THE TRUTH ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS; MEN AND WOMEN

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THE TRUTH ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS;

MEN AND WOMEN

 

Hello Folks!

Have you ever encountered and experienced the thinking that goes on in the minds of men. Well, keep your fingers crossed because today, I will throw a detailed light on the complexity of relationships as well as the views from a male perspective. So. let’s start.

PORTRAYAL WITHIN THE SOCIETY:

Firstly, in a society, both men and women are portrayed in different ways. Men are often seen as strong, intelligent, and in control, while women are seen as caring, gentle, and kind. These stereotypes come from the way society has shaped the way we see each other. A man is expected to be more emotionally stable than a woman because of these stereotypical https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/stereotype expectations.

COMPLEX RELATIONSHIPS:

Secondly, men see women in many different ways; some see them as friends or partners while others see them as mothers or wives which can lead to very complex relationships between the two.

Men often view their girlfriends or wives in a protective role which can cause problems if they don’t do what they’re told when it comes to taking care of themselves because it can lead to frustration for both parties involved. Many men also think that they should be the breadwinner in their families.

THE COMMUNICATION FACTOR:

Thirdly, communication between men and women may seem like an easy thing to do, but it’s not always so simple. Many different scenarios can happen in the workplace, at school, or in everyday life that can result in miscommunication. Men tend not to respond well when female coworkers engage in friendly contact such as back-patting, arm patting etc.,

How a man and a woman communicate is an important factor in how they interact? The difference between the two sexes lies in the emotional space that each occupies. Women prefer to express their emotions while men prefer to hide theirs.

HOW MEN PERCEIVES WOMEN WAY OF LOOKING AT THEM?

Fourthly, some men feel that when a woman looks at them, she is challenging his masculinity and needs to be taken down a notch by being disrupted or taken control of.

Men often stare at women as a way of trying to establish dominance. Men may also use a physical approach such as touching, holding hands, hugging, or kissing on the cheek as a form of validation and approval for female attention they seek from women.

WHAT DO THEY WANT?

Fifthly, men often have a hard time understanding when their attention is wanted and when it is not. It can be frustrating for both the man who is being ignored and the woman who is being approached.

To avoid being rejected or feeling guilty, men need to be willing to take the time to understand what women’s communication styles are like. Men should also learn how they can communicate effectively with women if they want to engage in conversation.

WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN A ROMANTIC PARTNER?

Sixthly, men have different ways of picking a partner which can be seen from their perspectives.

One way is seeing if a woman is qualified to be the mother of their kids. Another way is seeing if she suits his social status and has a compatible lifestyle according to his standards. Some men think a woman should be a great lover and take care of him well. Other men think the most important factor in dating someone is whether she respects him or not.

The male perspective on finding romantic partners varies because they all have different values and beliefs that they want in someone they date.

Men can be complicated creatures when it comes to dating, but they all have a similar goal in mind: they want someone compatible with them. Much of the time, however, men have very different ideas of what this means. They have different values and beliefs that they want in a romantic partner. It all depends on their age, location, and cultural upbringing.

Men are usually more visual than women. They are more likely to observe the outside appearance of a woman and judge her worth. Therefore, men tend to value physical attraction over other qualities when seeking a partner.

Men also tend to think about their partners in terms of how they will affect their lives, rather than what kind of person she is. Men are looking for someone who will make them happy, fulfill their sexual needs, and provide emotional support.

HOW TO KEEP YOUR LOT/WIVES HAPPY?

Seventhly, wives easily get jealous about their spouses talking to other women. This jealousy might be due to the insecurity of the wife or the husband’s lack of consideration for their spouse.

As a husband, you should not speak to other women in a flirtatious manner. and avoid eye contact and compliments.

Do not invite them over to your house and avoid mentioning them in front of your wife. Also, stay attentive and engaged with your wife during social occasions like parties, meetings, or outings to prevent complications that might arise due to your overdue attention.

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LEARN ABOUT WOMANHOOD:

Eighthly, men can improve their understanding of womanhood by asking about what women want and need from them as friends and partners. They need to understand that women may not be as talkative as men, but they also know that they are strong, hardworking individuals who deserve respect.

Having a woman in your life is never easy, but it can be much more difficult for men. Some men are naturally better at understanding women than others are. But for those who are not, there are ways to improve the chances of getting along with them.

CONCLUSION:

And Lastly, I would like to say that there are many ways that women are disadvantaged by patriarchal norms, but there are also ways in which men are disadvantaged by patriarchy.

One of these is that they’re often encouraged to think about their partners in terms of how they will affect their lives, rather than what kind of person she is. Men are looking for someone who will make them happy, fulfill certain needs, provide security/stability or companionship.

A relationship is a two-way street and both parties need to be invested and understanding of each other. Men can improve their understanding of womanhood by learning about the female anatomy and anatomy of the sexual organs.

They should also learn to listen to women’s thoughts and emotions, spend quality time with them, take care of themselves, stay healthy, be expressive in their feelings, play with children, and use the word “we” instead of “I” when referring to their spouse or partner.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES IN TEENS

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MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES IN TEENS

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With the ongoing COVID-19, teens nowadays are going through a lot of Mental Health issues. So, today we will discuss this topic and see the mental health issues faced by Teens.https://www.sabahataamir.com/tips-on-grooming…daughters-part-1/ So let’s start.

NOT BEING HAPPY:

The first mental health issue that teens face today is that they are not happy with their lives.

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In the present day scenario, can’t really blame them for having this mental health issue. Seriously who is well mentally in these times?

