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HOW TO ACHIEVE GREAT SUCCESS IN LIFE? UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

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HOW TO ACHIEVE GREAT SUCCESS IN LIFE?

UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

Hello Folks!

If you’re reading this, I’m assuming you want to be successful. I have observed, lived, and practiced through trial and error what it takes to be successful.

In the following paragraphs, I will unveil, what makes other people successful, how to set up your environment for success, and how to deal with the inevitable setbacks that happen when you’re on the road to greatness. So, let’s start.https://www.sabahataamir.com/two-faces-of-the-same-coin/

CONTENTMENT:

Success comes when we are contented/satisfied and happy with ourselves. This is the crux of every happy and successful person.

Success, be it in the form of material or immaterial pursuit comes when we are contented/happy with ourselves.

This happiness/contentment /satisfaction from within takes us to greater heights of success, which we have never imagined.

Success and happiness are directly related to our minds. Let me point out a few things that keep us away from being happy and achieving success.

FOCUS ON THE BRIGHTER SIDE OF THINGS:

Firstly, we hear this voice in our head that negates everything good that has or will come in our way.

We do not look at the bright side of things or appreciate ourselves rather we pay more importance to the voice in our head which tells us that we are not good enough.

And if we are getting this success, it’s due to so and so reason. So guys put an end to the voices in your head and start believing in yourself. It is you and you alone who can challenge the voice and get the success you have long waited for.

LET IT REVEAL:

Secondly, we have put on a mask to hide our true selves from people.

You do not have to conceal yourself to get people’s approval or attention.

You in yourself are a whole being. You just have to focus on yourself and no one else.

If you are happy with yourself, people who love and care about you would be happy in your happiness. Don’t be guilty of that. Always remember that.

TRUST YOURSELF AND YOUR ABILITIES:

Thirdly, when you encounter success, do not associate with past feelings or experiences of rejection. Accept it, say it, and own it. It is your success and you rightly deserve it. Stop undermining your abilities. We are all unique individuals in this world having our own set of skills. There is simply no comparison between two individuals.

VICTIM OF SELF PITY:

Fourthly, don’t become a victim of self-pity. It would ruin your life and make you a sorry figure in the long run. People will stop looking at what you were as a person rather they too will take you as a sorry figure, a thing that needed to be pitied upon. Maybe being unsuccessful in life won’t kill you but yes pity would.

BEST VERSION:

Fifthly, be the best version of yourself. An ideal, that everybody looks up to not someone people and family start detesting. The happier we are within, the more successful we are. Success cannot be counted in numbers. It is an immeasurable quantity that needs to be felt, appreciated, and shared.

YOU ARE IN CONTROL:

Lastly, you should always remember that you are the designer of your fate. If you are happy within, you are at the top of the world with every success at your feet but if you feel ugly and not wanted inside not even a heap of gold can make you successful in life.

Shed off your skin of weakness and rejection and wear your clothes of glitter to shine and be seen in the world.

In the end, I would like to conclude that your relationship with yourself defines your relationships with the people around you.

You need to take a step forward and forgive yourself for all those times when you faced rejection and disappointment in things you so desired to have.

Whether, it was a simple approval from parents, siblings, spouses, and children. Or whether it was a job or mere appreciation.

Similarly, love yourself and others unconditionally. Don’t expect anything in return.

This will give you a lot of satisfaction and self-appraisal.

Love, success, and happiness will come back to you in the form of a reward and you in reality will find inner peace.

This peace will establish your level of happiness leading you to success.https://www.ramdass.org

As Ram Dass says,

“Unconditional love really exists in each of us. It is part of our deep inner being. It is not so much an active emotion as a state of being. It’s not ‘I love you for this or that reason, not ‘I love you if you love me.’ It’s love for no reason, love without an object”.

More power to you all. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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October 25, 2021

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BODY SIZE DOES NOT MATTER TO ROCK GOOD CLOTHES

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BODY SIZE DOES NOT MATTER TO ROCK GOOD CLOTHES

Hello Folks!

Now, this is what I would call good luck. I have been yearning to write something on a topic like this for ages. And here I get an opportunity to do so. The statement itself gives its answer. Body size does not matter to rock good clothes. I will discuss, why it does not matter in the following paragraphs based on my own experiences. So let’s start.

