Relationship and Family Guidance
How To Raise A Boy To Be A Gentleman
PART I Hello Folks! In this blog, I am going talk about How To Raise A Boy To Be A Gentleman in 2022. Parenting
August 6, 2022
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Effects of Pakistani Dramas on Families/Marriages
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EFFECT OF PAKISTANI DRAMAS ON FAMILIES/MARRIAGES
Hello Folks!
Have you ever wondered how Pakistani Dramas and entertainment shapes our families/ marriages? I am sure most married people/families will second my thoughts. So let’s start.
Nowadays, due to the pandemic and all, the new focus is on dramas and entertainment, etc., but what are we deriving from it? There was a time when the whole family would sit together at drama time to watch their favorite dramas.
But now, what is being shown in the dramas is nothing like the old times when all members would sit together and watch. What is our new generation learning from these dramas? How to get hold of a rich man irrespective of him being married and happy in his life and family?
The underlying purpose is to make him yours even if you have to turn a villain for it.
Another thing that is being taught is to keep a spare tyre in reserve. If one doesn’t work, change the other to enjoy the benefits of all the world. Virgins and non-virgins or likewise.
On the other hand, what are men gaining from these dramas? Only nonsense and applying that nonsense to their wives. The characters in the dramas are primarily fictional. Very few might be based on reality.
This, however, does not give one the privilege to treat their better halves on the same level. And it is simply unjust to do such a thing.https://www.sabahataamir.com/why-modern-marriages-fail/
Another effect on marriages is regarding the culture that is being portrayed in these dramas. Our society is a cultural society. How open is the husband toward a wife having university or college friends or let alone office colleagues? Their thinking will always remain the same, no matter how cultured or educated they become.
A wife has the heart to accept the man with all his flaws without saying a word but the man does not have the heart to accept one small mistake of a woman and may always be in search of catching her on the wrong foot.
Then, the zero-sized figures in the form of models are truly unrealistic. Even if one getting married is a zero-sized barbie, there is no guarantee she will remain the same after marriage. One goes through a lot of hormonal changes and can become a bharbie (heavy) doll in no time.
The same is the case with men. When they will have tasty foods to eat all year through, how lean can they remain? They too might turn into a potato. But potatoes are fine with models and bharbie dolls are not.
Similarly, not to mention the dressing. Seriously, can a mediocre class afford a branded dress if the monthly expenditure of a household is 10,000 rupees? Who is the entertainment industry fooling?
Not to mention the makeup which changes with every scene. In a poor household who can afford a full puck up face with the latest products.
The entertainment industry is a sadist in disguise who enjoy at the expense of spoiling marriages through their unrealistic portrayal of Pakistani society and its cultural values.
If you want to see a real Pakistani married couple, visit your next-door neighbor or any family you know. You will find the real drama going on in their lives and believe me, it’s no entertainment. Its reality. Think about it.
Until next time stay safe and healthy.
Happy Criticising!
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Why Modern Marriages Fail?
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Why Modern Marriages Fail?
Hello Everybody!
Today, I aim to talk about something very common yet has great food for thought; why do modern marriages fail?
Nowadays, almost everyone is in a rush. Rush to go to the office, rush to check messages, rush to have money, rush to have an ever-growing career, rush in finding soul mates, etc.
The word RUSH has become some sort of custom which people are practicing in the blink of an eye.
Moving at a pace in different areas is good but there is an aspect where I would say, staying low and slow is better. It is the marriage area. One should not rush for it.
I have seen so many people making a waste of their life in haste. Everything has a pattern and things eventually fall in place at the right time.
We have heard this saying right from early ages that couples are made in heaven and marriages are celebrated on earth. Then why cannot we wait for our turn to come?
We will find our soul partner but we need to be patient and wait for the right person and time to come.
And before all this happens we need to avoid certain things. The foremost thing is to stop running after /for marriage, killing yourself in finding your rightful mate.
Everything has been planned by the great Creator. You will find that someone for you someday.
Secondly, have a strong belief in your Creator. He blesses all with the best of the lot. Sometimes, things do not work in our favor; but we should not be dejected rather we should be firm that what is kept for us is for the best and it will be unveiled timely.
