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THE PERFECT GIFT FOR COUPLES:UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

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THE PERFECT GIFT FOR COUPLES

UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL

Hello Folks!

People often ask me the secrets of a successful marriage and what tips I can give to couples to be married? Based on my experiences and observations, I have compiled some tips for those who are to be married or have the intention to tie a knot sooner or later. So let’s start.https://youtu.be/_6rPFzAMcNs

WHAT TO TEACH COUPLES BEFORE MARRIAGE?

A lot of couples are getting married without really knowing each other. A team without pre-marriage counseling is more likely to face marital problems and separation as time goes by.

To avoid those problems, the couple needs to go through a pre-marriage counseling session before tying the knot.

In this section, I will be talking about what should be taught during a pre-marriage counseling session and what should be avoided.

It is the duty of the couple to learn about each other and their expectations from marriage.

The foremost tip to be taught to the couple is that they need not start a new life after marriage as people say. You are already living life.

All you need is to make a few adjustments according to the person you are bringing into your life and vice versa.

And that all their hard work and efforts will go in vain if they are not committed to their relationship.

To avoid misconceptions during counseling, the counselor should not teach the couple that they are “soulmates” or “meant to be together.”

We don’t know about that yet. Only the turn of the event indicates how successful or unsuccessful the marriage can be.

HOW TO BUILD A STRONG FOUNDATION FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

Secondly, you may have heard the phrase, “the key to a successful relationship is communication.” But what does this entail? Communication can be defined as the act of exchanging thoughts, feelings, or information by speaking, writing, gestures, signs, or sound.

There are many different aspects of communication that you will need to master if you want your new relationship to succeed.

These include acknowledging your partner’s needs and providing an outlet for them to express themselves.

In a new relationship, it’s important to make an effort to get to know your partner.

If you take time for this, it will go a long way in establishing a strong foundation for the relationship.

At the beginning of a new relationship, couples might feel shy and uncomfortable with each other.

This is perfectly normal and just a sign that they are trying hard not to be too invasive or too touchy.

Both need time to understand each other and get used to adding to their lives. Come on, both of you are coming from different backgrounds and systems, you would need time in knowing about your partner.

IMPORTANCE OF GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS IN YOUR LIFE:

Thirdly, communication is the most important skill in a relationship. It is vital for building trust, understanding, respect, and eventually love.

Communication is difficult when you are in an emotional or stressful situation.

When faced with emotional adversity in a relationship it can be hard to listen and understand what your partner is saying.

Thus, it is not surprising that so many couples get divorced due to poor communication skills.

However, good communication skills can get you through almost any obstacle and help get your relationship back on track again.

Communication skills are an essential part of any relationship. Moreover, they can be the difference between a successful and unsuccessful relationship.

It is well known that no one is perfect and we all have our flaws. And so, in a relationship, it is important to know how to communicate effectively to work well with your partner’s flaws and fix your flaws along the way.

It’s a two-way process in which both learn and apply and accept each other.

IMPORTANCE OF CONFLICT MANAGEMENT IN RELATIONSHIPS:

The fourth tip for couples is the importance of conflict management. Conflict is not something that we want in our relationships. It breeds negativity and it is hard to resolve. However, no relationship is perfect and conflict can be resolved if both people are willing to compromise.

Conflict is inevitable in any relationship, whether it be between friends or coworkers.

It’s important to know how to manage your conflict in a way that will prevent it from becoming problematic.

One of the most important ways to improve your conflict management skills is by identifying the root of the issue.

Once you’ve identified the root, you can come up with a solution together or attempt to go around it altogether.

Conflict management skills are needed in every relationship.

It has become one of the most sought-after skills in the workplace because everyone needs it for their daily lives, whether they are working with a spouse or friend or dealing with an unpleasant customer service representative on the phone. So, what are some ways that you can manage conflicts?

There are many techniques that you can use when dealing with conflict resolution skills at home or work. One popular technique is called “active listening.”https://www.mindtools.com/CommSkll/ActiveListening.html

Active listening involves actively paying attention to your partner during an argument while not interrupting them but also acknowledging their issues.

It is not uncommon for people to get into arguments with their partners. The best thing to do when this happens is to resolve the issue and move on.