As a child, I was more into playing and athlete stuff but as I grew up my focus shifted more towards studying and work on the laptop and all. All-time sitting and very less physical activities. Until one day, I looked at myself in the mirror. I was startled to see my image. That very moment, I realized, if I will not love myself who else would.http://simple.wikipedia.org

So with certain adjustments in my lifestyle, I was back to my good old self. What I want to reiterate here is that stop caring about what people are going to say or what your partner is going to say about your body; you should be satisfied with it and opt for ways to keep it in a way that is healthy and not problematic for you or people around you.

Secondly, you should have a positive image of yourself. I am sure you must have heard a lot about vibes and how they work. Yes, that is true. We all have a certain aura around us. The people in our surroundings pick up this aura or vibe or energy or light whatever you want to categorize it as.

movie star

They are going to look at you the way, you want them to. So even if you have the body size of a wrestler, yet you think yourself no less than a movie star, people will treat you like one.

Thirdly, you should always wear what you are comfortable with and what looks nice on you. Dressing according to your body shape is the best way to rock.

If you dress up in a way that does not suit your gait, you definitely will feel the odd man out.

However, if you dress up rather simply, no matter what your body size is, you will rock. You need to find out your style or signature according to your body type.

Also, be open to the dressing and clothes of other cultures. You never know their custom stitched clothes look fit on you rather than the ones you use.

Fourthly, I believe nobody should kill themselves to be someone they are not.https://www.sabahataamir.com/a-changed-body-h…is-where-i-exist/

You may feel good about yourself for some time but in the longer run, you will become frustrated with what you have become.

The man-made appearance comes with a price but the appearance gifted by your Creator can never be undermined. You should always remember that.

The world is a small place. We encounter a lot of people in our day-to-day life and learn a lot from them both consciously and unconsciously.

What, I have learned so far is that Heaven has made a partner for everyone.

They might come soon or late in life but surely will come. And for him/her body size would not matter as he/she would love you for what you are and not how you look in terms of a body.

The soul is the one that needs to be beautiful, appearances and people are short-lived.

People remember us in terms of our deeds and good heart. No one will remember us for what kind of body we had or how satisfied they were with us. So, I will end, with John Keats’s note that beauty is truth and truth is beauty. https://www.azquotes.com/author/7816-John_Keats and that is what one needs to remember in this world.

Think about it. Until next time stay safe and healthy.

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September 28, 2021

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SECRETS THAT LIE IN POVERTY

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SECRETS THAT LIE IN POVERTY

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered about the secrets that lie in poverty? Well, today, I am going to talk about all the good there is, in being poor. So, let’s start.

MEANINGS ASSOCIATED WITH BEING POOR

Firstly, most people associate the poor with not having the necessities of life or not having the standard of a comfortable living. Whatever the criteria out there, there is much more to this definition.

According to my personal observation, I have met many families who by their backgrounds are landlords but are still poor. This does not mean they do not have a comfortable standard of living. They live a life that is comfortable to them.

LEVEL OF CONTENTMENT BETWEEN THE RURAL AND URBAN

Secondly, in comparison to urban lives, where comfortable living means a house in a posh area, a salary in six digits, sending children to elite schools where parents can boost with their acquaintances about their accomplishments. This is not the case with rural lives.

The rural people are contented with what they have and have no desire to look beyond that.

MEANING TO POVERTY

Thirdly, their poverty has a meaning. Something the urban world cannot understand. This meaning is their basic instinct of survival and ethical values which is rarely found in urban life. And it often comes as a shock to the ones living in urban life.

CONCEPT OF MATERIAL THINGS

Fourthly, when one is poor, one is beyond the concept of material things which makes life a living hell if someone possesses it. Let me explain How? See, if you own a car or house or even bank balance, you’ll always be in the fear of keeping it safe and buying more things to keep it safe.

On the other hand, if you don’t have material pursuits other than the self, you don’t have to worry about anything, other than keeping yourself sacred and safeguarded.

PAINDO AND THE ELITE

Fifthly, I have heard and seen people categorizing, a village person as paindo for keeping cattle and hens whereas a city life person modern for keeping dogs and cats and making them a brand. If a rural person is that paindo, then why drink the milk and eat dairy products from his cattles or hen? Why not drink the milk of their cats and dogs?

