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MY INNER WORLD

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MY INNER WORLD

Let me pacify the agonizing heart

intoxicated with love memories

May her heart bleed

May she feel the depth of love

Let clouds bring shower

Move curls to bring catastrophe

Illuminate the evening

Dissipate the darkness

Lit the candle

May attract the moth

Move curls to bring catastrophe

Oh, Spring shall i be grateful

Bringing my sweet heart

Let us renew the old memories

Come and bring the past time

Move curls to bring catastrophe

Amir Rehman

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BONDING BETWEEN SIBLINGS

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BONDING BETWEEN SIBLINGS

Hello Folks!

We are so struck in our day to day chores that we forget about the little gestures that make life worth living.This keeps on reminding me of Words Worth poem; ” we have no time to stand and stare…”

So here,I am today to talk about the times we spent as siblings.The bonding/relationship between a brother and sister is one of its kind.A beautiful yet sacred relation.Yet it varies; sibling to sibling.

A good bonding/relationship is always based on the people in your surrounding.If one gets positive vibes from the surroundings, the relationships will be of a different kind.

If there are negatives vibes in the surroundings, so would it effect the bonding/relationships.

Let us try to dive deep between the bonding/relationship of a brother and sister.I have often observed that relationship has a lot to do with number placements within a core family.

A boy who is elder than the other siblings will altogether act in a different way.More responsible,independent, caring and organized.This is because of the models he would be having in front of him.

On the other hand, a boy who is second, third or even fourth in placement may act in a more different way as compared to the older siblings. More dependent,loving, caring and protective.

Whatever the number placements, all brothers have their own way of expressing their love and care for their sisters.

Most of the time they are observed being fighting on trivial issues such as why did she take my car? or This is my teddy bear.And the sisters would say that mommy, daddy bought it for all.

This is the time when their arguing skills are developing and it is best not to intervene.Let them come up with a solution.If they need your assistance, they will definitely approach you.

Till then sit back and relax;but do keep your ears open just in case things get out of hand.

Then, i have seen brothers and sisters teasing one another.At times, it is really fun to see where do they get such ideas.We are talking about our future generations.

Here, too if you observe,you will find a lot of insight about their behaviors and how you, as a parent need to tackle them.

Often, siblings are seen spending quality time together by watching their favorite TV shows or You Tube videos or even some movie.And this is how they are bonding good relationships in the years to come.

But, what I, enjoy the most is their looking at past time games as a reminder of the times they used to have.They would indulge in it with the same zest and zeal as they used to when they were children.

Pick up any board game of that time and see the reaction of your children. I am sure you will enjoy watching as much I do.

These are simple pleasures of life and long lasting bonding’s that remain long after we are gone.

Every child and his or her relationship with their sibling is unique.As a parent, we need to foster their bonds in the most productive way without undermining the other.

They may be offended with us at times for not behaving in the way they thought us to.That my friend, is called parenthood.We all trial and experience before we learn the right tactics.

In the end, I would like to say that enjoy these bonding’s while you can.Bring out the best in yourself and others.Praise those around you in a productive way.You never know whose life depends on your single word of praise or motivation.

Until next time, Happy Reading.

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MODERNIZATION AND WOMEN IN PAKISTAN

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MODERNIZATION AND WOMEN

IN PAKISTAN

Hello Folks!

I have often heard people commenting on how negatively or positively has Modernization influenced women in Pakistan.

Today, i aim to provide an insight about Modernization and women in Pakistan.Here we go.

The transition from the traditional society of the past to modern society as is found today in the West is known as Modernization.

Modernization has negatively affected the status of women in Developing countries is just a state of mind for those who want to self pity.

When changes started occurring over the world,they automatically influenced the developing countries but in a positive way.

The first instance of Modernization process in the west world was marked with the Development of Industrial Technology.

It transformed home based family units economic activity into an efficient generating process. The demand for labor led women in relatively large numbers to join the formal labor force.

In Pakistan,there are about 24.10 percent women who participate in the labor sector. The statistics representing women vary in various sectors.

Secondly, changes in the structure of Employment sector too ,led to the entry of women, mothers with small children into the labor force.

However, greater efforts need to be made on terms of wages and good opportunities to be at par with men.

Thirdly, Modernization led to the increase in Educational and job opportunities.This led to the increase in day care and child care facilities.All this resulted in opening new venues for women.

Fourthly, Modernization has positively contributed in reducing the norms of patriarchy by laying a positive focus on women and their issues.

There are families which are headed by Matriarchy too.Clapping requires two hands only.

Fifthly, the role of women began to change from the submissive, dependent and the childbearing traditional woman to the modern woman.

This led to the demanding for equal rights, sovereignty, and independence assuming the equally heavy career responsibilities.

Sixth, the impact of Modernization affected the role of women. Whatever, programs out there;still they have not taken into account women’s specific needs and multiple role responsibilities.

As a result, women’s productivity has generally remained at a low level.

Seventh, Modernization has also influenced the pattern of marriage decision in family and now females too have a choice in marriage decision.

Eighth, the increase in Education and increase in Literacy,legal reforms,health care facilities,fertility control are some of the components that played a huge role in the process of Modernization.

And Lastly, due to Modernization, females are going beyond their traditional gender roles.

In the end,I would like to say that though Modernization has a positive influence/impact on women and their status in Pakistan;still there are a lot of extremist groups who have their own ends to meet.

Off and on they come to the forefront and can destroy the very nature of Modernization.

It is this time, we need to stand united and follow our core values and represent our specific needs rather than going into debates on vulgar slogans and petty fights.

