Relationship and Family Guidance
WANT OF A MAN
WANT OF A MAN Hello Folks! Have you ever wondered what men want from a woman in Pakistan? I know what you are thinking
November 23, 2020
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“Guidance for Strong Families, Better Relationships, and Empowering the Next Generation.”
UNTOLD STORIES BY UNSUNG HEROES
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UNTOLD STORIES BY UNSUNG HEROES
Hello Folks!
We often hire medical and nursing care professionals for seniors in our homes for our assistance.
But have you ever talked to these health facilitators to know about their experiences regarding the people they serve at large?
Today, I aim at laying my focus on the untold stories of these unsung heroes. So let’s start.
When these unsung heroes are hired, the motive behind is medical assistance and care needed for the senior family member but very soon, things start changing.
As the family members solely start relying on medical assistance, thereby shifting their entire responsibility on the help they are getting.
So much so that they forget that the people for whom help is sought are part of the family and require human touch and company.
Undoubtedly, health care professionals do their jobs, still, they are human and require a great time in understanding the nature of every patient.
These unsung heroes have so many untold stories that need to be told for everyone to know what is going on behind the scenes.
I, often visit old homes and meet seniors there. Their stories are an eye-opener and it often makes me shiver to the bones regarding the attitude of the children.
The world has all kinds of children from good to worst. According to the unsung heroes, there is one lot whose entire focus is towards their senior members of the family.
Yet, simultaneously, there exists another lot who lives in the same house with children and grandchildren but none are in contact with the senior ones.
Then there is another lot who have settled abroad and take care of the financial need but do not have the hearts to visit their old ones.
For this lot, their careers and their family is more dear than the ones who bred them and brought them in a way to be successful.
These old souls pass every second of the day waiting to see their ungrateful and selfish children without complaining till they breathe their last breath.
Most of the time, the lot does come back at the funeral to claim the assets and are least bothered about the departed soul.
There are very few among this lot who are really ashamed of what they have done and spent their lives to make up for the loss that was caused due to them.
But, most of them keep on going in their busy lives until life starts paying them back in the same coin.
This, my friend, is life. What shall one sow, so shall one reap.
In the end, I would like to ask all the people out there who have living seniors in their homes or care centers, own them, and spend time with them before it’s too late.
Don’t let sand pass through the time and make you reap for your deeds. Earn prayers from these people even if they are not your own. There is a great blessing in serving those who don’t have anyone.
If Heaven is beneath the feet of a mother, then just think what countless blessings await you while serving one or many. Think about it.
Until next time, stay safe and healthy.
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A CHANGED BODY: HERE IS WHERE I EXIST
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A CHANGED BODY: HERE IS WHERE I EXIST
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Have you ever had the feeling of being unacceptable for the way you look? About your changed body, about your existence, I have it every day.
Today, I will give you another insight into a married woman’s life and the role people play in her day-to-day life. So let’s start.
A girl/woman goes through many phases before she is accepted to be someone’s life partner. The real test starts after the marriage.
However, she makes so many compromises and sacrifices to make an ideal marriage. She is always lurking on the edge to make it work.
Sometimes even fighting with the insecurities she might face. So, everyone has their own monsters/battles to fight.
I fight my battles every day with the acidic people in my surroundings who keep on reminding me about the way I look.
And the weight I have put on, the spots I have on my face, and whatnot. How do I deal with them? I will tell you shortly.
A question for the sensible people out there. Does being married to a girl /woman who is beautiful before marriage put a tag around her neck of being sold to you?
You got it right. She is married and not sold to you. Being beautiful from the outside forever is not a guarantee that you sign in your marriage contract.
However, the marriage contract does not say that apparent beauty cannot expire. It may expire soon or late but what won’t expire is that what lies inside her/you/me.
Women and their bodies change at an incredible speed after childbirth. Does that mean they have left their inner beauty? Not at all.
Then why do husbands fail to see it? Their only concern is the outside beauty. I have seen women kill themselves to get their pre-pregnancy bodies back.
Seriously, how good is the outside physique if it is being rotten bit by bit by your(husband’s) acidic remarks.
