How Pornography Jeopardizes Relationships?

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Effects of Pornography on Relationships

 

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered, what Porn can do to the mind, body, and soul?

 

Not to mention the overall impact it has on jeopardizing the relationship between a husband and wife.

 

Today, I aim to delve into the effects of Pornography and how it jeopardizes relationships between husband and wife. So let’s start.

 

Before starting, we need to know what is Pornography.

 

Well, Pornography encompasses material that is predominantly sexually explicit and intended primarily for the purpose of sexual arousal.

 

The first effect of Pornography on the relationship is that it leads to anti-social behavior toward the partners, women in general, and even rape victims.

 

Male viewers tend to be more aggressive towards women particularly their partners and less responsive to the pain and suffering their partners might face.

 

The second effect of pornography on the relationship is that it induces violence. The relationship between partners is very pure, based on mutual consent.

 

There is no room for violence in such relationships. The ultimate motive should be pleasure rather than pain.

 

The third effect of pornography on the relationship is that it diminishes a person’s sexual happiness.

 

Such males have an inclination to diminished satisfaction with their sexual partners’ physical appearance, affection, curiosity, and sexual performance.

 

They are more inclined towards sex without emotional involvement.

 

The fourth effect of pornography on the relationship is the loss of interest in actual sex. The males may lose interest in the advances of their partners.

 

This makes them seem distant or even uninterested when you try to engage with them sexually. You may even need to use more strategies to arouse them before they can perform.

 

The fifth effect of pornography on relationships is that it makes the male more demanding.

 

They can easily be frustrated and alienate their partners due to their unrealistic ideals about sex.

 

This can lead to emotional and physical distress in the partner making them uncomfortable altogether.

 

The sixth effect of pornography on relationships leads to a lack of communication and time. When all the time is allocated towards one cause, there is no room left for communication with the partner.

 

And we all know, where this is going to lead the marriage.

 

And Lastly, the effect of pornography on the relationship leads to oral sex, group sex, anal sex, and sadomasochism.

 

In the end, I would like to say that God created both men and women in His image as sexual beings. Due to the sins in the world, sex has been misused and abused.

 

Pornography not only attacks the dignity of men and women but also distorts the gift of sex which should be practiced only within the bounds of marriage. (This may vary in different cultures).

 

The Holy scriptures maintain a basic modesty toward women and men’s sexual organs and condemn the practices that result from pornography such as sexual exposure, adultery, bestiality, homosexuality, incest, and prostitution.

 

Pornography is an addiction that ruins not only the life of one individual but also the people associated with that individual. As soon as someone close to you starts showing signs of pornography, seek their help at the earliest before they can ruin their and others’ life.

 

Think about it.

 

Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

 

 

 

 

 

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EXPECTATIONS VERSUS REALITY

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EXPECTATIONS VERSUS REALITY

 

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How unfortunate it is when things don’t turn out to be the way you expect them to. You are right dear friends, I am talking about Expectations versus Reality.

Today, I aim to talk about the scenario that has been created amidst COVID -19 and how it has affected Eid celebrations all over Pakistan.

As compared to Eid ul Fitr, this eid too was not much different for many. There were a lot of expectations suspended in the air about the wearing off of COVID-19 but till the end day, no change could be seen.

So, all planning regarding preparation for Eid went into the doldrums.

Secondly, people in different parts of the country were expected to observe the SOP as per government orders.

However, in reality, the market fled with human cattle and goats to worsen the scenario of precautionary measures that were being followed for months.

Resulting in lockdown right before Eid. My sympathies for all those who waited for the COVID-19 to wear off to do their shopping.

Thirdly, in the backdrop of the crushed Economy, it was expected to see a great difference in prices of things but in Reality, from basic staple till cattle and goats of gold, a major difference could be witnessed.

This scenario had a great impact on the lower middle classes and the labor class.

Fourthly, those who feared the COVID-19 were extra careful and fearful to the extent, they didn’t even buy the goats made of gold as compared to the fearless ones.

Fifthly, the labor class was the only one who even worked on Eid day to sustain themselves and their families.

This is a sorry state of affairs and a great question mark on the performance of the government who cannot address the basic needs of its people.

Sixth, it was expected that people will act more responsibly as compared to normal circumstances.

However, in reality, some people behaved irresponsibly by having large gatherings at their places and exposing themselves with greater chances of contracting the virus.

And Lastly, the true spirit of this Eid could only be witnessed in villages, for these are the only places that are free from this virus.

As a matter of observation, they are the ones who in true spirit practiced and enjoyed eid celebrations to its fullest.

In the end, I would like to say that when will we as individuals learn to take responsibility for our actions.

We cannot always blame others for our deeds. Whatever, we did before or during Eid, we have to be ready to face the consequences.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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BENEFITS OF PUZZLES/JIGSAWS

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BENEFITS OF PUZZLES/JIGSAWS

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Have you ever wondered,why do we, as humans are able to remember colours,shapes and even see the bigger picture to see where each piece fits in?

You guessed it right.I am talking about Jigsaws/Puzzles.

Today, I aim to talk about Puzzles/Jigsaws and the benefits that lie in solving it.So let’s start.

Firstly, solving Puzzles/Jigsaws are a way of reinforcing existing connections in our brain cells.This in turn helps in improving our short term memory.

Secondly, Jigsaws/Puzzles are all about patterns.Our surrounding is filled with pattern.

Puzzles helps our brain to grow and develop by finding the hidden patterns in objects lying around us.

Thirdly, it improves our ability of visual perception.The way we see our surroundings,absorb information,then organize it and try to make a sense out of it.

Like reading a book.We look at the words in a book and try to make sense of the story.

Fourthly, Puzzle solving hones coordination in humans especially when it comes to decision making and team playing.

Fifthly,through Jigsaw solving,the critical thinking develops which helps in improving the listening skills, communication and problem solving skills.

Sixthly, beside a good exercise,the release of Dopamine is a benefit for humans when they solve puzzles.It gives great pleasure to us.

Thus, impacting  our concentration, motivation and memory.In a way, the production of Dopamime resets our brain for the greater good.

Seventh, solving Puzzles heightens the creativity in an individual.Making puzzles might seem an easy task but there is so much creativity involved in the whole process.

The more challenging the puzzle the more creativity is heightened. Creativity heightens thinking, enhances self-esteem, and reduces stress.

Lastly, solving puzzles help in the overall brain activity giving peace and tranquilty to the mind as a whole.

It leads to mental  health and wellness of all individuals.

In the end, I would say that puzzle solving is a great activity and should be made a part of daily activities.

As an individual, it has so many benefits;if used in groups one might be able to achieve great heights of success.Think about the wonders it can unveil.

Until next time stay safe and healthy.

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