HOW MY JOURNEY BEGAN? UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

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How My Journey Began?

Upclose and Personal

Hello Folks!🖐

People often ask me how I began my journey of writing. So, today, I will tell you how it all began. Let’s start.

I have always found expression in one form or another. Being creative and sensitive, I always sought refuge in painting.https://www.behance.net/sabahataamir

And in doing so, poured my heart out on the canvas. But I always felt that something was lacking and I was not able to communicate myself.

This, I witnessed on different platforms when people used to ask me the meaning of what I had drawn/painted. I had never liked the idea of explaining a painting.

It’s more about the feelings, and emotions associated with that piece. And I want the audience to experience and interpret it. And tell me what they think.

And frankly, most people in Pakistan don’t understand creative work, let alone the biases they have associated with a certain school of thought.

Anyway, all this has never stopped me from achieving what I want.

To keep moving and communicating better, I started exploring platforms where I could write and explore my skills.

Back in 2015, I came across a media agency, where I had the opportunity to write on the topic of Terrorism(PIC quoted above).

My article was published in Sunday Times, Pakistan.A turning point in my journey of freelancing.

Trusting my guts, I didn’t continue with the media agency and did not pursue further with them.

The overall experience had given me enough know-how on the working environment for a female writer.

I was utterly disgusted with the mentality of the people working in the media industry. I went in solitude to work on skills, I thought would aid me in the future.

So, I invested in myself in different fields and after a few years, I was mentally prepared and more mature to enter the field of writing.

It is then, I developed a WordPress website and started experimenting with the acquired skills on it. I started in 2019 and from that day onward, I have never looked back.

In my journey, I meet amazing people on a day-to-day basis and I have learned a lot from them.

I am indebted to them for what they have taught me along the way. They have proved to be the rightful well-wishers.

Am open to sharing my knowledge with everyone and not for once do, I think about competition or any of the sought.https://www.sabahataamir.com/?s=The+secrets+behind+content+writing

And look forward to like-minded people who can add value to what I am doing and want to do. And learn more if needed and as required.

Life is a  blessing. Make the most of it and enjoy the blessings as they come along.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and Healthy.

A Happy New Year to ALL!

Happy Reading Folks!👩

 

 

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HOW TO ACHIEVE GREAT SUCCESS IN LIFE? UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

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HOW TO ACHIEVE GREAT SUCCESS IN LIFE?

UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

 

Hello Folks!

If you’re reading this, I’m assuming you want to be successful. I have observed, lived, and practiced through trial and error what it takes to be successful.

In the following paragraphs, I will unveil, what makes other people successful, how to set up your environment for success, and how to deal with the inevitable setbacks that happen when you’re on the road to greatness. So, let’s start.https://www.sabahataamir.com/two-faces-of-the-same-coin/

CONTENTMENT:

Success comes when we are contented/satisfied and happy with ourselves. This is the crux of every happy and successful person.

Success, be it in the form of material or immaterial pursuit comes when we are contented/happy with ourselves.

This happiness/contentment /satisfaction from within takes us to greater heights of success, which we have never imagined.

Success and happiness are directly related to our minds. Let me point out a few things that keep us away from being happy and achieving success.

FOCUS ON THE BRIGHTER SIDE OF THINGS:

 

Firstly, we hear this voice in our head that negates everything good that has or will come in our way.

We do not look at the bright side of things or appreciate ourselves rather we pay more importance to the voice in our head which tells us that we are not good enough.

And if we are getting this success, it’s due to so and so reason. So guys put an end to the voices in your head and start believing in yourself. It is you and you alone who can challenge the voice and get the success you have long waited for.

LET IT REVEAL:

Secondly, we have put on a mask to hide our true selves from people.

You do not have to conceal yourself to get people’s approval or attention.

You in yourself are a whole being. You just have to focus on yourself and no one else.

If you are happy with yourself, people who love and care about you would be happy in your happiness. Don’t be guilty of that. Always remember that.

TRUST YOURSELF AND YOUR ABILITIES:

 

Thirdly, when you encounter success, do not associate with past feelings or experiences of rejection. Accept it, say it, and own it. It is your success and you rightly deserve it. Stop undermining your abilities. We are all unique individuals in this world having our own set of skills. There is simply no comparison between two individuals.

VICTIM OF SELF PITY:

 

Fourthly, don’t become a victim of self-pity. It would ruin your life and make you a sorry figure in the long run. People will stop looking at what you were as a person rather they too will take you as a sorry figure, a thing that needed to be pitied upon. Maybe being unsuccessful in life won’t kill you but yes pity would.

