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NEW BEGINNINGS; THE POWER OF SELF HEALING

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NEW BEGINNINGS; THE POWER OF SELF HEALING

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The Search for I/Me is like a book of new beginnings that is similar to coming into this world. Except for the fact that our realities differ then and now in terms of self-healing and discovery.https://www.sabahataamir.com/what-makes-life-worth-living/

When we come into this world, we are accepted as Individuals with open arms irrespective of our Genders or the attitude we may form in the later years of our life. This not only alters our individuality but tends to make us a cog, strangled in Reality altogether.

As we grow older our personality starts taking the shape formulated by other people’s opinions/family/relatives/ society etc. In this whole process the word, I/Me/Individuality is lost in the abyss giving power to the Reality of bonds.

We become what others want us to become. Some people accept this as their fate whereas others whom the society calls by such names as rebels, stereotypes, black sheep, or even as vagabonds do not accept this fate.

Today, I will give you an insight into such people and the power of self-healing. This blog is based on my personal observations and experiences.

VAGABONDS:

Firstly, they are no vagabonds. They are as much as you and me but with a slightly different lens to view the world. They are the real people for they are simple, honest, truthful, and take the world as it is. I would unhesitantly say that they are as pure and innocent as babies.

ACCEPTANCE:

Secondly, they are never accepted for who they are. They have to fight all their life to make people understand them and to accept who they are. I would not call such people stereotypes.

They are like visionaries who look a step forward which common people cannot see. More or less they are like people born out of their time. History is full of examples of such people who were born in the wrong place, in the wrong time then, and even in the present times.

YEARNING:

Thirdly, they have a yearning, a thirst to be felt needed, wanted, and be loved and owned by their family.

Here too, they are out cased and thrown in front of the selfish world like some lunatic to learn lessons and behave according to the family desires and thinking. These people need to be recognized and be brought up according to their needs and thinking.

ROLE OF PARENTS

Fourthly, parents need to update themselves according to the latest technology, training, and psychological patterns of human behavior to let their children be who they want to be. Turning down their thoughts and creativity paralyzes them for life.

Putting oneself in their shoes and sensing how it feels to shun one’s right to liberty, though, experimenting with things a child/adult thinks important to him. How can they fly if you as parents cut their wings?

STRANGLED:

Fifthly, they are strangled in the bond of acceptance from family. Further, when they move into family life, they are strangled into another bond of relationship.

Such relationship be it fruitful or fruitless has to continue in the name of what people may say or that parents won’t accept you for speaking out.

Either, the life is ended by remaining bonded with the burdened relationship or one achieves ultimate freedom. It all depends on how sound you are in terms of survival.

MANIPULATIONS:

Sixth, while going through all the processes, one is manipulated according to the situation; yes that applies to all of us. We are molded through trial and experience and turn out to be what we are.

But the stereotypes are the ones who come out as gems. They are the ones who truly show who they are? They are the ones who change the people around them.

They take the pains of people as their own, distributing smiles along the way, living a pauper life yet ready to give whatever they have especially their goodness of heart and time.

In the end, I would like to say that we are no one to judge who is a vagabond or a stereotype. We all come with a purpose to serve. Some find that purpose earlier yet others spent all their lives to find that purpose strangled in various forms.

And during that journey, we may hurt many through our actions but that does not mean we do not love them or care any less for them. It is just that we are as naive as they are and are struggling to co-exist. As Roy T. Bennett,

“The outer world is a reflection of the inner world. Other people’s perception of you is a reflection of them; your response to them is an awareness of you”.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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LET’S FACE IT TOGETHER

Hello Folks!

In a couple of hours from now, we will enter the year 2021. What are our apprehensions for the coming year and how are we going to deal with them? Are we in this together? Today, I will talk about these. So let’s start.

The year 2020 was an eye-opener for all but what do we expect from 2021? It’s a new chapter, we yet have to explore. We learned a lot in the year 2020 in terms of how to be prepared for the worst scenarios.

Secondly, the year 2020, brought out all the fancies a young mind could have expected. It developed us before time in terms of innocence and facing realities of life.

Thirdly, most of us witnessed the worst economies in terms of unemployment. Our whole education system is a big question mark on what have we been doing for such a long time.

Frankly, we are producing slaves and not leaders, and the times to come require change agents, thinking minds, and not mere book worms.

Fourthly, the new year requires people to jump in rather than thinking whether they are good enough or not for a certain job/work/skill. Explore your productivity and enter into different fields.

Fifthly, stop underestimating yourself and others. We are all unique individuals and time has told us that. We just need to put ourselves to better use.

Sixth, the year 2020, has brought us all together like a big family where we have begun seeing all in their respective places. Now that we see them, let’s work for their well being together.

Seventh, the apprehensions and fear are natural for the new year but are not to be surrendered by a second or third wave or whatever comes forth.

And Lastly, though we may have lost many loved ones or colleagues or mentors this year, we will never forget them or the lessons taught by them.

We and the generations to come will carry forward their traditions of good and togetherness for ages to come.

COVID-19 and its after-effects shall pass too. As there is always lighting at the end of the tunnel.As said by Melody Beattie

“The new year stands before us, like a chapter in a book, waiting to be written. We can help write that story by setting goals”.

Think about it. Until next time stay safe and healthy.

Happy New Year and Season’s greetings.

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WHY DO I WRITE?

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I often wonder why people do what they do? The profession or hobbies that they pursue etc., So today, I aim to delve deep into Why do I write? So let’s start.

Firstly, writing helps me in connecting with my audience irrespective of their age, color, creed, etc. It helps me in communicating with them as a whole without pinpointing any single person.

Secondly, for me, writing is not merely for writing purposes. There is so much that is going on in my head at the time of writing. So many ideas, stories of real people waiting to be written and let known to the world.

Each story and idea has its own uniqueness to be shared with the audience out there. And that triggers me to write.

Thirdly, I write as it is my way of interpreting the world, society, people, environment, and questions surrounding me. I look, observe, talk, and try to drive conclusions to the questions engulfing my mind.

Sometimes. I am successful in finding answers to all my queries and sometimes my queries leave an open-ended answer for the audience to ponder upon.

Fourthly, I write because my writing depicts who I am and what I am capable of. It does not need acceptability from people who don’t understand what my aim is.

It is for sensitive, yet mature people who are facing one sort or the other sort of problems in their day to day life and looking for a solution or just to have a view at someones else view about life.

Fifthly, I write as it is my way of catharsis regarding coping up with life, its follies, intricate relationships, etc, and looking for ways to ease the pain.

And perhaps, this makes me, very sensitive to the pains of others around me. That’s why, I give an open invitation to people to come forward and share their stories if they want.

Sixth, I write as I have a mind of my own where feelings and emotions are more important to me rather than filter thoughts. I say what is at the top of my mind and so do I practice the same.

My mind and tongue are aligned along with the words that I put on a piece of paper. So it is often hard to digest.

Seventh, I write, because I am my own boss and I do not take orders from anyone. I do improve by the sincere efforts of my audience but do not infiltrate my work with bogus stats or stuff that is useless.

And Lastly, I write because I feel no one deserves to be lonely. If my work in any way can give them moments of joy, it is worth the effort, I put in every piece.