How Pornography Jeopardizes Relationships?

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Effects of Pornography on Relationships

 

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered, what Porn can do to the mind, body, and soul?

 

Not to mention the overall impact it has on jeopardizing the relationship between a husband and wife.

 

Today, I aim to delve into the effects of Pornography and how it jeopardizes relationships between husband and wife. So let’s start.

 

Before starting, we need to know what is Pornography.

 

Well, Pornography encompasses material that is predominantly sexually explicit and intended primarily for the purpose of sexual arousal.

 

The first effect of Pornography on the relationship is that it leads to anti-social behavior toward the partners, women in general, and even rape victims.

 

Male viewers tend to be more aggressive towards women particularly their partners and less responsive to the pain and suffering their partners might face.

 

The second effect of pornography on the relationship is that it induces violence. The relationship between partners is very pure, based on mutual consent.

 

There is no room for violence in such relationships. The ultimate motive should be pleasure rather than pain.

 

The third effect of pornography on the relationship is that it diminishes a person’s sexual happiness.

 

Such males have an inclination to diminished satisfaction with their sexual partners’ physical appearance, affection, curiosity, and sexual performance.

 

They are more inclined towards sex without emotional involvement.

 

The fourth effect of pornography on the relationship is the loss of interest in actual sex. The males may lose interest in the advances of their partners.

 

This makes them seem distant or even uninterested when you try to engage with them sexually. You may even need to use more strategies to arouse them before they can perform.

 

The fifth effect of pornography on relationships is that it makes the male more demanding.

 

They can easily be frustrated and alienate their partners due to their unrealistic ideals about sex.

 

This can lead to emotional and physical distress in the partner making them uncomfortable altogether.

 

The sixth effect of pornography on relationships leads to a lack of communication and time. When all the time is allocated towards one cause, there is no room left for communication with the partner.

 

And we all know, where this is going to lead the marriage.

 

And Lastly, the effect of pornography on the relationship leads to oral sex, group sex, anal sex, and sadomasochism.

 

In the end, I would like to say that God created both men and women in His image as sexual beings. Due to the sins in the world, sex has been misused and abused.

 

Pornography not only attacks the dignity of men and women but also distorts the gift of sex which should be practiced only within the bounds of marriage. (This may vary in different cultures).

 

The Holy scriptures maintain a basic modesty toward women and men’s sexual organs and condemn the practices that result from pornography such as sexual exposure, adultery, bestiality, homosexuality, incest, and prostitution.

 

Pornography is an addiction that ruins not only the life of one individual but also the people associated with that individual. As soon as someone close to you starts showing signs of pornography, seek their help at the earliest before they can ruin their and others’ life.

 

Think about it.

 

Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

 

 

 

 

 

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What are some Good New Year Goals?

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WHAT SHOULD BE THE STRATEGIES FOR 2022? 

 

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We are all looking forward towards a fresh start if we have already not entered into it. Today, I want to share with you certain strategies that might help you in landing towards your New Years expectations. So hop on and take with me this wonderful journey.https://www.sabahataamir.com/a-flash-back-2021/

Firstly, I would like all of you to take out that list you made in the start of 2021.

new year

 

Now, I want you to cross out what you have achieved in this year and be happy about it.

 

If you think, there is something you want to keep for the next year, add it to the next year list or make a wholly new list.

 

Secondly, be clear in identifying your priorities. Write down your priorities very clearly and act on it accordingly.

 

You need to be specific while prioritizing them. It can relate to career or lifestyle or relationships or family or purpose in life.https://www.forbes.com/sites/kathycaprino/2018/11/28/three-simple-steps-to-identify-your-life-purpose-and-leverage-it-in-your-career/?sh=72f32eb8695f

 

new year                                                                                                 The Third strategy would require you to act on it and     not just merely put it in writing.

For it is the act that shows we are working for it in real. We need to go out there and do our thing.

How do you suppose to achieve results without working for them? You are all amazing people and have great capability to achieve your goals.

Fourthly, be persistent in whatever you are pursuing or aim to pursue. Do not lose hope if you do not get according to your expectations.

What important is the process which enables you to achieve your goals. Do not worry about how big or small they are? If you are persistent you will definitely achieve them sooner or later.

