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THE CATALYST

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THE CATALYST

As a child, I often used to wonder why are marriages spoiled? The most beautiful relationships coming to end in the spur of a second. What can be the reason for breaking a beautiful sleep?

I have got my answer. There can be 101 reasons for a breakup in a marriage or even a relationship. But what I am going to tell you today will be something, no one ever told you. A catalyst. So let us start.

We often talk about parents bonding and vice versa but anything in excess has its side effects. In marriages, every day is a battlefield where either the husband or the wife plays the role of a warrior to save the family from forces that want to harm them.

But then, there are days when this battle is lost and the forces at work win. This all seems like a fairy tale, but real life is no less than these tales; only the characters are human beings facing real-life threats and scams and negativity.

In most marriages, either person/partner needs to be of sound/balance mind lest you want a break-up. Anyways, being a woman and a wife, most of us know where to hit the nail.

If the nail is not hit on the head, then the consequences can be great. The same is the case of a break-up in Marriages. Husbands are born to bear a lot of pain obviously not childbirth which is not their realm but theoretically speaking loss of a loved one and other craps.

One thing a husband can never bear is anything said against his parents or maybe siblings. You want to bring out the monster in him, take a shot and then you will know what I mean.

It is not that they don’t know about the ills done by their family; it’s the acknowledgment that they fail to recognize. We train our children right from the beginning to accept their mistakes and own them but why do we not teach them to question their parents when they are wrong.

I know the rights and duties of parents but why are we failing in this regard. When the survival of marriage becomes difficult, why is a woman always told to have patience and bear all the shit of the inlaws and husbands? And why is she reminded of her duty towards all?

Why is not the husband told all this and why don’t the inlaws stop meddling with the affairs of the couple and put their noses where it is needed?

Not all in-laws or parents have the stamina to share their sons with an outsider(wife). No matter how devoted she might be, there will always be a reason to corner her and have what one seeks.

It’s a sorry state of affairs but this is a common practice in 90 percent of cases in Asian marriages and there is no single law to put the in-laws in their places and not to meddle with couple personal matters.

When training and grooming our children, we need to teach them justice and to keep all at par without infringing anyone’s rights.

In the end, I would say that unless and, until there is a balanced in training and laws enforced to keep people in their places, then would marriages survive. Think about it.https://www.sabahataamir.com/the-perfect-gift…ose-and-personal/

Until next time, stay safe and Healthy.

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WHAT THE WORLD WOULD BE LIKE IF HAPPINESS DIDN’T EXIST?

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WHAT THE WORLD WOULD BE LIKE IF HAPPINESS DIDN’T EXIST?

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered, what would the world be like if happiness didn’t exist at all? Well, I have thought about it many times and today I will lay my emphasis on it. So let’s start.

To begin with, no one really can describe happiness in concrete terms. It is more of a feeling associated with all living beings. Happiness is just like our body temperature which makes us feel different things and analyze them according to the rise and fall in temperature.

For me, no world can exist without happiness. Happiness is one of the elements that make our existence possible. How? You must be wondering. Well, you see, our life is made up of so many elements; pain, sorrow, weakness, downtrodden, pessimism, tragedy, etc.

What elevates us out of this is the illumination of joy, happiness. Just the thought about this illumination puts a smile on our faces. This is Happiness. Who can even think of the possibility of having a world without happiness?

Keeping in view, the death toll and the disease that is prevailing nowadays, still there is hope, a desire to see the good old days and get back to life. This is what happiness gives us.

If we imagine the possibility of having a world without happiness, it is even impossible to comprehend it. Happiness doesn’t require a fortune or even wealth. It is rather the contentment of having what you have at present.

The satiety of being comfortable with whatever means that is available, along with good health and a loving family around is sufficient. You don’t need anything else.

Think of a dying man. His wealth is not going to give him health or love rather it is the investment of time he has done all his life that is going to pay him off at this stage and that my friend is the everlasting happiness for him.

In the end, I would like to add that a world where no happiness exists can either be Hell or lifelessness. We live in a living world made of people, nature, hope, happiness, joy, play, and consciousness.

