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Have you ever had the feeling of being Thrust upon something you don’t want.How do you deal with it?
Today, I will share a few things that really irritates especially when you do not want to have it in the first place. And also how to deal with it. So let’s start.
We often witness Thrusting in shopping malls where the sale person will do everything to make you buy their products.I am not against marketing strategies but I, don’t approve the way in which it is imparted.
Why drag oneself so low to get it sold. If you have a quality product, it would be sold automatically. You don’t have to sell yourself along with the product.
Secondly, are the make-up shops where this Thrust is seen at its height. Hardly, have I ever seen a make up shop where one goes and comes out without buying anything unnecessary.It’s a cult we are practicing for long.
Seriously, do you think, we really need all that make up for a single cause.Like if you go for a concealer only, you will end up buying the primer and the foundation along with the eye palatte an other accessories.Why?
The make up industry is so good at selling their products that you only know about the effects once you are out of the shop. Such a drama.
Thirdly, are the clothing shops.You are simply dazzled by seeing all that variety in the market.
And while you are deciding what mode of action you should follow, there comes someone to use their tactics of selling and thrusting upon you what they want you to buy.
I would rather say interesting selling tactics.Some will use the phrases of Literate clothes, other would coinage it with a persons name and say, wear this and your neighbour X, would be jealous.
And the most interesting thing is that sometimes the names they will use will be of the person who you think is jealous of your clothing.Its a relief for some to hear such phrases.
Fourthly, you face the Thrusting in beauty saloons.The most money minting industry, I would say.
You go for a single service and come back with a whole new look; obviously not for free rather spending tons of money on things you can easily do on your own at the comfort of your own home.
Here, too the sales person are using their tactics to brain wash the clients and mint money out of their pockets for simple services.
Fifthly, are the jewellery shops where Thrusting takes place in such a way that you , yourself do not know what is being done to you.
You only know that you want that particular thing or jewel and your mind fails to work and looks for alternatives.
Sixth, are the Gyms, where Thrusting is seen at its peak. One goes to the gym for a specific purpose but here too, one is extorted to the maximum.If plan A, can work well for the client, still plan B and C would be Thrusted upon the client as a compulsion.
And the client would be convinced to the extent of being totally brainless. What else can I say.
Seventh, are people belonging to institutions offering various courses. Here, you will face a lot of Thrusting.
You want to learn a specific course but you will be offered multiple bundles. These bundles will only waste your time and money without adding anything positive to your learning.
So be really alert when you are being Thrusted upon such bundles. Or else you know what will happen.
And Lastly, are the medical professionals. You go for the treatment of a single disease but are diagnose with multiple ones.How?
In order to diagnose you with what you already know, you will have to give a zillion tests before they can diagnose you and give you their prescription.
And believe me, you will be convinced to your gut what they are saying is true.They are the Philosopher’s king who know all.
In the end I would like to say that dear friends , you have a sound mind that works very well.If you can read this blog, you can easily know when you are being Thrusted upon.
You have the power of walking out of it without any external help.
Let no one tell you what will look good on you or how much accessories you need to be happy or even Thrust themselves upon you.
You, can take this decision on your own.Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.
Have you ever experienced being mugged online or the feelings associated with it as what to do? in order to avoid such circumstances.
Well today, let us talk about how to avoid being mugged in the first place.
Also, let’s try to analyze what are muggers looking for in a victim? So let’s go.
Firstly,you must know as to what is mugging? Well, mugging is “an assault or threat of violence upon a person, especially with intent to rob” .
However, there is a difference between mugging and robbery.In a robbery, there is always a use of force.
Secondly, a mugger is always looking for things, to go smoothly without the hassle of creating any complication.
The moment,a mugger would sense some kind of threat he/she/they will walk away. Obviously,no one wants to be caught red handed for their crimes.
Thirdly, a mugger will always portray oneself as some important personality or a person of great fame.
Now, my friends it is up to you, to assess how far the mugger has camouflaged.
You need to keep your mind and eyes open if you sense anything dubious.
Moreover, before believing anyone blindly, do your homework.Study about that particular personality, he or she is identifying themselves with.
Be it studying a country’s whole constitution.
Fourthly, Do not let muggers take you for granted.You might have one particular soft side.
Do not let anyone exploit that.If you are truthful and honest ,you will pull through this whole scam.
It is just a matter of time.
Fifthly, look for the inconsistencies in the talk of the mugger.As I said,one needs to have an open mind to understand what is going on and how one is being dragged in the whole scenario.
Sixth, be aware of what you share on your social media platforms.
If you are using them for professional purposes, do not highlight anything related with your private life.
Muggers mostly take advantage of your profile or portfolio.This can too get most of you in trouble.
And even if you do have it on your page,your family should know about it.
These times, with the ongoing pandemics are very crucial for all.Be them pandemics,Economic breakdown or what ever.The foremost thing is staying safe.
Seven, the muggers are mostly one person or a group of persons operating within the system.
They always have some sensitive information to tell.Please folks be aware of online scams.
Do not go for lottery draws or emails from Bill Gates.Seriously they are not that free to draft you letters or chit chat with you at odd hours.
If someone wants to invest or donate in your country, they already know the way of investing or donating.
Lastly,if you or any of your contacts, know they are being mugged,there is always a complaint cell.Please use that and do not be scared of anyone.Â
Why do crimes go unnoticed; because no one reports them.This is a chain and needs to be stopped before anyone for real gets hurt.
In the end, I would like to say that all you kids and folks out there,please be very careful while making a friend online.
I know many of you want to experience the challenge;but there is a lot of time for that experience.
You can always join groups of your likes and hobbies or even talk with real people around you.
Impostors cannot pretend to be real people for long.Trust me, it starts getting to them.
Due to such muggers and online insecurity, everything has become so doubtful that those who are really in need and are the right ones, are put to test as well.
Think about it.Until next time stay safe and happy.
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