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HOW PARENTS INFLUENCE THEIR CHILD’S DEVELOPMENT THROUGH THEIR ACTIONS?

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HOW PARENTS INFLUENCE THEIR CHILD’S DEVELOPMENT THROUGH

THEIR ACTIONS?

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered how crucial is parents time for the upbringing of their children? Well, today, I will lay my emphasis on this area which is of grave importance in today’s world. So, let’s start.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KAucaMbWntk

Parents are the first and most important influence in a child’s life. They can influence their child’s development through their behaviors as well as what they say to their children.https://www.sabahataamir.com/smiling-faces-happy-children/

The way parents respond to a child’s actions can foster or inhibit development. When parents respond to a child, specifically negative behaviors, with anger or frustration this can harm the child’s development.

Parents should provide guidance and support for children by encouraging positive behaviors and praising their effort rather than focusing on mistakes.

DIFFERENT TYPES OF PARENTING STYLES:

There are four main parenting styles. The first is authoritative parenting. Authoritative parents are not overly strict or lenient, they set clear boundaries and allow their children to make decisions on their own, but they also guide them with feedback and support to help them learn from mistakes.

The second is permissive parenting. Permissive parents usually let their children do what they want without giving any guidance, so the child does not learn how to take care of themselves or what’s right from wrong.

The third is authoritarian parenting which is the opposite of authoritative, these parents are strict and set very high standards for their children but don’t give them the chance to express their feelings or opinions because it challenges the authority figure.

Lastly, there’s neglectful parenting where parents do not provide adequate supervision for their child which can lead to many personality faults.

Regarding parenting, no one style is a definite one, one needs to develop one through trial and error and according to the circumstances and needs.

DAILY ACTIONS THAT HURT OR HELP DEVELOP CHILDREN INTO SUCCESSFUL GROWN-UPS:

Parents need to provide their children with the tools to deal with Impulsive behavior which is often the result of children not having the skills to manage their emotions or act appropriately in different social situations.

Overprotectiveness can lead to anxiety and stress for both parents and children. Children need room for exploration, independence, and self-expression through play.

If one parent is too harsh or otherwise unsupportive, parental guidance becomes unbalanced. The other parent needs to share the workload of providing appropriate boundaries and guidance for their child’s behavior.

And Lastly, children need gentle feedback so they know how they are doing in their day-to-day life. Children should be given constructive feedback for their actions.

KEY ELEMENTS OF A HEALTHY PARENTAL RELATIONSHIP:

A strong and healthy family relationship is the backbone of a happy and fulfilling life. A relationship is not just about love and care, it’s also about understanding, trust, and mutual respect.

A healthy parental relationship is important for the psychological health of children. A study found that children who grow up with a stable relationship with their parents are more likely to have better self-esteem and academic performance.

The researchers, from the University of Otago in New Zealand, also found that better family relationships were associated with fewer mental health problems and fewer incidents of delinquency and substance abuse among teenage girls.

In the end, I would like to conclude that parents, too all are human beings. They are not Ph.D.’ in the parenting field. They learn with trial and experience what works best for their children. However, parenting too, like many other relationships requires consciousness and the desire of bringing out the best in one’s children. https://blog.pathwaystofamilywellness.org/pathways/3-elements-to-a-healthy-relationship-with-your-child/

Parents who lay their emphasis on showing love, providing support, setting limits, being a role model, teaching responsibility, providing a range of experiences, and showing respect are the ones who have decoded parenting in the true sense.

Parents should respect each other’s parenting style and be able to work together as a team when needed. Both parents should be able to share their thoughts, feelings, and concerns without fear of judgment or rejection.

Parents should be able to understand what the other is thinking or feeling without being judgemental and the same applies to the children.

In today’s scenario, our generations are going far apart due to the unimportant things parents have engulfed themselves in the name of earning a livelihood. Children will grow up but the marks that are going to be imprinted on their feeble minds will remain forever. Then, no time or wealth will bring them close to you.