When people have conflict management skills, they can confront issues in a more positive way, which may result in the issue being resolved in a shorter period.

FUTURE OF PRE COUNSELLING SERVICES:

Last but not least, couples are looking for more than just guidance in their relationships. They’re looking to find someone who understands them and their needs can help them find new ways to communicate with each other and create a sense of intimacy that will last forever.

Many online pre-marriage counseling services can help couples before their marriage day.

Even couples and elderly fellows who have gone through the same experiences yet led successful marriages can always come in handy.

In the end, I would like to say that as the future progresses, technology will continue to change.

Online pre-marriage counseling services are becoming more popular because they are more accessible and people are embracing them for their convenience.

As time goes on, online pre-marriage counseling services may be able to replace in-person therapy sessions.

These guidelines can come in handy for the couples to be married if looked at them from an unbiased point of view. Think about it.https://www.sabahataamir.com/the-catalyst/

Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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A TRIBUTE TO FATHERS AROUND THE GLOBE; UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

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A TRIBUTE TO FATHERS AROUND THE GLOBE

UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered about the important role a father plays in the life of a Daughter? Well today, I will narrate a few points in this regard. So let’s start.

When we talk about our father, we always remember the positive side of him. As a daughter when I look into my memories, I recall my teddy bear.

That’s what parents are then to a small child either a teddy bear or carebear or one might coinage one’s own term. For me, he was always my teddy.

I remember him loving my soft toy teddy the same way I loved him. Taking care of the teddy for me and scolding my siblings for not treating him nicely.

He would always come to my rescue when my sibling would tease me regarding my teddy.

His gestures gave me the assurance that I can always look up to him even when he was not nearby.

Having a loving and caring father is one of the foremost positive impacts that a daughter can have on her life.

Another impact of the father on the daughter’s life is the way he trains her for life. Believe me, life is not a bed of roses but it is the trust and confidence of a father in you that makes life a bed of roses.

As daughters, around the globe, we all need to cherish our fathers and their training to deal with the thorns of life.

Thirdly, fathers who boost the confidence of daughters are confident and high achievers in everything. Be it relationships, marriages, or workplaces. Another tribute dedicated to fathers of confident daughters.

Fourthly, daughters who grow up seeing their parents fight all the time despite their relationships with the child; are affected one way or the other.

Such daughters find it difficult when it comes to marrying or being involved in relationships. Most of the time the trouble relationships that one has faced in one’s childhood come in the way. However, exceptions are always there.

Fifthly, most fathers are givers and not takers and this is what daughters inherit from their fathers most of the time.

I remember so many examples from my childhood to adulthood which only remind me of the times where my father always gave and neither took anything.

And this is what I have inherited from him, how to give without expecting anything in return.

Sixth, fathers take great pride in their daughters and their achievements no matter how small they may be, and that’s what helps us in grooming and cherishing small moments of life in the long run.

Seventhly, a father protects his daughter from the eyes of the outer world without compromising on the development of the child. He wears many hats to nurture his daughter for future life.

And Lastly, a father is the first man in a daughter’s life and the person she always looks up to in the future too, much than the mother.

In the end, I would like to say that the value that a father holds in a daughter’s life cannot be undermined and needs to be given due recognition and tribute to them.

If they are alive cherish them and spend your time with them before it’s too late.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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MODERNIZATION AND WOMEN IN PAKISTAN

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MODERNIZATION AND WOMEN

IN PAKISTAN

Hello Folks!

I have often heard people commenting on how negatively or positively has Modernization influenced women in Pakistan.

Today, i aim to provide an insight about Modernization and women in Pakistan.Here we go.

The transition from the traditional society of the past to modern society as is found today in the West is known as Modernization.

Modernization has negatively affected the status of women in Developing countries is just a state of mind for those who want to self pity.

When changes started occurring over the world,they automatically influenced the developing countries but in a positive way.

The first instance of Modernization process in the west world was marked with the Development of Industrial Technology.

It transformed home based family units economic activity into an efficient generating process. The demand for labor led women in relatively large numbers to join the formal labor force.

In Pakistan,there are about 24.10 percent women who participate in the labor sector. The statistics representing women vary in various sectors.

Secondly, changes in the structure of Employment sector too ,led to the entry of women, mothers with small children into the labor force.