BEST VERSION:

 

Fifthly, be the best version of yourself. An ideal, that everybody looks up to not someone people and family start detesting. The happier we are within, the more successful we are. Success cannot be counted in numbers. It is an immeasurable quantity that needs to be felt, appreciated, and shared.

YOU ARE IN CONTROL:

 

Lastly, you should always remember that you are the designer of your fate. If you are happy within, you are at the top of the world with every success at your feet but if you feel ugly and not wanted inside not even a heap of gold can make you successful in life.

Shed off your skin of weakness and rejection and wear your clothes of glitter to shine and be seen in the world.

In the end, I would like to conclude that your relationship with yourself defines your relationships with the people around you.

You need to take a step forward and forgive yourself for all those times when you faced rejection and disappointment in things you so desired to have.

Whether, it was a simple approval from parents, siblings, spouses, and children. Or whether it was a job or mere appreciation.

Similarly, love yourself and others unconditionally. Don’t expect anything in return.

This will give you a lot of satisfaction and self-appraisal.

Love, success, and happiness will come back to you in the form of a reward and you in reality will find inner peace.

This peace will establish your level of happiness leading you to success.https://www.ramdass.org

As Ram Dass says,

 

“Unconditional love really exists in each of us. It is part of our deep inner being. It is not so much an active emotion as a state of being. It’s not ‘I love you for this or that reason, not ‘I love you if you love me.’ It’s love for no reason, love without an object”. 

More power to you all. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading!

 

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BODY SIZE DOES NOT MATTER TO ROCK GOOD CLOTHES

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BODY SIZE DOES NOT MATTER TO ROCK GOOD CLOTHES

 

Hello Folks!

Now, this is what I would call good luck. I have been yearning to write something on a topic like this for ages. And here I get an opportunity to do so. The statement itself gives its answer. Body size does not matter to rock good clothes. I will discuss, why it does not matter in the following paragraphs based on my own experiences. So let’s start.

As a child, I was more into playing and athlete stuff but as I grew up my focus shifted more towards studying and work on the laptop and all. All-time sitting and very less physical activities. Until one day, I looked at myself in the mirror. I was startled to see my image. That very moment, I realized, if I will not love myself who else would.http://simple.wikipedia.org

So with certain adjustments in my lifestyle, I was back to my good old self. What I want to reiterate here is that stop caring about what people are going to say or what your partner is going to say about your body; you should be satisfied with it and opt for ways to keep it in a way that is healthy and not problematic for you or people around you.

Secondly, you should have a positive image of yourself. I am sure you must have heard a lot about vibes and how they work. Yes, that is true. We all have a certain aura around us. The people in our surroundings pick up this aura or vibe or energy or light whatever you want to categorize it as.

movie star

 

They are going to look at you the way, you want them to. So even if you have the body size of a wrestler, yet you think yourself no less than a movie star, people will treat you like one.

 

Thirdly, you should always wear what you are comfortable with and what looks nice on you. Dressing according to your body shape is the best way to rock.

If you dress up in a way that does not suit your gait, you definitely will feel the odd man out.

However, if you dress up rather simply, no matter what your body size is, you will rock. You need to find out your style or signature according to your body type.

Also, be open to the dressing and clothes of other cultures. You never know their custom stitched clothes look fit on you rather than the ones you use.

Fourthly, I believe nobody should kill themselves to be someone they are not.https://www.sabahataamir.com/a-changed-body-h…is-where-i-exist/

You may feel good about yourself for some time but in the longer run, you will become frustrated with what you have become.

The man-made appearance comes with a price but the appearance gifted by your Creator can never be undermined. You should always remember that.

 

The world is a small place. We encounter a lot of people in our day-to-day life and learn a lot from them both consciously and unconsciously.

What, I have learned so far is that Heaven has made a partner for everyone.

They might come soon or late in life but surely will come. And for him/her body size would not matter as he/she would love you for what you are and not how you look in terms of a body.

The soul is the one that needs to be beautiful, appearances and people are short-lived.

People remember us in terms of our deeds and good heart. No one will remember us for what kind of body we had or how satisfied they were with us. So, I will end, with John Keats’s note that beauty is truth and truth is beauty. https://www.azquotes.com/author/7816-John_Keats and that is what one needs to remember in this world.

 

Think about it. Until next time stay safe and healthy.

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