Think about it. Until next time stay safe and healthy.

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A TRIBUTE TO FATHERS AROUND THE GLOBE; UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

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A TRIBUTE TO FATHERS AROUND THE GLOBE

UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered about the important role a father plays in the life of a Daughter? Well today, I will narrate a few points in this regard. So let’s start.

When we talk about our father, we always remember the positive side of him. As a daughter when I look into my memories, I recall my teddy bear.

That’s what parents are then to a small child either a teddy bear or carebear or one might coinage one’s own term. For me, he was always my teddy.

I remember him loving my soft toy teddy the same way I loved him. Taking care of the teddy for me and scolding my siblings for not treating him nicely.

He would always come to my rescue when my sibling would tease me regarding my teddy.

His gestures gave me the assurance that I can always look up to him even when he was not nearby.

Having a loving and caring father is one of the foremost positive impacts that a daughter can have on her life.

Another impact of the father on the daughter’s life is the way he trains her for life. Believe me, life is not a bed of roses but it is the trust and confidence of a father in you that makes life a bed of roses.

As daughters, around the globe, we all need to cherish our fathers and their training to deal with the thorns of life.

Thirdly, fathers who boost the confidence of daughters are confident and high achievers in everything. Be it relationships, marriages, or workplaces. Another tribute dedicated to fathers of confident daughters.

Fourthly, daughters who grow up seeing their parents fight all the time despite their relationships with the child; are affected one way or the other.

Such daughters find it difficult when it comes to marrying or being involved in relationships. Most of the time the trouble relationships that one has faced in one’s childhood come in the way. However, exceptions are always there.

Fifthly, most fathers are givers and not takers and this is what daughters inherit from their fathers most of the time.

I remember so many examples from my childhood to adulthood which only remind me of the times where my father always gave and neither took anything.

And this is what I have inherited from him, how to give without expecting anything in return.

Sixth, fathers take great pride in their daughters and their achievements no matter how small they may be, and that’s what helps us in grooming and cherishing small moments of life in the long run.

Seventhly, a father protects his daughter from the eyes of the outer world without compromising on the development of the child. He wears many hats to nurture his daughter for future life.

And Lastly, a father is the first man in a daughter’s life and the person she always looks up to in the future too, much than the mother.

In the end, I would like to say that the value that a father holds in a daughter’s life cannot be undermined and needs to be given due recognition and tribute to them.

If they are alive cherish them and spend your time with them before it’s too late.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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BENEFITS OF PUZZLES/JIGSAWS

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BENEFITS OF PUZZLES/JIGSAWS

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Have you ever wondered,why do we, as humans are able to remember colours,shapes and even see the bigger picture to see where each piece fits in?

You guessed it right.I am talking about Jigsaws/Puzzles.

Today, I aim to talk about Puzzles/Jigsaws and the benefits that lie in solving it.So let’s start.

Firstly, solving Puzzles/Jigsaws are a way of reinforcing existing connections in our brain cells.This in turn helps in improving our short term memory.

Secondly, Jigsaws/Puzzles are all about patterns.Our surrounding is filled with pattern.

Puzzles helps our brain to grow and develop by finding the hidden patterns in objects lying around us.

Thirdly, it improves our ability of visual perception.The way we see our surroundings,absorb information,then organize it and try to make a sense out of it.

Like reading a book.We look at the words in a book and try to make sense of the story.

Fourthly, Puzzle solving hones coordination in humans especially when it comes to decision making and team playing.

Fifthly,through Jigsaw solving,the critical thinking develops which helps in improving the listening skills, communication and problem solving skills.

Sixthly, beside a good exercise,the release of Dopamine is a benefit for humans when they solve puzzles.It gives great pleasure to us.

Thus, impacting our concentration, motivation and memory.In a way, the production of Dopamime resets our brain for the greater good.

Seventh, solving Puzzles heightens the creativity in an individual.Making puzzles might seem an easy task but there is so much creativity involved in the whole process.