LOVE AT ITS HEIGHTS

Sixthly, if you want to experience love at its extreme, true nature, go and explore the villagers or people belonging to rural life. You will know the meaning of true love. You can’t find true love sitting over social media. You need to go out, meet people, like minded people and experience it.

EVERLASTING FRIENDSHIPS

Seventhly, poverty teaches all of us the meaning of true friendships that are everlasting. Though it may take a lifetime to find such friendships. However, good judgement and trust too can help one in achieving those friendships easily.

PASSION TO THRIVE

And Lastly, Poverty teaches us the passion to dream, to thrive, to do things differently, yet with great determination and consistency. This is something found more in rural people who are down to earth and have the desire to rise above their means as and when needed.

However, not all rural people can possess all qualities or faults. Sometimes we find a mix in both rural and urban life. It is just a matter of exploring the right path. Think about it. Until next time stay safe and healthy.

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May 28, 2021

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WHAT THE WORLD WOULD BE LIKE IF HAPPINESS DIDN’T EXIST?

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WHAT THE WORLD WOULD BE LIKE IF HAPPINESS DIDN’T EXIST?

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered, what would the world be like if happiness didn’t exist at all? Well, I have thought about it many times and today I will lay my emphasis on it. So let’s start.

To begin with, no one really can describe happiness in concrete terms. It is more of a feeling associated with all living beings. Happiness is just like our body temperature which makes us feel different things and analyze them according to the rise and fall in temperature.

For me, no world can exist without happiness. Happiness is one of the elements that make our existence possible. How? You must be wondering. Well, you see, our life is made up of so many elements; pain, sorrow, weakness, downtrodden, pessimism, tragedy, etc.

What elevates us out of this is the illumination of joy, happiness. Just the thought about this illumination puts a smile on our faces. This is Happiness. Who can even think of the possibility of having a world without happiness?

Keeping in view, the death toll and the disease that is prevailing nowadays, still there is hope, a desire to see the good old days and get back to life. This is what happiness gives us.

If we imagine the possibility of having a world without happiness, it is even impossible to comprehend it. Happiness doesn’t require a fortune or even wealth. It is rather the contentment of having what you have at present.

The satiety of being comfortable with whatever means that is available, along with good health and a loving family around is sufficient. You don’t need anything else.

Think of a dying man. His wealth is not going to give him health or love rather it is the investment of time he has done all his life that is going to pay him off at this stage and that my friend is the everlasting happiness for him.

In the end, I would like to add that a world where no happiness exists can either be Hell or lifelessness. We live in a living world made of people, nature, hope, happiness, joy, play, and consciousness.

And till the time these elements are around, we don’t have to worry about the world with no happiness. Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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April 30, 2021

HOW TO ACHIEVE GREAT SUCCESS IN LIFE?

UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

Hello Folks!

If you’re reading this, I’m assuming you want to be successful. I have observed, lived, and practiced through trial and error what it takes to be successful.

In the following paragraphs, I will unveil, what makes other people successful, how to set up your environment for success, and how to deal with the inevitable setbacks that happen when you’re on the road to greatness. So, let’s start.https://www.sabahataamir.com/two-faces-of-the-same-coin/

CONTENTMENT:

Success comes when we are contented/satisfied and happy with ourselves. This is the crux of every happy and successful person.

Success, be it in the form of material or immaterial pursuit comes when we are contented/happy with ourselves.

This happiness/contentment /satisfaction from within takes us to greater heights of success, which we have never imagined.

Success and happiness are directly related to our minds. Let me point out a few things that keep us away from being happy and achieving success.

FOCUS ON THE BRIGHTER SIDE OF THINGS:

Firstly, we hear this voice in our head that negates everything good that has or will come in our way.

We do not look at the bright side of things or appreciate ourselves rather we pay more importance to the voice in our head which tells us that we are not good enough.

And if we are getting this success, it’s due to so and so reason. So guys put an end to the voices in your head and start believing in yourself. It is you and you alone who can challenge the voice and get the success you have long waited for.

LET IT REVEAL:

Secondly, we have put on a mask to hide our true selves from people.

You do not have to conceal yourself to get people’s approval or attention.

