Why Modern Marriages Fail?

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Why Modern Marriages Fail?

 

Hello Everybody!

 

Today, I aim to talk about something very common yet has great food for thought; why do modern marriages fail?

 

Nowadays, almost everyone is in a rush. Rush to go to the office, rush to check messages, rush to have money, rush to have an ever-growing career, rush in finding soul mates, etc.

 

The word RUSH has become some sort of custom which people are practicing in the blink of an eye.

Moving at a pace in different areas is good but there is an aspect where I would say, staying low and slow is better. It is the marriage area. One should not rush for it.

 

I have seen so many people making a waste of their life in haste. Everything has a pattern and things eventually fall in place at the right time.

We have heard this saying right from early ages that couples are made in heaven and marriages are celebrated on earth. Then why cannot we wait for our turn to come?

 

We will find our soul partner but we need to be patient and wait for the right person and time to come.

 

And before all this happens we need to avoid certain things. The foremost thing is to stop running after /for marriage, killing yourself in finding your rightful mate.

 

Everything has been planned by the great Creator. You will find that someone for you someday.

Secondly, have a strong belief in your Creator. He blesses all with the best of the lot.  Sometimes, things do not work in our favor; but we should not be dejected rather we should be firm that what is kept for us is for the best and it will be unveiled timely.

Thirdly, there is the law of attraction of the universe. It is my observation if you desire something so badly, not only are you working for it the whole universe works in a way for it to happen.

 

It is more or less the same as the law of attraction. So stay positive.

Fourthly, do not pay heed to what people say about you growing old and being unsettled or bla bla. You, yourself are a better judge of the scenario.

 

Maybe you have not reached that level in your life where you feel sufficient or the time to move on. When you feel that the time has come, take it by four locks and go for it. Until then, just chill.

Fifthly, avoid the negative environment around you. Look for people who are your well-wishers. Can be a friend, colleague, mentor, or even someone from the family.

 

Share with them your concerns, and fears but do not bombard them with your innermost desires. They might not know how to comfort you. After all, they too are human.

Lastly, go out and pamper yourself. Spend time with yourself, invest in yourself and observe people around you.https://www.sabahataamir.com/3-keys-to-boosti…inner-confidence/

 

Your keen observation will help you in moving in the right direction without underestimating yourself. So be an angel rather than a fool.

Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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10 Tips for Effective Time Management

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10 Tips for Effective Time Management

Hello Folks!

 

It has been a long time since my last post and I have missed you all tremendously. So today, I decided to share with you something very interesting that has added more value to my daily life.

Time management is a topic that is often discussed, but few seem to have mastered it. In order to better manage your time, it’s important to recognize the time-wasters in your day-to-day life and find ways to stop them from happening. Here are 10 tips for managing your time more effectively: So let’s start.

 

Have you ever thought to yourself that there aren’t enough hours in the day, or felt overwhelmed at the tasks facing you? If you have, this article can help you!

 

Clarify your goals and strategy:

 

Be very clear about your aims and ambitions, both short and long-term. Write them down. Once you know what you want to achieve (and why) it’s easier to make decisions about what needs doing and to plan accordingly.

 

goal setting

Focus on your top priorities

 

You’ll be more productive and profitable if you identify and focus on the areas most important to your business.

 

Work on the fundamentals first. The Latin word ‘fundamental’ means foundation – so take action, build strong foundations and the rest should follow.https://pngtree.com/?sce=af&id=9786

 

Schedule time:

 

Write an appointment in your work planner (you do have one of those, don’t you?) to set aside a realistic block of time for your priority actions.

schedule time

This reduces anxiety over not having enough time and keeps you focused.

 

Say no!

 

Consider Jim Rohn’s suggestion. “Learn how to say no.

 

Don’t let your mouth overload your back.”https://quotefancy.com/quote/837747/Jim-Rohn-Learn-how-to-say-no-Don-t-let-your-mouth-overload-your-back

 

Always check your schedule before committing to anything new. Don’t allow others to divert you from your objectives.

 

Create supportive systems:

 

This includes systems for filing, management information, and communication and emotional support systems.https://www.uopeople.edu/blog/what-is-a-support-system/

 

Take a reality check:

 

Will your current activity have a positive outcome, or are you doing it to avoid something else? Ask yourself – will doing this take me towards my goal? As Peter F Drucker observed, “There is nothing so useless as doing efficiently that which should not be done at all” https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/peter_drucker_105338

 

Delegate!

 

It’s tempting to do something yourself when you think you can do it faster and better.

delegate work

 

But consider the long term – delegation now will save time in the future.

 

And if done appropriately can motivate your staff, boost their confidence and help them develop their skills.https://rytr.me/user/sabahat

 

Repeat your success:

 

Remember the last time you went away on holiday⛸🛶, and how you got so much done in those few days before you left? What strategies and techniques did you employ that made you so effective and focused? Can you repeat them? Alternatively, imagine you are going away tomorrow and working through today accordingly.

 

Balance your life:

 

Formally schedule personal activities too, so you make time for family, friends, your health, and fun.

Balancing life

 

Because having a balanced life reduces stress and increases energy levels.

 

Time management is really about life management!https://www.sabahataamir.com/3-powerful-tips-to-help-manage-everyday-stress/

 

End the day:

 

At the end of the working day, tidy your desk, make notes about what needs doing tomorrow and prioritize those tasks.

note taking for the next day

 

You’ll worry less that evening and be prepared and focused the next morning

Think about it. Think about how you can fulfill your dreams and goals with these simple tips?

 

Until next time, stay safe and healthy.❤💖

 

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Effect Of Fasting On A Working Individual

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EFFECT OF FASTING ON A WORKING INDIVIDUAL

Hello Folks!

We all know that Fasting in the month of Ramadan has a multitude of benefits regarding physical, spiritual, and mental benefits. Without undermining the benefits, I will lay my focus on the effect Fasting has on a working individual. So let’s start.

The first effect Fasting has on a working individual is the impossibility to maintain a balance between work and personal life. Still, people manage without complaining as it is God who will reward them for this virtue.

Secondly, while Fasting, it is very difficult to write about anything. It is like all ideas are in the state of fasting. It took me nearly 2 hours to get here at this point.

Third effect that Fasting has on an individual is that after a certain time of the day, the mind fails to even think about what one wants to say. That is the time when one only reverts to solitude and thinks about what is expected from him as a believer.

Fifthly, the effects may vary from person to person depending on the number of responsibilities a person has to perform. Some may experience nothing at all but most may.

Sixth, Fasting takes us to greater levels of self-exploration and to understand the whole concept of Fast. People may interpret fast according to their culture and religion but there is a need of going beyond basic interpretations and understand the manifold benefits.

And Lastly, one needs to go through these effects only to be more grateful to what God Almighty has given us in terms of blessings. As an individual, I will thank Almighty for allowing me to observe fast and observe myself and let others know the effects it has on a working, responsible individual.

There is nothing wrong with accepting what you cannot do while fasting. Focus on what you can do and make the best of that time. That is the true essence of fasting. Think about it.https://www.sabahataamir.com/the-core/

Until next time stay safe and healthy.

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