Fifthly, try to be around people who know your worth. They are the ones who understand your potential and will help you in attaining your goals.

Help necessarily does not mean monetary terms. It comes in all forms. A listening ear or a crying shoulder are all forms of help.

So look for people who elevate you both mentally and spiritually. At the same time also give them a breathing space. After all, they are human.

And lastly, do not penalize yourself for not achieving a certain goal in the year ahead or the years gone by. Learn to live in the power of Now. Take care of the seconds and the minutes will take care of the rest.

Think about it. Until next time, great blessings for you in the years ahead.

Stay safe and healthy.

 

Happy Reading.

 

 

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SUCCESSFUL STRATEGIES TO WIN PARENTS

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SUCCESSFUL STRATEGIES TO WIN PARENTS

 

Hello Folks!

As an individual, Educational institution, and even as a parent, you must have faced this; how to talk with parents when it concerns the progress of a child. In Pakistan, very few know these successful strategies that concern these basic areas.

So today, I will discuss with you a few successful strategies that will give you food for thought to incorporate in your systems and capacity building programmes for the teachers. So let’s start.

The first successful strategy to win parents is to have Clarity. As an institution, or even as an individual, one needs to know exactly what they are going to say to the parents and mean it and ensure it whether they have been understood clearly.

As most of the time parents are communicated things in a vague manner which leaves many questions unanswered and the concerned teachers don’t ensure whether they have been successful in delivering their message across the board.

There is no need to feel shy if you have to repeat yourself even for a trillion times.No one will be offended.

The second successful strategy would be to have a professional attitude. Be friendly yet a professional. As a teacher or institution or even a parent do not discuss other people’s negativity or apply it on the child concerned.

In Pakistan, most schools and their staff fail to understand that comparisons and negativity lead nowhere. Its an institution we are talking about.

To cater to these challenges proper training need to be imparted along with developing and cultivating a proper mindset.

The third successful strategy to win parents would be a Positive Attitude. Such an attitude needs to be seen in practice too.

When one can help parents in positively parenting their child without patronizing their capabilities for their child’s upbringing, then the positive attitude is seen at its best.

Also, this positivity is seen when you as an institution, an individual and a parent can add to the learning capability of a child. This is why institutions were made. Are we practising this stuff in our institutions?

The fourth successful strategy to win parents would be to have Backups. By backup, I mean that you need to support what you are saying in terms of sample work or some kind of documentation.

If you have worked on a similar situation with some other child, you can always document that and show it to the parents in your scheduled meetings.

In Pakistan people in institutions go by words from the mouth. That is all the authenticity, you will receive here. To win the parents trust, you need to bring in the documentation to support yourself.

The fifth strategy to win parents is the need to be Flexible. There is always room for improvement provided you are open to suggestions. Being in charge of the situation does not mean you are all in all.

There would be times when the situation requires improvising new strategies and coming up with an alternative plan of action.

There are not many schools in Pakistan who are up for these mind-changing flexibilities. Their word is against the suffering parents and their children. At the end of the day. what are they producing in the form of lots? This, I will answer at the end.

The sixth successful strategy to have winning parents is to Include children wherever possible. Making children part of a discussion always help in the long run. It gives children the confidence that they too matter.

A discussion only concerning the parents and the institution is rather a dead discussion.

The child needs to know what’s going on regarding him or her. It makes them understand their responsibility and what is required of them. Children young(10-onwards) and mature should always be made a part of such discussions.

And Lastly, every teacher should know the course they are teaching and explain it in a layman’s term to the parents. In Pakistan, mostly teacher’s are not clear themselves about the syllabus.

How can you expect them to explain it to the parents? There should be sessions regarding syllabus and explained well to the parents so that parents are at par with the teachers and school and likewise.

These are some of the successful strategies that can help any institution win parents. As parents, we are all trying to work towards a common goal which is the growth of a learner/child.

But the strategies being used at present in the educational institutions are producing cattle and slaves with no mind of their own. A mind to only receive orders and not think. For those who think are treated no less than an outcast or even as misfits.

But let me remind you, it is the misfits who are the cause of change in a rotten society. They are the real agents of change and are finally addressed as heroes or heroines when they achieve their true worth and show to the world what they are capable of.

It is not a lot to think about. Still think about it if you want to have a win-win situation.

Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading!

 

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