However, greater efforts need to be made on terms of wages and good opportunities to be at par with men.

Thirdly, Modernization led to the increase in Educational and job opportunities.This led to the increase in day care and child care facilities.All this resulted in opening new venues for women.

Fourthly, Modernization has positively contributed in reducing the norms of patriarchy by laying a positive focus on women and their issues.

There are families which are headed by Matriarchy too.Clapping requires two hands only.

Fifthly, the role of women began to change from the submissive, dependent and the childbearing traditional woman to the modern woman.

This led to the demanding for equal rights, sovereignty, and independence assuming the equally heavy career responsibilities.

Sixth, the impact of Modernization affected the role of women. Whatever, programs out there;still they have not taken into account women’s specific needs and multiple role responsibilities.

As a result, women’s productivity has generally remained at a low level.

Seventh, Modernization has also influenced the pattern of marriage decision in family and now females too have a choice in marriage decision.

Eighth, the increase in Education and increase in Literacy,legal reforms,health care facilities,fertility control are some of the components that played a huge role in the process of Modernization.

And Lastly, due to Modernization, females are going beyond their traditional gender roles.

In the end,I would like to say that though Modernization has a positive influence/impact on women and their status in Pakistan;still there are a lot of extremist groups who have their own ends to meet.

Off and on they come to the forefront and can destroy the very nature of Modernization.

It is this time, we need to stand united and follow our core values and represent our specific needs rather than going into debates on vulgar slogans and petty fights.

And so does the Media needs to play its positive role in this whole scenario.Lets have enlightened Moderation without going to extremes and hurting opposite Genders.

It is not wrong to say; United we stand,Divided we fall. Every day is a women day.We need not categorize it specially to make a difference.Implementation starts from our core unit.Think about it.

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THE PERFECT GIFT FOR COUPLES

UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL

Hello Folks!

WHAT TO TEACH COUPLES BEFORE MARRIAGE?

A lot of couples are getting married without really knowing each other. A team without pre-marriage counseling is more likely to face marital problems and separation as time goes by.

To avoid those problems, the couple needs to go through a pre-marriage counseling session before tying the knot.

In this section, I will be talking about what should be taught during a pre-marriage counseling session and what should be avoided.

It is the duty of the couple to learn about each other and their expectations from marriage.

The foremost tip to be taught to the couple is that they need not start a new life after marriage as people say. You are already living life.

All you need is to make a few adjustments according to the person you are bringing into your life and vice versa.

And that all their hard work and efforts will go in vain if they are not committed to their relationship.

To avoid misconceptions during counseling, the counselor should not teach the couple that they are “soulmates” or “meant to be together.”

We don’t know about that yet. Only the turn of the event indicates how successful or unsuccessful the marriage can be.

HOW TO BUILD A STRONG FOUNDATION FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

Secondly, you may have heard the phrase, “the key to a successful relationship is communication.” But what does this entail? Communication can be defined as the act of exchanging thoughts, feelings, or information by speaking, writing, gestures, signs, or sound.

There are many different aspects of communication that you will need to master if you want your new relationship to succeed.

These include acknowledging your partner’s needs and providing an outlet for them to express themselves.

In a new relationship, it’s important to make an effort to get to know your partner.

If you take time for this, it will go a long way in establishing a strong foundation for the relationship.

At the beginning of a new relationship, couples might feel shy and uncomfortable with each other.

This is perfectly normal and just a sign that they are trying hard not to be too invasive or too touchy.

Both need time to understand each other and get used to adding to their lives. Come on, both of you are coming from different backgrounds and systems, you would need time in knowing about your partner.

IMPORTANCE OF GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS IN YOUR LIFE:

Thirdly, communication is the most important skill in a relationship. It is vital for building trust, understanding, respect, and eventually love.

Communication is difficult when you are in an emotional or stressful situation.

When faced with emotional adversity in a relationship it can be hard to listen and understand what your partner is saying.

Thus, it is not surprising that so many couples get divorced due to poor communication skills.

However, good communication skills can get you through almost any obstacle and help get your relationship back on track again.

Communication skills are an essential part of any relationship. Moreover, they can be the difference between a successful and unsuccessful relationship.

