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A CHANGED BODY: HERE IS WHERE I EXIST

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A CHANGED BODY: HERE IS WHERE I EXIST

Hello Folks!

Have you ever had the feeling of being unacceptable for the way you look? About your changed body, about your existence, I have it every day.

Today, I will give you another insight into a married woman’s life and the role people play in her day-to-day life. So let’s start.

A girl/woman goes through many phases before she is accepted to be someone’s life partner. The real test starts after the marriage.

However, she makes so many compromises and sacrifices to make an ideal marriage. She is always lurking on the edge to make it work.

Sometimes even fighting with the insecurities she might face. So, everyone has their own monsters/battles to fight.

I fight my battles every day with the acidic people in my surroundings who keep on reminding me about the way I look.

And the weight I have put on, the spots I have on my face, and whatnot. How do I deal with them? I will tell you shortly.

A question for the sensible people out there. Does being married to a girl /woman who is beautiful before marriage put a tag around her neck of being sold to you?

You got it right. She is married and not sold to you. Being beautiful from the outside forever is not a guarantee that you sign in your marriage contract.

However, the marriage contract does not say that apparent beauty cannot expire. It may expire soon or late but what won’t expire is that what lies inside her/you/me.

Women and their bodies change at an incredible speed after childbirth. Does that mean they have left their inner beauty? Not at all.

Then why do husbands fail to see it? Their only concern is the outside beauty. I have seen women kill themselves to get their pre-pregnancy bodies back.

Seriously, how good is the outside physique if it is being rotten bit by bit by your(husband’s) acidic remarks.

Physical beauty might be a small part of a relationship but for sensible people, it is not even that factor. In Pakistan, most people marry for looks, wealth, and all that sparkle.

Virtuous women don’t look for these things in a husband. They need husbands who can respect them and accept them, cherish them, no matter how ugly they might become.

Physical beauty https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness is a factor that needs to be eliminated in marriages and there is a dire need to change the mindset of the majority.

In a changed body; this is the height of sacrifice, a woman makes to complete the family; knowing she may or may not come back to her normal self/physical state, but she is ready to take the risk.

Both my pregnancies were difficult ones. At my daughter’s birth, I had shooting blood pressure and had to go for a C-section.

Similarly, at my son’s birth, I had borderline, Diabetics. So, I had another C-section.

Now, I have neither Diabetics nor blood pressure but have a changed body along with the most beautiful kids in my life who are my pillars of strength.

I am not embarrassed by the way I look. I have been blessed with what people will give millions to have.

I live every day for them as they are my strength. I might be many people’s strength but my strength lies in their smiles, their wishes, their joys, and the people I love, etc.,

Anyone can survive acidic husbands if they have strengths in their lives. These strengths can be in the form of good friends, colleagues, sisters, brothers, aunts, acquaintances, followers, etc.,

In a changed body, here is where I exist. I have a wonderful audience who waits to read about what essence I have to share with them.

Those who can draw so many lessons from a single or multitudes of lives. Who make me go on in my endeavors to bring good around me.

So much so help me stay positive and on the right track. Thanks for being my pillars of strength.https://www.sabahataamir.com/body-size-does-n…ock-good-clothes/

In the end, I would like to say to all husbands out there to cherish their wives. Life is too short to waste on exchanging acidic remarks. Live each day as it is your last day.

Don’t accumulate bad memories to regret when time slips away from the hands

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading Folks!

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THRUSTING

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THRUSTING

Hello Folks!

Have you ever had the feeling of being Thrust upon something you don’t want.How do you deal with it?

Today, I will share a few things that really irritates especially when you do not want to have it in the first place. And also how to deal with it. So let’s start.

We often witness Thrusting in shopping malls where the sale person will do everything to make you buy their products.I am not against marketing strategies but I, don’t approve the way in which it is imparted.

Why drag oneself so low to get it sold. If you have a quality product, it would be sold automatically. You don’t have to sell yourself along with the product.

Secondly, are the make-up shops where this Thrust is seen at its height. Hardly, have I ever seen a make up shop where one goes and comes out without buying anything unnecessary.It’s a cult we are practicing for long.

Seriously, do you think, we really need all that make up for a single cause.Like if you go for a concealer only, you will end up buying the primer and the foundation along with the eye palatte an other accessories.Why?

The make up industry is so good at selling their products that you only know about the effects once you are out of the shop. Such a drama.

Thirdly, are the clothing shops.You are simply dazzled by seeing all that variety in the market.

And while you are deciding what mode of action you should follow, there comes someone to use their tactics of selling and thrusting upon you what they want you to buy.

I would rather say interesting selling tactics.Some will use the phrases of Literate clothes, other would coinage it with a persons name and say, wear this and your neighbour X, would be jealous.

And the most interesting thing is that sometimes the names they will use will be of the person who you think is jealous of your clothing.Its a relief for some to hear such phrases.