And so does the Media needs to play its positive role in this whole scenario.Lets have enlightened Moderation without going to extremes and hurting opposite Genders.

It is not wrong to say; United we stand,Divided we fall. Every day is a women day.We need not categorize it specially to make a difference.Implementation starts from our core unit.Think about it.

Have a blessed weekend.

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BONDING BETWEEN SIBLINGS

Hello Folks!

We are so struck in our day to day chores that we forget about the little gestures that make life worth living.This keeps on reminding me of Words Worth poem; ” we have no time to stand and stare…”

So here,I am today to talk about the times we spent as siblings.The bonding/relationship between a brother and sister is one of its kind.A beautiful yet sacred relation.Yet it varies; sibling to sibling.

A good bonding/relationship is always based on the people in your surrounding.If one gets positive vibes from the surroundings, the relationships will be of a different kind.

If there are negatives vibes in the surroundings, so would it effect the bonding/relationships.

Let us try to dive deep between the bonding/relationship of a brother and sister.I have often observed that relationship has a lot to do with number placements within a core family.

A boy who is elder than the other siblings will altogether act in a different way.More responsible,independent, caring and organized.This is because of the models he would be having in front of him.

On the other hand, a boy who is second, third or even fourth in placement may act in a more different way as compared to the older siblings. More dependent,loving, caring and protective.

Whatever the number placements, all brothers have their own way of expressing their love and care for their sisters.

Most of the time they are observed being fighting on trivial issues such as why did she take my car? or This is my teddy bear.And the sisters would say that mommy, daddy bought it for all.

This is the time when their arguing skills are developing and it is best not to intervene.Let them come up with a solution.If they need your assistance, they will definitely approach you.

Till then sit back and relax;but do keep your ears open just in case things get out of hand.

Then, i have seen brothers and sisters teasing one another.At times, it is really fun to see where do they get such ideas.We are talking about our future generations.

Here, too if you observe,you will find a lot of insight about their behaviors and how you, as a parent need to tackle them.

Often, siblings are seen spending quality time together by watching their favorite TV shows or You Tube videos or even some movie.And this is how they are bonding good relationships in the years to come.

But, what I, enjoy the most is their looking at past time games as a reminder of the times they used to have.They would indulge in it with the same zest and zeal as they used to when they were children.

Pick up any board game of that time and see the reaction of your children. I am sure you will enjoy watching as much I do.

These are simple pleasures of life and long lasting bonding’s that remain long after we are gone.

Every child and his or her relationship with their sibling is unique.As a parent, we need to foster their bonds in the most productive way without undermining the other.

They may be offended with us at times for not behaving in the way they thought us to.That my friend, is called parenthood.We all trial and experience before we learn the right tactics.

In the end, I would like to say that enjoy these bonding’s while you can.Bring out the best in yourself and others.Praise those around you in a productive way.You never know whose life depends on your single word of praise or motivation.

Until next time, Happy Reading.

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MODERNIZATION AND WOMEN

IN PAKISTAN

Hello Folks!

I have often heard people commenting on how negatively or positively has Modernization influenced women in Pakistan.

Today, i aim to provide an insight about Modernization and women in Pakistan.Here we go.

The transition from the traditional society of the past to modern society as is found today in the West is known as Modernization.

Modernization has negatively affected the status of women in Developing countries is just a state of mind for those who want to self pity.

When changes started occurring over the world,they automatically influenced the developing countries but in a positive way.

The first instance of Modernization process in the west world was marked with the Development of Industrial Technology.

It transformed home based family units economic activity into an efficient generating process. The demand for labor led women in relatively large numbers to join the formal labor force.

In Pakistan,there are about 24.10 percent women who participate in the labor sector. The statistics representing women vary in various sectors.

Secondly, changes in the structure of Employment sector too ,led to the entry of women, mothers with small children into the labor force.

However, greater efforts need to be made on terms of wages and good opportunities to be at par with men.

Thirdly, Modernization led to the increase in Educational and job opportunities.This led to the increase in day care and child care facilities.All this resulted in opening new venues for women.

Fourthly, Modernization has positively contributed in reducing the norms of patriarchy by laying a positive focus on women and their issues.

There are families which are headed by Matriarchy too.Clapping requires two hands only.

Fifthly, the role of women began to change from the submissive, dependent and the childbearing traditional woman to the modern woman.

This led to the demanding for equal rights, sovereignty, and independence assuming the equally heavy career responsibilities.

Sixth, the impact of Modernization affected the role of women. Whatever, programs out there;still they have not taken into account women’s specific needs and multiple role responsibilities.

As a result, women’s productivity has generally remained at a low level.

Seventh, Modernization has also influenced the pattern of marriage decision in family and now females too have a choice in marriage decision.

Eighth, the increase in Education and increase in Literacy,legal reforms,health care facilities,fertility control are some of the components that played a huge role in the process of Modernization.

And Lastly, due to Modernization, females are going beyond their traditional gender roles.

In the end,I would like to say that though Modernization has a positive influence/impact on women and their status in Pakistan;still there are a lot of extremist groups who have their own ends to meet.

Off and on they come to the forefront and can destroy the very nature of Modernization.

It is this time, we need to stand united and follow our core values and represent our specific needs rather than going into debates on vulgar slogans and petty fights.

And so does the Media needs to play its positive role in this whole scenario.Lets have enlightened Moderation without going to extremes and hurting opposite Genders.

It is not wrong to say; United we stand,Divided we fall. Every day is a women day.We need not categorize it specially to make a difference.Implementation starts from our core unit.Think about it.

Have a blessed weekend.

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