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Hello Folks!
Earlier, I discussed, how pornography jeopardizes relationships. Today, I aim at discussing the effect pornography has on Youth/ Teens. So let’s start.https://www.sabahataamir.com/how-pornography-…es-relationships/
Firstly, the Youth/ Teenagers involved in the activity of porn lose their interest in things related to social interaction, developing good friendships, communication with family, and things that can give a boost to their personality.
Secondly, watching pornography is a sin and it can lead to bigger sins. Our Youth/Teens may not be mentally developed to make healthy choices for themselves. Let alone watch such stuff without any parental guidance.
They may or may not be successful while watching the stuff available on the internet. If they are successful in getting what they are looking for; parents/mentors need to be watchful regarding their children’s activity on the net without jeopardizing their self-esteem.
There are also cases where the Youth/Teens have been unsuccessful in getting what they needed. These Teens adopt life-risking ways that are not only hazardous to health but can at times be fatal. The effects are always extreme.
Thirdly, Dear Youth, don’t believe everything that is shown in movies. Movies are for entertainment purposes. The producers and directors add spice for flavor. Do not take things for granted. Do your research.
Just think for a moment, can any male in real life have the cock, the size of bamboo? It’s beyond anyone’s imagination and just think for a second, did the directors or producers ever show something related to the man? NO. Then stop this unrealistic thinking and come into the real world.
Fourthly, the size of the organ does not matter in real life. What matters is the love and treatment, one’s life partner has to offer. You have to see what works for you. Respect and Trust is the key factor in matrimony.
You don’t have to mature before time. The race of becoming an adult needs to end and there should be no comparison between who got married first and who was last in the queue or who hasn’t married as yet.
What matters is, whether you married first or last, who is more successful in keeping that bond with fulfillment, grace, integrity, and fairness?
Fifthly, if Youth/Teens develop the habit of watching porn, it will keep them turn on diverting them from things or movies that can positively impact them. They can easily become social outcasts which may in the future lead to many psychological problems.
Sixth, porn leads the Youth/Teen towards viewing every woman/girl from the sex point of view. This often leads to unwanted scenarios and needs to be curbed.
And Lastly, Parents need to discuss things related to sex, sexuality, purity of relationships, body anatomy with their children who are Teens or in the age of Manhood. There is no hard and fast rule that a mother cannot discuss basic things with her son.
Although, there might be cultures where such things are considered to be prohibited. As an enlightened and educated parent, the need of the time is to discuss these things with your children on one to one basis. Children are always looking for someone they can talk to. And this issue can be better addressed by the parents themselves.
Again, options are always available. You are the determining factor in your child’s healthy development. Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and Healthy.
Happy Reading!
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