Physical beauty might be a small part of a relationship but for sensible people, it is not even that factor. In Pakistan, most people marry for looks, wealth, and all that sparkle.
Virtuous women don’t look for these things in a husband. They need husbands who can respect them and accept them, cherish them, no matter how ugly they might become.
Physical beauty https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physical_attractiveness is a factor that needs to be eliminated in marriages and there is a dire need to change the mindset of the majority.
In a changed body; this is the height of sacrifice, a woman makes to complete the family; knowing she may or may not come back to her normal self/physical state, but she is ready to take the risk.
Both my pregnancies were difficult ones. At my daughter’s birth, I had shooting blood pressure and had to go for a C-section.
Similarly, at my son’s birth, I had borderline, Diabetics. So, I had another C-section.
Now, I have neither Diabetics nor blood pressure but have a changed body along with the most beautiful kids in my life who are my pillars of strength.
I am not embarrassed by the way I look. I have been blessed with what people will give millions to have.
I live every day for them as they are my strength. I might be many people’s strength but my strength lies in their smiles, their wishes, their joys, and the people I love, etc.,
Anyone can survive acidic husbands if they have strengths in their lives. These strengths can be in the form of good friends, colleagues, sisters, brothers, aunts, acquaintances, followers, etc.,
In a changed body, here is where I exist. I have a wonderful audience who waits to read about what essence I have to share with them.
Those who can draw so many lessons from a single or multitudes of lives. Who make me go on in my endeavors to bring good around me.
So much so help me stay positive and on the right track. Thanks for being my pillars of strength.https://www.sabahataamir.com/body-size-does-n…ock-good-clothes/
In the end, I would like to say to all husbands out there to cherish their wives. Life is too short to waste on exchanging acidic remarks. Live each day as it is your last day.
Don’t accumulate bad memories to regret when time slips away from the hands
Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.
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A DAY IN THE LIFE OF AN ARTIST
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A DAY IN THE LIFE OF AN ARTIST
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Have you ever witness the happiness of an Artist when he/she is in an Exhibition? Well, I have and today, I will highlight some of the insights regarding a Day in the life of an Artist. So let’s start.
By nature, Artists are very sensitive people. Sensitive in the sense they feel and react to things that matter to them the most as compared to the general people.
This doesn’t however, mean that they don’t know how to carry themselves among general people. As a matter of fact, they are only comfortable among people who are more or less like them.
Most of the time, they have an ambiance by which people, in general, are attracted to them. And makes people talk to them.
Some of them leave an unforgettable impression on you whereas there are some whose first expression leaves a very negative image on the beholder. You may have many to relate to.
Art Exhibitions are the most common places where you might come across many Artists and might be lucky in spending time with a few. In my opinion, it is altogether a unique experience.
A couple of days ago, I visited an Exhibition and was impressed to see the lot with a passion for arts and creativity.
Many of the Artists comprised of people belonging to different backgrounds but the way they juxtaposed their passion into a fine piece was worth seeing and appreciating.
The gathering was not a huge one due to the situation of COVID-19 prevailing in the background but whoever was there among the audience were all art lovers.
Not to mention the chief guests who not only were learned people in the field of Arts but were down to earth people.
And the best thing about them was that they viewed each painting in the gallery and motivated the Artists. What else would an artist need to keep on producing ones best?
Some words of appreciation and motivation and a platform are the basic requisites that any artist needs to survive in the community.
Here, in Pakistan, mostly galleries are focussed on making commissions and paying less to the artists for their months of dedicated work.
All the same, there are galleries such as NUKTA STUDIO and Azure Art Gallery( online-launching soon) are the ones whose main focus is on the Artists from all backgrounds and their work.
The culture that is being manifested in these galleries is one of its kind, an experience worth trying out.
In a normal day to day schedule, a full-time artist is found indulge in their work irrespective of what is going on in their surroundings but they are different people if you interact with them on a face to face basis.
Their paintings are a depiction of their true self. If you want to know an artist, study their work. You will very much know about them even if you don’t get a chance to talk to them.
And even if you do get a chance to talk to them, always be bold without fearing the outcome. It’s worth an experience. Do try. Until next time stay safe and healthy.
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