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Have you ever wondered about the important role a father plays in the life of a Daughter? Well today, I will narrate a few points in this regard. So let’s start.
When we talk about our father, we always remember the positive side of him. As a daughter when I look into my memories, I recall my teddy bear.
That’s what parents are then to a small child either a teddy bear or carebear or one might coinage one’s own term. For me, he was always my teddy.
I remember him loving my soft toy teddy the same way I loved him. Taking care of the teddy for me and scolding my siblings for not treating him nicely.
He would always come to my rescue when my sibling would tease me regarding my teddy.
His gestures gave me the assurance that I can always look up to him even when he was not nearby.
Having a loving and caring father is one of the foremost positive impacts that a daughter can have on her life.
Another impact of the father on the daughter’s life is the way he trains her for life. Believe me, life is not a bed of roses but it is the trust and confidence of a father in you that makes life a bed of roses.
As daughters, around the globe, we all need to cherish our fathers and their training to deal with the thorns of life.
Thirdly, fathers who boost the confidence of daughters are confident and high achievers in everything. Be it relationships, marriages, or workplaces. Another tribute dedicated to fathers of confident daughters.
Fourthly, daughters who grow up seeing their parents fight all the time despite their relationships with the child; are affected one way or the other.
Such daughters find it difficult when it comes to marrying or being involved in relationships. Most of the time the trouble relationships that one has faced in one’s childhood come in the way. However, exceptions are always there.
Fifthly, most fathers are givers and not takers and this is what daughters inherit from their fathers most of the time.
I remember so many examples from my childhood to adulthood which only remind me of the times where my father always gave and neither took anything.
And this is what I have inherited from him, how to give without expecting anything in return.
Sixth, fathers take great pride in their daughters and their achievements no matter how small they may be, and that’s what helps us in grooming and cherishing small moments of life in the long run.
Seventhly, a father protects his daughter from the eyes of the outer world without compromising on the development of the child. He wears many hats to nurture his daughter for future life.
And Lastly, a father is the first man in a daughter’s life and the person she always looks up to in the future too, much than the mother.
In the end, I would like to say that the value that a father holds in a daughter’s life cannot be undermined and needs to be given due recognition and tribute to them.
If they are alive cherish them and spend your time with them before it’s too late.
Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.
Have you ever wondered what men want from a woman in Pakistan? I know what you are thinking and many of you will second my thoughts. Today, I will share with you some of the insights regarding men’s wants.
Previously, I discussed a woman’s want but today I will keep my focus on men exclusively.
Firstly, most men are looking out for a good time with any woman. They are least bothered about the cultural barriers or background or likes or dislikes.
Their uttermost concern is that it has to be something that can be portrayed as a woman even if it is a bottle.
Secondly, most of the time, men will approach women in the name of friendship and it is only a matter of exchanging some messages, they will come to their motives.
You need to be vigilant to understand where the conversation is going. However, men too differ as women do.
Thirdly, sometimes, they just reach out to share their side of the story. Not all men coming after women have the same want.
Wants differ from person to person as well as the situation. And men too, are cultured, to understand this.
Fourthly, every man wants to find true love in the form of a wife or family, or even friends. Every one of us needs to play a positive role in this scenario.
As an individual, we need to think out of the box to assure our insecurities and insecurities of the one called a man. If you have a clear mind, you will know how to go about all this.
Another want of a man is related to something we called vulnerability. He wants an assurance where he and his love can be accepted and nurtured. He may not accept this because he thinks it is childish to accept it in front of a woman of her dreams or wife or even family.
It is a very simple and innocent want and requires acceptance from the person across the border.
Lastly, as a society, we treat our men as superior being unlikely to make any mistake or even commit to one or even accept things. We need to think out of the box and give them space too.
The wants can only be addressed when we are ready to accept them as they are; be they introvert, extrovert, expressive, nonexpressive, self-centered, etc.,
The want of a man needs to be tackled at the family level first. When there is acceptance in the family, everything will ultimately fall in place in the long run.
You don’t have to turn them into Jackal and Hyde to realize this. Think about it.
Everyone wants to lead a happy healthy life free from mental health issues. Have you ever thought about ageing women or the mental and physiological? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mental_health
Today, we are going to talk about Ageing women and the issues related to them. So let’s start.
The Ageing women form a forgotten group in the health and social policies of most governments. The case is the same with women in South Asia. Their quality of life is poor.
Almost, all over the world, women outlive men. However, their rights to inheritance and pension are not generally provided for.
Let us dive deep to analyze issues related to Ageing women.
TRADITIONAL ROLE OF WOMEN:
Firstly, Women fulfil an important role in society by taking care of the young and management of the household etc., without catering for their overall health.
Thirdly, Ageing women in developing countries endure extreme levels of poverty due to insecurity of income, famine, disasters, warfare and no or minimum access to facilities.
DECISION-MAKING PROCESSES:
Fourthly, many societies expect Ageing women to keep working and earn for the younger generation.Â
Without providing them with the social status or voice in decision-making processes.
ROLE OF MENOPAUSE:
Fifthly, menopause has serious health issues for Ageing women. Menopause has both short term and long term effects on their health.
Hot flashes, leakage of Urine, Thinning of Hair and less Depression occur as short term problems related to menopause.
On the other hand, Cardio-vascular, Osteoporosis, Alzheimer’s disease and Breast cancer are related to long term effects of menopause.
DO AGEING WOMEN HAVEÂ HEALTH BENEFITS:
Sixthly, though there is a greater emphasis laid on Maternal health, the health of Ageing women is not accounted for.
Most women die due to Cancer, Cardio-Vascular disease, Malnutrition, Anemia, Visual impairment and other kinds of Disabilities.
The reason behind this is due to their life experiences which make them vulnerable to mental distress.
They receive more psychotropic drugs like tranquillizers, sleeping pills, and antidepressants.
Gender Discrimination is mostly viewed in the treatment of men and women. Where men might be treated by a specialist doctor, women are treated by general practitioners.
And Lastly, I would like to say that giving women a psychiatric label is to ignore the underlying causes of their unhappiness and reason for distress.Â
The mental and health issues of Ageing women can be addressed through proper health care and social service systems. Systems that cater for their loneliness and isolation.
Similarly, Ageing women need to be dealt with adequately as they are the custodian of the youth.
If they are healthy and positive-minded, they will give a brighter tomorrow.
Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.
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