The more challenging the puzzle the more creativity is heightened. Creativity heightens thinking, enhances self-esteem, and reduces stress.

Lastly, solving puzzles help in the overall brain activity giving peace and tranquilty to the mind as a whole.

It leads to mental health and wellness of all individuals.

In the end, I would say that puzzle solving is a great activity and should be made a part of daily activities.

As an individual, it has so many benefits;if used in groups one might be able to achieve great heights of success.Think about the wonders it can unveil.

Until next time stay safe and healthy.

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HOW PARENTS INFLUENCE THEIR CHILD’S DEVELOPMENT THROUGH

THEIR ACTIONS?

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered how crucial is parents time for the upbringing of their children? Well, today, I will lay my emphasis on this area which is of grave importance in today’s world. So, let’s start.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KAucaMbWntk

Parents are the first and most important influence in a child’s life. They can influence their child’s development through their behaviors as well as what they say to their children.https://www.sabahataamir.com/smiling-faces-happy-children/

The way parents respond to a child’s actions can foster or inhibit development. When parents respond to a child, specifically negative behaviors, with anger or frustration this can harm the child’s development.

Parents should provide guidance and support for children by encouraging positive behaviors and praising their effort rather than focusing on mistakes.

DIFFERENT TYPES OF PARENTING STYLES:

There are four main parenting styles. The first is authoritative parenting. Authoritative parents are not overly strict or lenient, they set clear boundaries and allow their children to make decisions on their own, but they also guide them with feedback and support to help them learn from mistakes.

The second is permissive parenting. Permissive parents usually let their children do what they want without giving any guidance, so the child does not learn how to take care of themselves or what’s right from wrong.

The third is authoritarian parenting which is the opposite of authoritative, these parents are strict and set very high standards for their children but don’t give them the chance to express their feelings or opinions because it challenges the authority figure.

Lastly, there’s neglectful parenting where parents do not provide adequate supervision for their child which can lead to many personality faults.

Regarding parenting, no one style is a definite one, one needs to develop one through trial and error and according to the circumstances and needs.

DAILY ACTIONS THAT HURT OR HELP DEVELOP CHILDREN INTO SUCCESSFUL GROWN-UPS:

Parents need to provide their children with the tools to deal with Impulsive behavior which is often the result of children not having the skills to manage their emotions or act appropriately in different social situations.

Overprotectiveness can lead to anxiety and stress for both parents and children. Children need room for exploration, independence, and self-expression through play.

If one parent is too harsh or otherwise unsupportive, parental guidance becomes unbalanced. The other parent needs to share the workload of providing appropriate boundaries and guidance for their child’s behavior.

And Lastly, children need gentle feedback so they know how they are doing in their day-to-day life. Children should be given constructive feedback for their actions.

KEY ELEMENTS OF A HEALTHY PARENTAL RELATIONSHIP:

A strong and healthy family relationship is the backbone of a happy and fulfilling life. A relationship is not just about love and care, it’s also about understanding, trust, and mutual respect.

A healthy parental relationship is important for the psychological health of children. A study found that children who grow up with a stable relationship with their parents are more likely to have better self-esteem and academic performance.

The researchers, from the University of Otago in New Zealand, also found that better family relationships were associated with fewer mental health problems and fewer incidents of delinquency and substance abuse among teenage girls.

Parents who lay their emphasis on showing love, providing support, setting limits, being a role model, teaching responsibility, providing a range of experiences, and showing respect are the ones who have decoded parenting in the true sense.

Parents should respect each other’s parenting style and be able to work together as a team when needed. Both parents should be able to share their thoughts, feelings, and concerns without fear of judgment or rejection.

Parents should be able to understand what the other is thinking or feeling without being judgemental and the same applies to the children.

Think about it. Until next time stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading Folks!

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A TRIBUTE TO FATHERS AROUND THE GLOBE

UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered about the important role a father plays in the life of a Daughter? Well today, I will narrate a few points in this regard. So let’s start.

