times be fatal. The effects are always extreme.

 

Thirdly, Dear Youth, don’t believe everything that is shown in movies. Movies are for entertainment purposes. The producers and directors add spice for flavor. Do not take things for granted. Do your research.

 

Just think for a moment, can any male in real life have the cock, the size of bamboo? It’s beyond anyone’s imagination and just think for a second, did the directors or producers ever show something related to the man? NO. Then stop this unrealistic thinking and come into the real world.

 

Fourthly, the size of the organ does not matter in real life. What matters is the love and treatment, one’s life partner has to offer. You have to see what works for you. Respect and Trust is the key factor in matrimony.

 

You don’t have to mature before time. The race of becoming an adult needs to end and there should be no comparison between who got married first and who was last in the queue or who hasn’t married as yet.

 

What matters is, whether you married first or last, who is more successful in keeping that bond with fulfillment, grace, integrity, and fairness?

 

Fifthly, if Youth/Teens develop the habit of watching porn, it will keep them turn on diverting them from things or movies that can positively impact them. They can easily become social outcasts which may in the future lead to many psychological problems.

 

Sixth, porn leads the Youth/Teen towards viewing every woman/girl from the sex point of view. This often leads to unwanted scenarios and needs to be curbed.

 

And Lastly, Parents need to discuss things related to sex, sexuality, purity of relationships, body anatomy with their children who are Teens or in the age of Manhood. There is no hard and fast rule that a mother cannot discuss basic things with her son.

 

Although, there might be cultures where such things are considered to be prohibited. As an enlightened and educated parent, the need of the time is to discuss these things with your children on one to one basis. Children are always looking for someone they can talk to. And this issue can be better addressed by the parents themselves.

 

Again, options are always available. You are the determining factor in your child’s healthy development. Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and Healthy.

 

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SUCCESSFUL STRATEGIES TO WIN PARENTS

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SUCCESSFUL STRATEGIES TO WIN PARENTS

 

Hello Folks!

As an individual, Educational institution, and even as a parent, you must have faced this; how to talk with parents when it concerns the progress of a child. In Pakistan, very few know these successful strategies that concern these basic areas.

So today, I will discuss with you a few successful strategies that will give you food for thought to incorporate in your systems and capacity building programmes for the teachers. So let’s start.

The first successful strategy to win parents is to have Clarity. As an institution, or even as an individual, one needs to know exactly what they are going to say to the parents and mean it and ensure it whether they have been understood clearly.

As most of the time parents are communicated things in a vague manner which leaves many questions unanswered and the concerned teachers don’t ensure whether they have been successful in delivering their message across the board.

There is no need to feel shy if you have to repeat yourself even for a trillion times.No one will be offended.

The second successful strategy would be to have a professional attitude. Be friendly yet a professional. As a teacher or institution or even a parent do not discuss other people’s negativity or apply it on the child concerned.

In Pakistan, most schools and their staff fail to understand that comparisons and negativity lead nowhere. Its an institution we are talking about.

To cater to these challenges proper training need to be imparted along with developing and cultivating a proper mindset.

The third successful strategy to win parents would be a Positive Attitude. Such an attitude needs to be seen in practice too.

When one can help parents in positively parenting their child without patronizing their capabilities for their child’s upbringing, then the positive attitude is seen at its best.

Also, this positivity is seen when you as an institution, an individual and a parent can add to the learning capability of a child. This is why institutions were made. Are we practising this stuff in our institutions?

The fourth successful strategy to win parents would be to have Backups. By backup, I mean that you need to support what you are saying in terms of sample work or some kind of documentation.

If you have worked on a similar situation with some other child, you can always document that and show it to the parents in your scheduled meetings.

In Pakistan people in institutions go by words from the mouth. That is all the authenticity, you will receive here. To win the parents trust, you need to bring in the documentation to support yourself.

The fifth strategy to win parents is the need to be Flexible. There is always room for improvement provided you are open to suggestions. Being in charge of the situation does not mean you are all in all.

There would be times when the situation requires improvising new strategies and coming up with an alternative plan of action.

