How Pornography Jeopardizes Relationships?

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Effects of Pornography on Relationships

 

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered, what Porn can do to the mind, body, and soul?

 

Not to mention the overall impact it has on jeopardizing the relationship between a husband and wife.

 

Today, I aim to delve into the effects of Pornography and how it jeopardizes relationships between husband and wife. So let’s start.

 

Before starting, we need to know what is Pornography.

 

Well, Pornography encompasses material that is predominantly sexually explicit and intended primarily for the purpose of sexual arousal.

 

The first effect of Pornography on the relationship is that it leads to anti-social behavior toward the partners, women in general, and even rape victims.

 

Male viewers tend to be more aggressive towards women particularly their partners and less responsive to the pain and suffering their partners might face.

 

The second effect of pornography on the relationship is that it induces violence. The relationship between partners is very pure, based on mutual consent.

 

There is no room for violence in such relationships. The ultimate motive should be pleasure rather than pain.

 

The third effect of pornography on the relationship is that it diminishes a person’s sexual happiness.

 

Such males have an inclination to diminished satisfaction with their sexual partners’ physical appearance, affection, curiosity, and sexual performance.

 

They are more inclined towards sex without emotional involvement.

 

The fourth effect of pornography on the relationship is the loss of interest in actual sex. The males may lose interest in the advances of their partners.

 

This makes them seem distant or even uninterested when you try to engage with them sexually. You may even need to use more strategies to arouse them before they can perform.

 

The fifth effect of pornography on relationships is that it makes the male more demanding.

 

They can easily be frustrated and alienate their partners due to their unrealistic ideals about sex.

 

This can lead to emotional and physical distress in the partner making them uncomfortable altogether.

 

The sixth effect of pornography on relationships leads to a lack of communication and time. When all the time is allocated towards one cause, there is no room left for communication with the partner.

 

And we all know, where this is going to lead the marriage.

 

And Lastly, the effect of pornography on the relationship leads to oral sex, group sex, anal sex, and sadomasochism.

 

In the end, I would like to say that God created both men and women in His image as sexual beings. Due to the sins in the world, sex has been misused and abused.

 

Pornography not only attacks the dignity of men and women but also distorts the gift of sex which should be practiced only within the bounds of marriage. (This may vary in different cultures).

 

The Holy scriptures maintain a basic modesty toward women and men’s sexual organs and condemn the practices that result from pornography such as sexual exposure, adultery, bestiality, homosexuality, incest, and prostitution.

 

Pornography is an addiction that ruins not only the life of one individual but also the people associated with that individual. As soon as someone close to you starts showing signs of pornography, seek their help at the earliest before they can ruin their and others’ life.

 

Think about it.

 

Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

 

 

 

 

 

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CRIMES IN THE NAME OF CUSTOMS

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CRIMES  IN THE NAME OF CUSTOMS 

 

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Most of you may be familiar with the Crimes practiced in Pakistan, in the name of Customs. Today, I  aim to provide you with an insight into these Crimes. So let’s start.

Women in Pakistan live in a world structured around strict religious, family, and tribal customs that essentially force them to live in “Char Diwari” ( four walls), submission, and overall fear.

They are subjected to discrimination and violence daily due to cultural and religious norms. Pakistani Islamic Law too dictates traditional family values and is enmeshed in the legal system.

This places men as decision-makers regarding marriage and divorce matters. Pakistan’s law, government, and society discriminate against women and condone gender-based violence.

The first crime practiced in the name of custom is Honor Killing. Honor crimes are an act of violence usually murder committed by male family members against female family members who are perceived to have brought dishonor upon the family.

A woman can be targeted by the family for several reasons such as refusal to enter into an arranged marriage or being a victim to the sexual assault or even seeking a divorce from an abusive husband or committing adultery.

Simply, the mere perception of the family that how a woman has acted has brought dishonor to the family is sufficient to trigger an attack.

Honor Killings are common in the interior of all provinces of Pakistan which results in the massacre of Honor Killings to satisfy one’s perception of what is and what isn’t.

The second crime practiced in the name of custom is Karo Kari. Karo means black males and Kari means black females.

It is another custom where a man can kill a woman, claiming that she has brought dishonor to the family and yet expect to be pardoned by her relatives.

In Sind and Baluchistan provinces, the term Karo Kari has been officially employed as a label for the crime of double homicide. A man or a boy and a girl or a woman are both killed usually by the husband, father, or brother in what is characterized as a fit of rage.

Here the killer sees or in many cases hears or blames the victims actively engaged in sexual activity. Traditionally wherever practiced, Karo Kari is perhaps the only form of Honor Killing.

Another crime practiced in the name of custom is Violence. Be it verbal or physical or any other form, it is violence. In Pakistan, the rate of violence is comparatively much higher compared to other crimes.

Violence on women includes physical, psychological, and social oppression. It includes abuse, rape, acid attack, burning, killing, etc.

It is a violation of the right to physical integrity, to liberty, and to her right to life itself.

Another crime practiced in the name of custom is Forced Marriage. In the interiors of the Sind and Baluchistan provinces, marriages are forced and women are bound to bow before the wishes of the family.

Marriage of convenience is another custom where people consciously exploit the institution of marriage to obtain wrongfully certain advantages.

In Pakistan, however, women’s marriage with the Quran is common amongst feudal families or were inherited property matters.

Child marriages are found in the majority of the Tehsils. Such as Rojahan, Kot Addu, Taunsa, Tribal Area, Jatoi, Jalalpur, Pirwala, and Muzaffar Garh. In many Tehsils, early age engagement and Nikkah is also in practice.

Another crime practiced in the name of custom is the sale and purchase of women for marriage and lust purposes.

The sale and purchase of women is a practice and is more common in tehsil’s of Rajan Pur, Tribal Areas, Jampur, D.G  Khan, Kot Addu, AliPur and Jatoi.

Vani or Swara refers to a customary practice that is widespread across Pakistan and is used as a method for resolving disputes and settling debts between families and tribes.

According to this custom, females members from the offending male family are married or given to the victim’s family as reparation or penance.

These decisions are often made by the jirga or panchayat which is a council consisting of the elder members of the community and convene an informal court to decide methods for resolving disputes.

This custom is practiced mostly in Kot Addu, Tribal Area, Multan, Shujjabad, Rojhan, Jampur, D.G khan, Taunsa, Jalalpur, Pirwala, and Muzaffar Garh.

Aaf and Aas is yet another custom practiced in the tehsil of Rajan Pur and Jampur.In this custom, the offender/accuses have to prove himself/herself innocent by crossing the burning fire.

Another crime practiced in the name of the custom is Numrad. It is a custom practiced in Southern Punjab in which after the marriage of the woman; the daughter or girls of the husband’s brother is given to the woman’s family ( father or brother) in exchange.

They can marry that girl to whomever and where ever they want to.

In the end, I  would like to reiterate that such and other aforementioned Crimes practiced in the name of Customs need to be abolished forthwith.

Whether women belong to NWFP or Punjab, many do not get justice for these crimes practiced in the name of customs and there are lists and lists of women who have been affected and suffering.

These women demand such practices be declared null and void with immediate effect. It’s time to take action. Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading!

 

 

 

 

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