Fourthly, you face the Thrusting in beauty saloons.The most money minting industry, I would say.

You go for a single service and come back with a whole new look; obviously not for free rather spending tons of money on things you can easily do on your own at the comfort of your own home.

Here, too the sales person are using their tactics to brain wash the clients and mint money out of their pockets for simple services.

Fifthly, are the jewellery shops where Thrusting takes place in such a way that you , yourself do not know what is being done to you.

You only know that you want that particular thing or jewel and your mind fails to work and looks for alternatives.

Sixth, are the Gyms, where Thrusting is seen at its peak. One goes to the gym for a specific purpose but here too, one is extorted to the maximum.If plan A, can work well for the client, still plan B and C would be Thrusted upon the client as a compulsion.

And the client would be convinced to the extent of being totally brainless. What else can I say.

Seventh, are people belonging to institutions offering various courses. Here, you will face a lot of Thrusting.

You want to learn a specific course but you will be offered multiple bundles. These bundles will only waste your time and money without adding anything positive to your learning.

So be really alert when you are being Thrusted upon such bundles. Or else you know what will happen.

And Lastly, are the medical professionals. You go for the treatment of a single disease but are diagnose with multiple ones.How?

In order to diagnose you with what you already know, you will have to give a zillion tests before they can diagnose you and give you their prescription.

And believe me, you will be convinced to your gut what they are saying is true.They are the Philosopher’s king who know all.

In the end I would like to say that dear friends , you have a sound mind that works very well.If you can read this blog, you can easily know when you are being Thrusted upon.

You have the power of walking out of it without any external help.

Let no one tell you what will look good on you or how much accessories you need to be happy or even Thrust themselves upon you.

You, can take this decision on your own.Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading!

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WHAT TEENS LIKE DOING THESE DAYS

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WHAT TEENS LIKE DOING THESE DAYS

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Nowadays, Children/Teens are going through a lot which is shaping their minds for the days to come or may be for the years to come.

Today, I aim to discuss some of the things that teens are doing in these times.So let us start.

Firstly, the teens are using this time as an advantage to their already acquired skills.

They are more focused in reading about their favorite characters or theme based stories that appeals them.Such as Harry Potter or World War II, events.

Secondly,the off time from school, is helping them in getting back to track regarding their selection of subjects and future endeavors.

Thirdly, most of the teens altogether hate the idea of Home works.If only they could devise a better way to get through it in a shorter time.

Fourthly, not going out to have their favorite foods like KFC,Pizza,or even ice-cream.

They have become innovative themselves by trying out different You tube recipes and food channels recipes to satisfy their taste buds.

Fifthly,they are the same teens who earlier would have wanted their mums to do the cleaning of everything but now they too are willing to participate and share the burden.

Sixth,they want to go back to their schools and communities and work toward a new outlook.They dream of decorating their lockers finally.

Seventh,our teens have started opting for new levels of creativity such as doodling or Animation or decorative arts.

Eighth,they now demand more time as compared to the past.It is a good start altogether.

And Lastly, Teens nowadays, are more responsive and intellect as compared to old times.They are a way ahead of their parents.

Now, is the time to start investing in your children in terms of time and communication and start treating them as Adults.

You as parent can become their best friends and give them the assurance that they can come to you, no matter what the situation is.

Think about it.

Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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A CHANGED BODY: HERE IS WHERE I EXIST

Hello Folks!

Have you ever had the feeling of being unacceptable for the way you look? About your changed body, about your existence, I have it every day.

Today, I will give you another insight into a married woman’s life and the role people play in her day-to-day life. So let’s start.

A girl/woman goes through many phases before she is accepted to be someone’s life partner. The real test starts after the marriage.

However, she makes so many compromises and sacrifices to make an ideal marriage. She is always lurking on the edge to make it work.

Sometimes even fighting with the insecurities she might face. So, everyone has their own monsters/battles to fight.

I fight my battles every day with the acidic people in my surroundings who keep on reminding me about the way I look.

And the weight I have put on, the spots I have on my face, and whatnot. How do I deal with them? I will tell you shortly.

A question for the sensible people out there. Does being married to a girl /woman who is beautiful before marriage put a tag around her neck of being sold to you?

You got it right. She is married and not sold to you. Being beautiful from the outside forever is not a guarantee that you sign in your marriage contract.

However, the marriage contract does not say that apparent beauty cannot expire. It may expire soon or late but what won’t expire is that what lies inside her/you/me.

Women and their bodies change at an incredible speed after childbirth. Does that mean they have left their inner beauty? Not at all.

Then why do husbands fail to see it? Their only concern is the outside beauty. I have seen women kill themselves to get their pre-pregnancy bodies back.

Seriously, how good is the outside physique if it is being rotten bit by bit by your(husband’s) acidic remarks.

Physical beauty might be a small part of a relationship but for sensible people, it is not even that factor. In Pakistan, most people marry for looks, wealth, and all that sparkle.