When we talk about our father, we always remember the positive side of him. As a daughter when I look into my memories, I recall my teddy bear.

That’s what parents are then to a small child either a teddy bear or carebear or one might coinage one’s own term. For me, he was always my teddy.

I remember him loving my soft toy teddy the same way I loved him. Taking care of the teddy for me and scolding my siblings for not treating him nicely.

He would always come to my rescue when my sibling would tease me regarding my teddy.

His gestures gave me the assurance that I can always look up to him even when he was not nearby.

Having a loving and caring father is one of the foremost positive impacts that a daughter can have on her life.

Another impact of the father on the daughter’s life is the way he trains her for life. Believe me, life is not a bed of roses but it is the trust and confidence of a father in you that makes life a bed of roses.

As daughters, around the globe, we all need to cherish our fathers and their training to deal with the thorns of life.

Thirdly, fathers who boost the confidence of daughters are confident and high achievers in everything. Be it relationships, marriages, or workplaces. Another tribute dedicated to fathers of confident daughters.

Fourthly, daughters who grow up seeing their parents fight all the time despite their relationships with the child; are affected one way or the other.

Such daughters find it difficult when it comes to marrying or being involved in relationships. Most of the time the trouble relationships that one has faced in one’s childhood come in the way. However, exceptions are always there.

Fifthly, most fathers are givers and not takers and this is what daughters inherit from their fathers most of the time.

I remember so many examples from my childhood to adulthood which only remind me of the times where my father always gave and neither took anything.

And this is what I have inherited from him, how to give without expecting anything in return.

Sixth, fathers take great pride in their daughters and their achievements no matter how small they may be, and that’s what helps us in grooming and cherishing small moments of life in the long run.

Seventhly, a father protects his daughter from the eyes of the outer world without compromising on the development of the child. He wears many hats to nurture his daughter for future life.

And Lastly, a father is the first man in a daughter’s life and the person she always looks up to in the future too, much than the mother.

In the end, I would like to say that the value that a father holds in a daughter’s life cannot be undermined and needs to be given due recognition and tribute to them.

If they are alive cherish them and spend your time with them before it’s too late.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading!

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BENEFITS OF PUZZLES/JIGSAWS

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered,why do we, as humans are able to remember colours,shapes and even see the bigger picture to see where each piece fits in?

You guessed it right.I am talking about Jigsaws/Puzzles.

Today, I aim to talk about Puzzles/Jigsaws and the benefits that lie in solving it.So let’s start.

Firstly, solving Puzzles/Jigsaws are a way of reinforcing existing connections in our brain cells.This in turn helps in improving our short term memory.

Secondly, Jigsaws/Puzzles are all about patterns.Our surrounding is filled with pattern.

Puzzles helps our brain to grow and develop by finding the hidden patterns in objects lying around us.

Thirdly, it improves our ability of visual perception.The way we see our surroundings,absorb information,then organize it and try to make a sense out of it.

Like reading a book.We look at the words in a book and try to make sense of the story.

Fourthly, Puzzle solving hones coordination in humans especially when it comes to decision making and team playing.

Fifthly,through Jigsaw solving,the critical thinking develops which helps in improving the listening skills, communication and problem solving skills.

Sixthly, beside a good exercise,the release of Dopamine is a benefit for humans when they solve puzzles.It gives great pleasure to us.

Thus, impacting our concentration, motivation and memory.In a way, the production of Dopamime resets our brain for the greater good.

Seventh, solving Puzzles heightens the creativity in an individual.Making puzzles might seem an easy task but there is so much creativity involved in the whole process.

The more challenging the puzzle the more creativity is heightened. Creativity heightens thinking, enhances self-esteem, and reduces stress.

Lastly, solving puzzles help in the overall brain activity giving peace and tranquilty to the mind as a whole.

It leads to mental health and wellness of all individuals.