There are not many schools in Pakistan who are up for these mind-changing flexibilities. Their word is against the suffering parents and their children. At the end of the day. what are they producing in the form of lots? This, I will answer at the end.

The sixth successful strategy to have winning parents is to Include children wherever possible. Making children part of a discussion always help in the long run. It gives children the confidence that they too matter.

A discussion only concerning the parents and the institution is rather a dead discussion.

The child needs to know what’s going on regarding him or her. It makes them understand their responsibility and what is required of them. Children young(10-onwards) and mature should always be made a part of such discussions.

And Lastly, every teacher should know the course they are teaching and explain it in a layman’s term to the parents. In Pakistan, mostly teacher’s are not clear themselves about the syllabus.

How can you expect them to explain it to the parents? There should be sessions regarding syllabus and explained well to the parents so that parents are at par with the teachers and school and likewise.

These are some of the successful strategies that can help any institution win parents. As parents, we are all trying to work towards a common goal which is the growth of a learner/child.

But the strategies being used at present in the educational institutions are producing cattle and slaves with no mind of their own. A mind to only receive orders and not think. For those who think are treated no less than an outcast or even as misfits.

But let me remind you, it is the misfits who are the cause of change in a rotten society. They are the real agents of change and are finally addressed as heroes or heroines when they achieve their true worth and show to the world what they are capable of.

It is not a lot to think about. Still think about it if you want to have a win-win situation.

Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading!

 

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EASY TIPS TOWARDS A SUCCESSFUL YOU

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EASY TIPS TOWARDS A SUCCESSFUL YOU

 

HI! Everyone.

Today, I am going to tell you FIVE of the very basic yet useful tips that are required for losing body weight and will result towards a successful YOU in no time. I am not going to talk about any diet plans or brands of food to eat or even run to the gyms to lose body weight. Apparently, we may be different but inside we are the same. Except there are some exceptions to certain foods and allergies. But the tips down here are useful for all body types.

Firstly, every morning, drink one glass of water on an empty stomach as it neutralizes the toxins in the body. This is the most useful tip on losing body weight fast and easy. If you are not used to drinking  plain water, you can always add a teaspoon of honey with a freshly grated lime in it. There are so many other options like you can experiment with the herbs in your kitchen shelf. You will notice remarkable changes in your body within a couple of days.You can look forward toward a successful YOU in a matter of time.

Secondly, Eat an apple with your breakfast. why? It fills the stomach. Apple is well-known for many things, such as anti-oxidants, vitamins and minerals. It is good for the cardiovascular health, reduces risks of diabetes, weight loss, low cholesterol, provides strength to bones and detoxes the body. As they say; an apple a day keeps the doctor away.

Breakfast is the most important meal of the day. Your whole day depends on what you are consuming in your breakfast .It should be a mix of fruits, oats, barleys, cereals , egg, milk and fresh seasonal fruit. This energy will keep you going through most of your day.

Thirdly, eat organic foods be it in the form of fruits, vegetables, meat or even drinks. Organic fruits and vegetables contain  more vitamin C, more iron,  more magnesium, and more phosphorus. Our body was designed to eat a balanced diet free from preservatives. The consumption of foods rich in sugars and preservatives lead us away from having a successful YOU. And this takes us away from achieving our goal of losing body weight.

Fourthly, do take out 30 minutes to do a set of exercises where it is mostly needed; can be any part of the body. Every body type is different. See what works out best for you. Can be simple walk, or jump or skipping or meditating. You are the best judge of your body. While exercising do not forget to drink water as required. Just do not over due either exercise or over consumption of water.

And lastly, a goodnight sleep is the key to weight losing. For every person a different sleep pattern works. For some 3—4 hours sleep is sufficient. Others would require a 6-8 hours sleep. There is no set pattern of sleep for all individuals. As I have said earlier, you will have to devise your own mechanism and then follow it. A good night sleep can bring miracles to your life be it in terms of success, management, relationships, work etc. Do not compromise on your sleep folks.

These tips are the most easy way to lose body weight and lead towards a successful YOU, a brighter future to success. These cannot be achieved in a day but I, guarantee you if you are steadfast and determined to bring a change in your life, you are just a step away from achieving your dream of a successful you.

 

 

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