Thirdly, there is the law of attraction of the universe. It is my observation if you desire something so badly, not only are you working for it the whole universe works in a way for it to happen.
It is more or less the same as the law of attraction. So stay positive.
Fourthly, do not pay heed to what people say about you growing old and being unsettled or bla bla. You, yourself are a better judge of the scenario.
Maybe you have not reached that level in your life where you feel sufficient or the time to move on. When you feel that the time has come, take it by four locks and go for it. Until then, just chill.
Fifthly, avoid the negative environment around you. Look for people who are your well-wishers. Can be a friend, colleague, mentor, or even someone from the family.
Share with them your concerns, and fears but do not bombard them with your innermost desires. They might not know how to comfort you. After all, they too are human.
Lastly, go out and pamper yourself. Spend time with yourself, invest in yourself and observe people around you.https://www.sabahataamir.com/3-keys-to-boosti…inner-confidence/
Your keen observation will help you in moving in the right direction without underestimating yourself. So be an angel rather than a fool.
Until next time, stay safe and healthy.
Happy Reading Folks.
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10 Tips for Effective Time Management
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10 Tips for Effective Time Management
Hello Folks!
It has been a long time since my last post and I have missed you all tremendously. So today, I decided to share with you something very interesting that has added more value to my daily life.
Time management is a topic that is often discussed, but few seem to have mastered it. In order to better manage your time, it’s important to recognize the time-wasters in your day-to-day life and find ways to stop them from happening. Here are 10 tips for managing your time more effectively: So let’s start.
Have you ever thought to yourself that there aren’t enough hours in the day, or felt overwhelmed at the tasks facing you? If you have, this article can help you!
Clarify your goals and strategy:
Be very clear about your aims and ambitions, both short and long-term. Write them down. Once you know what you want to achieve (and why) it’s easier to make decisions about what needs doing and to plan accordingly.
Focus on your top priorities
You’ll be more productive and profitable if you identify and focus on the areas most important to your business.
Work on the fundamentals first. The Latin word ‘fundamental’ means foundation – so take action, build strong foundations and the rest should follow.https://pngtree.com/?sce=af&id=9786
Schedule time:
Write an appointment in your work planner (you do have one of those, don’t you?) to set aside a realistic block of time for your priority actions.
This reduces anxiety over not having enough time and keeps you focused.
Say no!
Consider Jim Rohn’s suggestion. “Learn how to say no.
Don’t let your mouth overload your back.”https://quotefancy.com/quote/837747/Jim-Rohn-Learn-how-to-say-no-Don-t-let-your-mouth-overload-your-back
Always check your schedule before committing to anything new. Don’t allow others to divert you from your objectives.
Create supportive systems:
This includes systems for filing, management information, and communication and emotional support systems.https://www.uopeople.edu/blog/what-is-a-support-system/
Take a reality check:
Will your current activity have a positive outcome, or are you doing it to avoid something else? Ask yourself – will doing this take me towards my goal? As Peter F Drucker observed, “There is nothing so useless as doing efficiently that which should not be done at all” https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/peter_drucker_105338
Delegate!
It’s tempting to do something yourself when you think you can do it faster and better.
But consider the long term – delegation now will save time in the future.
And if done appropriately can motivate your staff, boost their confidence and help them develop their skills.https://rytr.me/user/sabahat
Repeat your success:
Remember the last time you went away on holiday⛸🛶, and how you got so much done in those few days before you left? What strategies and techniques did you employ that made you so effective and focused? Can you repeat them? Alternatively, imagine you are going away tomorrow and working through today accordingly.
Balance your life:
Formally schedule personal activities too, so you make time for family, friends, your health, and fun.
Because having a balanced life reduces stress and increases energy levels.
Time management is really about life management!https://www.sabahataamir.com/3-powerful-tips-to-help-manage-everyday-stress/
End the day:
At the end of the working day, tidy your desk, make notes about what needs doing tomorrow and prioritize those tasks.
You’ll worry less that evening and be prepared and focused the next morning
Think about it. Think about how you can fulfill your dreams and goals with these simple tips?
Until next time, stay safe and healthy.❤💖
Happy Reading!😊
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