And till the time these elements are around, we don’t have to worry about the world with no happiness. Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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THE BLAME GAME; UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

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THE BLAME GAME

UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

Hello Folks!

Recently, I have been going through a lot of turmoil regarding the online classes and the problems at hand. Today, I aim at discussing these problems, the Blame Game, and the suffering party. So let’s start.

The foremost problem that students are facing online is regarding I.T issues. Even the most competent lot has failed to understand basic issues related to I.T; let alone the teachers.

How hard is it to turn on a simple computer and apply the appropriate software to the system? What are the so-called big systems installed in school doing in this regard except blaming each other regarding the responsibility?

The second problem that students are facing online is the lack of delivery regarding lessons. I won’t deny the fact that people who have been teaching all their life face to face find this mode of delivery rather difficult but trust me guys it’s not that difficult. You just need to get the hang of it. There is a way to everything if one has the will to do it.

Our children have proved this by grasping the new modes then why can’t the deliverers do the same. There is no insult to learning something new. At the age of 43, I am learning each day from my children, surroundings, and like-minded people. So can you.

The third problem that students are facing is the biases on part of the teachers. All students deserve attention and no single student should be sidelined for your meaningless biases.

The fourth problem that students are facing online is regarding the explanation of a topic. Research is good no doubt but even to research children/students need concepts. Without explanation, you can’t expect a student to write a Research paper. So stop giving video links in the first place rather, start explaining.

The fifth problem that students are facing is the blame game. Every time a student account is locked, the one responsible doesn’t take the responsibility rather the vicious cycle begins of blaming; switching from one department to the other.

And in this whole blame game who is the sufferer? Not the schools. It is the students who suffer each day. The institutions are getting their share in the form of fees. Why should they even care for the loss a student has to go through?

And Lastly, the problem that students have to face is the wrath of the teachers who are exposed at the hands of students for telling the truth. It’s a shame such teachers bring on the whole community of teachers/Educationists.

Dear Institutions, it is not COVID that is to be blamed. Rather it has always been your attitude due to which the endless number of students have suffered as well as their parents who are just clients to you.

Of all private schools, The CITY SCHOOL is, unfortunately, the worst institution, I have found so far. All corrupt to the core. The more you try to analyze, the more darkness you will find within. It’s too late for you to even think about it as you are at a point of no return.

May God Almighty help you and ease the pains of the sufferer.

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THE CATALYST

As a child, I often used to wonder why are marriages spoiled? The most beautiful relationships coming to end in the spur of a second. What can be the reason for breaking a beautiful sleep?

I have got my answer. There can be 101 reasons for a breakup in a marriage or even a relationship. But what I am going to tell you today will be something, no one ever told you. A catalyst. So let us start.

We often talk about parents bonding and vice versa but anything in excess has its side effects. In marriages, every day is a battlefield where either the husband or the wife plays the role of a warrior to save the family from forces that want to harm them.

But then, there are days when this battle is lost and the forces at work win. This all seems like a fairy tale, but real life is no less than these tales; only the characters are human beings facing real-life threats and scams and negativity.

In most marriages, either person/partner needs to be of sound/balance mind lest you want a break-up. Anyways, being a woman and a wife, most of us know where to hit the nail.

If the nail is not hit on the head, then the consequences can be great. The same is the case of a break-up in Marriages. Husbands are born to bear a lot of pain obviously not childbirth which is not their realm but theoretically speaking loss of a loved one and other craps.

One thing a husband can never bear is anything said against his parents or maybe siblings. You want to bring out the monster in him, take a shot and then you will know what I mean.

It is not that they don’t know about the ills done by their family; it’s the acknowledgment that they fail to recognize. We train our children right from the beginning to accept their mistakes and own them but why do we not teach them to question their parents when they are wrong.

I know the rights and duties of parents but why are we failing in this regard. When the survival of marriage becomes difficult, why is a woman always told to have patience and bear all the shit of the inlaws and husbands? And why is she reminded of her duty towards all?

Why is not the husband told all this and why don’t the inlaws stop meddling with the affairs of the couple and put their noses where it is needed?