Virtuous women don’t look for these things in a husband. They need husbands who can respect them and accept them, cherish them, no matter how ugly they might become.

Physical beauty https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness is a factor that needs to be eliminated in marriages and there is a dire need to change the mindset of the majority.

In a changed body; this is the height of sacrifice, a woman makes to complete the family; knowing she may or may not come back to her normal self/physical state, but she is ready to take the risk.

Both my pregnancies were difficult ones. At my daughter’s birth, I had shooting blood pressure and had to go for a C-section.

Similarly, at my son’s birth, I had borderline, Diabetics. So, I had another C-section.

Now, I have neither Diabetics nor blood pressure but have a changed body along with the most beautiful kids in my life who are my pillars of strength.

I am not embarrassed by the way I look. I have been blessed with what people will give millions to have.

I live every day for them as they are my strength. I might be many people’s strength but my strength lies in their smiles, their wishes, their joys, and the people I love, etc.,

Anyone can survive acidic husbands if they have strengths in their lives. These strengths can be in the form of good friends, colleagues, sisters, brothers, aunts, acquaintances, followers, etc.,

In a changed body, here is where I exist. I have a wonderful audience who waits to read about what essence I have to share with them.

Those who can draw so many lessons from a single or multitudes of lives. Who make me go on in my endeavors to bring good around me.

So much so help me stay positive and on the right track. Thanks for being my pillars of strength.https://www.sabahataamir.com/body-size-does-n…ock-good-clothes/

In the end, I would like to say to all husbands out there to cherish their wives. Life is too short to waste on exchanging acidic remarks. Live each day as it is your last day.

Don’t accumulate bad memories to regret when time slips away from the hands

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading Folks!

sabahat

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THRUSTING

Hello Folks!

Have you ever had the feeling of being Thrust upon something you don’t want.How do you deal with it?

Today, I will share a few things that really irritates especially when you do not want to have it in the first place. And also how to deal with it. So let’s start.

We often witness Thrusting in shopping malls where the sale person will do everything to make you buy their products.I am not against marketing strategies but I, don’t approve the way in which it is imparted.

Why drag oneself so low to get it sold. If you have a quality product, it would be sold automatically. You don’t have to sell yourself along with the product.

Secondly, are the make-up shops where this Thrust is seen at its height. Hardly, have I ever seen a make up shop where one goes and comes out without buying anything unnecessary.It’s a cult we are practicing for long.

Seriously, do you think, we really need all that make up for a single cause.Like if you go for a concealer only, you will end up buying the primer and the foundation along with the eye palatte an other accessories.Why?

The make up industry is so good at selling their products that you only know about the effects once you are out of the shop. Such a drama.

Thirdly, are the clothing shops.You are simply dazzled by seeing all that variety in the market.

And while you are deciding what mode of action you should follow, there comes someone to use their tactics of selling and thrusting upon you what they want you to buy.

I would rather say interesting selling tactics.Some will use the phrases of Literate clothes, other would coinage it with a persons name and say, wear this and your neighbour X, would be jealous.

And the most interesting thing is that sometimes the names they will use will be of the person who you think is jealous of your clothing.Its a relief for some to hear such phrases.

Fourthly, you face the Thrusting in beauty saloons.The most money minting industry, I would say.

You go for a single service and come back with a whole new look; obviously not for free rather spending tons of money on things you can easily do on your own at the comfort of your own home.

Here, too the sales person are using their tactics to brain wash the clients and mint money out of their pockets for simple services.

Fifthly, are the jewellery shops where Thrusting takes place in such a way that you , yourself do not know what is being done to you.

You only know that you want that particular thing or jewel and your mind fails to work and looks for alternatives.

Sixth, are the Gyms, where Thrusting is seen at its peak. One goes to the gym for a specific purpose but here too, one is extorted to the maximum.If plan A, can work well for the client, still plan B and C would be Thrusted upon the client as a compulsion.

And the client would be convinced to the extent of being totally brainless. What else can I say.

Seventh, are people belonging to institutions offering various courses. Here, you will face a lot of Thrusting.

You want to learn a specific course but you will be offered multiple bundles. These bundles will only waste your time and money without adding anything positive to your learning.

So be really alert when you are being Thrusted upon such bundles. Or else you know what will happen.

And Lastly, are the medical professionals. You go for the treatment of a single disease but are diagnose with multiple ones.How?

In order to diagnose you with what you already know, you will have to give a zillion tests before they can diagnose you and give you their prescription.

And believe me, you will be convinced to your gut what they are saying is true.They are the Philosopher’s king who know all.

In the end I would like to say that dear friends , you have a sound mind that works very well.If you can read this blog, you can easily know when you are being Thrusted upon.

You have the power of walking out of it without any external help.

Let no one tell you what will look good on you or how much accessories you need to be happy or even Thrust themselves upon you.

You, can take this decision on your own.Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading!