A BIRTHDAY WISH

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A BIRTHDAY WISH

(Based on a True Story)

It was a night not describable in terms of vocabulary but explained in terms of inner feelings.The pain and turmoil with every passing second (music of grief),enhancing of the slightest sound with the mumbling of the voices.

The night of 30th April,2013 was no less than a pain and torture for the whole family. Waiting in the patients waiting area for hours not being allowed to visit her mother in the ICU, still hoping for her survival and recovery gave her a pain in the heart and brain every time she thought of her mother.

Sitting on the iron chair, praying for her mother ,SHE could feel her hands and brain becoming restless. She got up and went outside the ICU ,where her mother was. She wanted to meet her desperately. Being turned back again and again she went to the sitting area and again prayed for her mother.

Time was ticking(ticking of clock) ,not on the wall only but inside her(pounding of heart),her ears, alert on the announcements of the doctors, nurses and any news that could be heard. It was passed 3:00 am in the morning ;keeping awake all night she could feel something inside her ,unable to answer the questions inside her, she again went to the ICU, turned away again with despair and hate.

She came and started walking to and fro, overall restless not knowing what to do, couldn’t call the family and add worry to their tormented souls; kept on waiting. Time kept on ticking so did the tick tock inside her.

Then she could hear the Fajr prayers and see the dim light of the day. At that time voices started becoming clearer. She then heard the voice behind the counter calling attendant of bed number 27.

With a pain in the heart , praying to hear something positive, she muster up her courage and went to the ICU .There stood a Doctor who on her entry asked her if she knew what had happened to the mother.

Confused in her mind as to why the doctor is asking such a question from her, she explained everything to him. Then he asked where the family was. She told him that they were at home .Then he told her to contact them and ask them to come.

The doctor told her that they were trying to revive the mother who was on ventilation for a week .He told her that she could go outside and call the family. She knew the signals inside were very weak and going outside might take away any chances of not seeing her mother again….

If the mother is revived, she might ask about her, she did not want to take the chance of leaving her, she stayed there and waited, her senses totally numb; after some seconds the same Doctor came and said……we are sorry, she is no more.

My heaven had broken down, the sky seemed falling on me and I feeling as I would too, go under the soil. The medical staff opened the curtains for me. With tears trickling down my eyes, trying to stay composed, there lied my whole universe shattered in front of me. I went near the bed where she was lying ,seeing all kind of pipes coming out of her, I looked at her and then hugged her and kept on saying; Ami please open your eyes, Ami get up.

The voice failed to come out of me but somehow I could hear it. The tears couldn’t stop rolling down my eyes and my mind and heart failed to tally with my words. I desperately wanted her to get up and hug me and kiss me and talked to me but that never happened. My whole life had come to an end.

The whole staff and medical facility seemed like horror film characters. I hated the very sight of them; their words of console and sympathy appeared as wounds of a sword. Nothing could comfort me. I could not leave her sight. They would not let me stay. Broken and torn inside out, I got up and made a call to the family to give them the news. I remembered her wish when she was alive;

“YA MERAY ALLAH, CHAALTAY PHIRTAY UTHA LEINA,MUHTAAJI NA DENA”

(Oh my Lord,take my soul while i can walk; do not give me a life of dependency)

Her wish was granted. It was her birthday….

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TRUSTING YOUR GUTS

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TRUSTING YOURS GUTS

Hello Folks!

Some times not trusting your guts can be a major obstacle in your way of success.There is an ever going debate on mind versus body.Hence, today, I would like to share a few tips on how to trust your guts without undermining the power of mind. So, lets look at a few tips.

Firstly, I would recommend all of you to trust your gut rather than trusting your mind.Most of our decisions are led by our guts rather than our minds and they turn out to be wonderful decisions.There is no harm in trusting your gut while making a decision which has no negative or wrong impact on anyone.

Secondly, If you are to take a decision which has a long term consequence, i would recommend you to sleep over it and think about it and analyze it and if your gut tells you to do it, then take the decision.Don’t prolong it.