It is well known that no one is perfect and we all have our flaws. And so, in a relationship, it is important to know how to communicate effectively to work well with your partner’s flaws and fix your flaws along the way.

It’s a two-way process in which both learn and apply and accept each other.

IMPORTANCE OF CONFLICT MANAGEMENT IN RELATIONSHIPS:

The fourth tip for couples is the importance of conflict management. Conflict is not something that we want in our relationships. It breeds negativity and it is hard to resolve. However, no relationship is perfect and conflict can be resolved if both people are willing to compromise.

Conflict is inevitable in any relationship, whether it be between friends or coworkers.

It’s important to know how to manage your conflict in a way that will prevent it from becoming problematic.

One of the most important ways to improve your conflict management skills is by identifying the root of the issue.

Once you’ve identified the root, you can come up with a solution together or attempt to go around it altogether.

Conflict management skills are needed in every relationship.

It has become one of the most sought-after skills in the workplace because everyone needs it for their daily lives, whether they are working with a spouse or friend or dealing with an unpleasant customer service representative on the phone. So, what are some ways that you can manage conflicts?

There are many techniques that you can use when dealing with conflict resolution skills at home or work. One popular technique is called “active listening.”https://www.mindtools.com/CommSkll/ActiveListening.html

Active listening involves actively paying attention to your partner during an argument while not interrupting them but also acknowledging their issues.

It is not uncommon for people to get into arguments with their partners. The best thing to do when this happens is to resolve the issue and move on.

When people have conflict management skills, they can confront issues in a more positive way, which may result in the issue being resolved in a shorter period.

FUTURE OF PRE COUNSELLING SERVICES:

Last but not least, couples are looking for more than just guidance in their relationships. They’re looking to find someone who understands them and their needs can help them find new ways to communicate with each other and create a sense of intimacy that will last forever.

Many online pre-marriage counseling services can help couples before their marriage day.

Even couples and elderly fellows who have gone through the same experiences yet led successful marriages can always come in handy.

In the end, I would like to say that as the future progresses, technology will continue to change.

Online pre-marriage counseling services are becoming more popular because they are more accessible and people are embracing them for their convenience.

As time goes on, online pre-marriage counseling services may be able to replace in-person therapy sessions.

These guidelines can come in handy for the couples to be married if looked at them from an unbiased point of view. Think about it.https://www.sabahataamir.com/the-catalyst/

Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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A TRIBUTE TO FATHERS AROUND THE GLOBE

UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered about the important role a father plays in the life of a Daughter? Well today, I will narrate a few points in this regard. So let’s start.

When we talk about our father, we always remember the positive side of him. As a daughter when I look into my memories, I recall my teddy bear.

That’s what parents are then to a small child either a teddy bear or carebear or one might coinage one’s own term. For me, he was always my teddy.

I remember him loving my soft toy teddy the same way I loved him. Taking care of the teddy for me and scolding my siblings for not treating him nicely.

He would always come to my rescue when my sibling would tease me regarding my teddy.

His gestures gave me the assurance that I can always look up to him even when he was not nearby.

Having a loving and caring father is one of the foremost positive impacts that a daughter can have on her life.

Another impact of the father on the daughter’s life is the way he trains her for life. Believe me, life is not a bed of roses but it is the trust and confidence of a father in you that makes life a bed of roses.

As daughters, around the globe, we all need to cherish our fathers and their training to deal with the thorns of life.

Thirdly, fathers who boost the confidence of daughters are confident and high achievers in everything. Be it relationships, marriages, or workplaces. Another tribute dedicated to fathers of confident daughters.

Fourthly, daughters who grow up seeing their parents fight all the time despite their relationships with the child; are affected one way or the other.

Such daughters find it difficult when it comes to marrying or being involved in relationships. Most of the time the trouble relationships that one has faced in one’s childhood come in the way. However, exceptions are always there.

Fifthly, most fathers are givers and not takers and this is what daughters inherit from their fathers most of the time.

I remember so many examples from my childhood to adulthood which only remind me of the times where my father always gave and neither took anything.

And this is what I have inherited from him, how to give without expecting anything in return.

Sixth, fathers take great pride in their daughters and their achievements no matter how small they may be, and that’s what helps us in grooming and cherishing small moments of life in the long run.