Not all in-laws or parents have the stamina to share their sons with an outsider(wife). No matter how devoted she might be, there will always be a reason to corner her and have what one seeks.

It’s a sorry state of affairs but this is a common practice in 90 percent of cases in Asian marriages and there is no single law to put the in-laws in their places and not to meddle with couple personal matters.

When training and grooming our children, we need to teach them justice and to keep all at par without infringing anyone’s rights.

In the end, I would say that unless and, until there is a balanced in training and laws enforced to keep people in their places, then would marriages survive. Think about it.https://www.sabahataamir.com/the-perfect-gift…ose-and-personal/

Until next time, stay safe and Healthy.

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WHAT THE WORLD WOULD BE LIKE IF HAPPINESS DIDN’T EXIST?

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered, what would the world be like if happiness didn’t exist at all? Well, I have thought about it many times and today I will lay my emphasis on it. So let’s start.

To begin with, no one really can describe happiness in concrete terms. It is more of a feeling associated with all living beings. Happiness is just like our body temperature which makes us feel different things and analyze them according to the rise and fall in temperature.

For me, no world can exist without happiness. Happiness is one of the elements that make our existence possible. How? You must be wondering. Well, you see, our life is made up of so many elements; pain, sorrow, weakness, downtrodden, pessimism, tragedy, etc.

What elevates us out of this is the illumination of joy, happiness. Just the thought about this illumination puts a smile on our faces. This is Happiness. Who can even think of the possibility of having a world without happiness?

Keeping in view, the death toll and the disease that is prevailing nowadays, still there is hope, a desire to see the good old days and get back to life. This is what happiness gives us.

If we imagine the possibility of having a world without happiness, it is even impossible to comprehend it. Happiness doesn’t require a fortune or even wealth. It is rather the contentment of having what you have at present.

The satiety of being comfortable with whatever means that is available, along with good health and a loving family around is sufficient. You don’t need anything else.

Think of a dying man. His wealth is not going to give him health or love rather it is the investment of time he has done all his life that is going to pay him off at this stage and that my friend is the everlasting happiness for him.

In the end, I would like to add that a world where no happiness exists can either be Hell or lifelessness. We live in a living world made of people, nature, hope, happiness, joy, play, and consciousness.

And till the time these elements are around, we don’t have to worry about the world with no happiness. Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading!

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THE BLAME GAME

UPCLOSE AND PERSONAL

Hello Folks!

Recently, I have been going through a lot of turmoil regarding the online classes and the problems at hand. Today, I aim at discussing these problems, the Blame Game, and the suffering party. So let’s start.

The foremost problem that students are facing online is regarding I.T issues. Even the most competent lot has failed to understand basic issues related to I.T; let alone the teachers.

How hard is it to turn on a simple computer and apply the appropriate software to the system? What are the so-called big systems installed in school doing in this regard except blaming each other regarding the responsibility?

Our children have proved this by grasping the new modes then why can’t the deliverers do the same. There is no insult to learning something new. At the age of 43, I am learning each day from my children, surroundings, and like-minded people. So can you.

The third problem that students are facing is the biases on part of the teachers. All students deserve attention and no single student should be sidelined for your meaningless biases.

The fifth problem that students are facing is the blame game. Every time a student account is locked, the one responsible doesn’t take the responsibility rather the vicious cycle begins of blaming; switching from one department to the other.

And in this whole blame game who is the sufferer? Not the schools. It is the students who suffer each day. The institutions are getting their share in the form of fees. Why should they even care for the loss a student has to go through?

And Lastly, the problem that students have to face is the wrath of the teachers who are exposed at the hands of students for telling the truth. It’s a shame such teachers bring on the whole community of teachers/Educationists.

Dear Institutions, it is not COVID that is to be blamed. Rather it has always been your attitude due to which the endless number of students have suffered as well as their parents who are just clients to you.

Of all private schools, The CITY SCHOOL is, unfortunately, the worst institution, I have found so far. All corrupt to the core. The more you try to analyze, the more darkness you will find within. It’s too late for you to even think about it as you are at a point of no return.

May God Almighty help you and ease the pains of the sufferer.

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