Thirdly, try to interpret good and bad instincts. Practice makes a man perfect.There may be times when you have a certain feeling about something.Let your body decide the reaction to it and if it says yes,just follow it without thinking too much on it.

Fourthly, try to surround yourself with people who elevate you rather than those who bring you down.These are the real people you can trust with your future endeavors and rely on them in difficult times.

Fifthly,trust you gut especially in times when you feel unsafe.There are no hard and fast rules to as or where or when or with who you will start feeling unsafe but if you come across such feelings,trust your guts and flee away from such a situation.

Sixth,challenge yourself everyday.Put yourself in a new situation daily and walk through it.See what your gut tells you about the situation and what you do to overcome it.

Seventh, before going to bed at night, think about all the decisions you made by trusting your gut and how did they end. If your decisions made you proud, don’t forget to applause yourself.

And Lastly, listen to the signs your body is giving you. Don’t under estimate them and put them in doldrums.Think about them,analyze them and act appropriately.That is how you will learn to trust your guts.

In the end, I would like to say that both our mind and body work together to make us move forward, have enlightenment about good or bad. However,without putting our trust in our guts gives away every chance of thinking out of the box and reaching heights yet to be discovered.

Have a great weekend.

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EASY TIPS TOWARDS A SUCCESSFUL YOU

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EASY TIPS TOWARDS A SUCCESSFUL YOU

 

HI! Everyone.

Today, I am going to tell you FIVE of the very basic yet useful tips that are required for losing body weight and will result towards a successful YOU in no time. I am not going to talk about any diet plans or brands of food to eat or even run to the gyms to lose body weight. Apparently, we may be different but inside we are the same. Except there are some exceptions to certain foods and allergies. But the tips down here are useful for all body types.

Firstly, every morning, drink one glass of water on an empty stomach as it neutralizes the toxins in the body. This is the most useful tip on losing body weight fast and easy. If you are not used to drinking  plain water, you can always add a teaspoon of honey with a freshly grated lime in it. There are so many other options like you can experiment with the herbs in your kitchen shelf. You will notice remarkable changes in your body within a couple of days.You can look forward toward a successful YOU in a matter of time.

Secondly, Eat an apple with your breakfast. why? It fills the stomach. Apple is well-known for many things, such as anti-oxidants, vitamins and minerals. It is good for the cardiovascular health, reduces risks of diabetes, weight loss, low cholesterol, provides strength to bones and detoxes the body. As they say; an apple a day keeps the doctor away.

Breakfast is the most important meal of the day. Your whole day depends on what you are consuming in your breakfast .It should be a mix of fruits, oats, barleys, cereals , egg, milk and fresh seasonal fruit. This energy will keep you going through most of your day.

Thirdly, eat organic foods be it in the form of fruits, vegetables, meat or even drinks. Organic fruits and vegetables contain  more vitamin C, more iron,  more magnesium, and more phosphorus. Our body was designed to eat a balanced diet free from preservatives. The consumption of foods rich in sugars and preservatives lead us away from having a successful YOU. And this takes us away from achieving our goal of losing body weight.

Fourthly, do take out 30 minutes to do a set of exercises where it is mostly needed; can be any part of the body. Every body type is different. See what works out best for you. Can be simple walk, or jump or skipping or meditating. You are the best judge of your body. While exercising do not forget to drink water as required. Just do not over due either exercise or over consumption of water.

And lastly, a goodnight sleep is the key to weight losing. For every person a different sleep pattern works. For some 3—4 hours sleep is sufficient. Others would require a 6-8 hours sleep. There is no set pattern of sleep for all individuals. As I have said earlier, you will have to devise your own mechanism and then follow it. A good night sleep can bring miracles to your life be it in terms of success, management, relationships, work etc. Do not compromise on your sleep folks.

These tips are the most easy way to lose body weight and lead towards a successful YOU, a brighter future to success. These cannot be achieved in a day but I, guarantee you if you are steadfast and determined to bring a change in your life, you are just a step away from achieving your dream of a successful you.

 

 

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