You in yourself are a whole being. You just have to focus on yourself and no one else.

If you are happy with yourself, people who love and care about you would be happy in your happiness. Don’t be guilty of that. Always remember that.

TRUST YOURSELF AND YOUR ABILITIES:

VICTIM OF SELF PITY:

BEST VERSION:

Fifthly, be the best version of yourself. An ideal, that everybody looks up to not someone people and family start detesting. The happier we are within, the more successful we are. Success cannot be counted in numbers. It is an immeasurable quantity that needs to be felt, appreciated, and shared.

YOU ARE IN CONTROL:

Lastly, you should always remember that you are the designer of your fate. If you are happy within, you are at the top of the world with every success at your feet but if you feel ugly and not wanted inside not even a heap of gold can make you successful in life.

Shed off your skin of weakness and rejection and wear your clothes of glitter to shine and be seen in the world.

In the end, I would like to conclude that your relationship with yourself defines your relationships with the people around you.

You need to take a step forward and forgive yourself for all those times when you faced rejection and disappointment in things you so desired to have.

Whether, it was a simple approval from parents, siblings, spouses, and children. Or whether it was a job or mere appreciation.

Similarly, love yourself and others unconditionally. Don’t expect anything in return.

This will give you a lot of satisfaction and self-appraisal.

Love, success, and happiness will come back to you in the form of a reward and you in reality will find inner peace.

This peace will establish your level of happiness leading you to success.https://www.ramdass.org

As Ram Dass says,

“Unconditional love really exists in each of us. It is part of our deep inner being. It is not so much an active emotion as a state of being. It’s not ‘I love you for this or that reason, not ‘I love you if you love me.’ It’s love for no reason, love without an object”.

More power to you all. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading!

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BODY SIZE DOES NOT MATTER TO ROCK GOOD CLOTHES

Hello Folks!

Secondly, you should have a positive image of yourself. I am sure you must have heard a lot about vibes and how they work. Yes, that is true. We all have a certain aura around us. The people in our surroundings pick up this aura or vibe or energy or light whatever you want to categorize it as.

They are going to look at you the way, you want them to. So even if you have the body size of a wrestler, yet you think yourself no less than a movie star, people will treat you like one.

Thirdly, you should always wear what you are comfortable with and what looks nice on you. Dressing according to your body shape is the best way to rock.

If you dress up in a way that does not suit your gait, you definitely will feel the odd man out.

However, if you dress up rather simply, no matter what your body size is, you will rock. You need to find out your style or signature according to your body type.

Also, be open to the dressing and clothes of other cultures. You never know their custom stitched clothes look fit on you rather than the ones you use.

Fourthly, I believe nobody should kill themselves to be someone they are not.https://www.sabahataamir.com/a-changed-body-h…is-where-i-exist/

You may feel good about yourself for some time but in the longer run, you will become frustrated with what you have become.

The man-made appearance comes with a price but the appearance gifted by your Creator can never be undermined. You should always remember that.

The world is a small place. We encounter a lot of people in our day-to-day life and learn a lot from them both consciously and unconsciously.

What, I have learned so far is that Heaven has made a partner for everyone.

They might come soon or late in life but surely will come. And for him/her body size would not matter as he/she would love you for what you are and not how you look in terms of a body.

The soul is the one that needs to be beautiful, appearances and people are short-lived.

Think about it. Until next time stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading!

sabahat

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SECRETS THAT LIE IN POVERTY

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered about the secrets that lie in poverty? Well, today, I am going to talk about all the good there is, in being poor. So, let’s start.

MEANINGS ASSOCIATED WITH BEING POOR

Firstly, most people associate the poor with not having the necessities of life or not having the standard of a comfortable living. Whatever the criteria out there, there is much more to this definition.

According to my personal observation, I have met many families who by their backgrounds are landlords but are still poor. This does not mean they do not have a comfortable standard of living. They live a life that is comfortable to them.

LEVEL OF CONTENTMENT BETWEEN THE RURAL AND URBAN

Secondly, in comparison to urban lives, where comfortable living means a house in a posh area, a salary in six digits, sending children to elite schools where parents can boost with their acquaintances about their accomplishments. This is not the case with rural lives.

The rural people are contented with what they have and have no desire to look beyond that.

MEANING TO POVERTY