ANXIETY:

The second mental health issue in teens is the rise of anxiety.

Having anxiety, according to psychologists is pretty much normal and a healthy function that helps us in protecting ourselves from future problems or external

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SUICIDE:

Another mental health issue faced by teens is the thought of suicide that keeps occurring in their minds.

MENTAL HEALTH

Since the coming of COVID and its effects, the lives of teens have changed a great deal.

The once lively teens are now more prone to think about dying or committing suicide. An alarming situation for the parents to tackle.

FINANCIAL CONCERNS:

The fourth mental health issue is the concern regarding finances. Since the COVID has greatly struck businesses, the teens have this feeling of not having enough lurking over their heads which is overall affecting their health too.

EATING DISORDERS/DIETS

The fifth mental health issue in teens relates to their diets, their eating habits.

MENTAL HEALTH

Most teens have taken after the frenzy to become a skeleton, thanks to the wide use of social media and free knowledge of dangerous theories regarding weight sitting around to grasp some attention.

POOR HYGIENE LEVELS:

Yet, another mental issue related to teens consists of hygiene levels.

Not going to school or to places where the grooming element matters, the teens have taken tonight suits and pajamas, throwing away their basic habits of hygiene and getting ready every day.

INTEREST IN STUDIES:

The seventh mental health issue in teens deals with their lost interest in their studies.

MENTAL HEALTH

Face-to-face classes were a sense of joy for many but many students used to the idea of classroom teachings cannot digest the idea of studying online.

Many excelling students have become a failure in their own eyes which is a great source of depression for them.

SOCIAL ISOLATION:

The eighth mental health issue in teens is the social isolation that they have faced for a long.

 

MENTAL HEALTH

Most of the teens have become introverts, unable to communicate with anyone around or even barely speaking with family.

SLEEP PATTERN:

And Lastly, they no longer follow a pattern for sleeping. Most of them remain awake all night and use the tabs for watching programs or either listening to the music of their choice.

Many, many precious hours are going to waste due to these mental health issues.

In the end, I would say it is never late to find the source of each of these mental issues and treat them accordingly. The help of a psychiatrist/child counselor in a rightful manner can save many lives from going to waste.

 

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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TIPS ON GROOMING GIRLS/DAUGHTERS PART -1

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TIPS ON GROOMING GIRLS/DAUGHTERS

PART-1

Hello Folks!

As you all know and have experienced or are experiencing, raising girls/daughters can be as tactical as raising boys. Let us dive deep into the tips on how to groom girls/daughters.

We all are faced with great challenges along the way, but what matters is the end product.

The number one tip we as parents can follow in grooming our girls/daughters is to talk things out with them. There is always something going on in their little minds. Whatever is there, does come out sooner or later.

As a parent, it is our responsibility to help them ease their thoughts, however, troublesome might it be. This act will give them the surety that as a parent, we are always there for them.

Secondly, to groom girls/daughters, start assigning small tasks to them. Tasks such as cleaning their rooms, picking up their toys, putting away the dinner plates. This will induce a sense of discipline in them.

Thirdly, You can groom your girls /daughters by trying to assess their likes and dislikes. Some girls might like to wash the dishes yet others might like to prepare food in the kitchen with or without your help. Ask them to help you out with food preparations in the kitchen.

This will not only enhance your bond with them but will also lead them towards being more responsible in the later years of life.

Fourthly, encourage their ideas of creativity or ideas related to money-making. Girls, who have parents’ support at their back tend to make a great success in their future lives as compared to those girls who are always discouraged for their ideas.

Fifthly, spent exclusive time with your daughters/girls like watching their favorite TV shows or it can either be a game or sport or even dressing up. Don’t ever think it’s boring.

It is the time we are investing in them that will be rewarded to us in so many ways, we are unaware of.

Sixth, we should teach our girls/daughter to be vocal in what they think is their right. This is the age when you as a parent are fulfilling your responsibility in giving them awareness to express themselves.

This is the freedom of speech that needs to be emphasized and re-emphasized.

Seventh, girls/daughters are very sensitive to the needs of people around them. Still, just as boys have to be taught to respect women of all age brackets; in the same way, girls/daughters have to be told to practice the same when it comes to men.

When we will observe a value system, our self, they automatically will follow it. And if we are not clear our self why do we expect them to be clear. So the lines have to be clearly defined.

Eighth, never insult your daughters/girls in front of anyone especially your maternal and paternal relations not to mention the outside world.

For, in the long run, if they turn out to be the opposite of what they were, they would never be appreciated for what they have become but would always be remembered as they used to be.

Ninth, trust your children in what they tell you. If you trust them today, they will not betray your trust in the future but if it’s vice versa you have deformed them for life.

At the same time, as a parent, you need to have a hawk-eye. After all, you are the parent and know your girls in and out. However, no need to make it obvious to them. Observe and apply accordingly.

And lastly, to make them productive citizens of the community, set a positive example in front of them. As it is said; Do unto others as you want others to do unto you.

I would ask all mothers out there to keep on observing other people’s lives who have raised wonderful girls/daughters. Interview them, talk to them and see what differences have they done and you are missing.

It is always good to learn from other people’s experiences rather than going through the same mistakes.

I would like to add that there is no ready-made recipe for bringing up girls/daughters. We have to experiment with every stage of children’s growing up.

Some things might work well with one child whereas for the others a different set of strategies might be needed.

But what is more efficient is your communication with the child. Only this, will help you in understanding the true nature of your children and act accordingly.

In the end, I would like to express my gratitude to all mothers who despite their professional life, hectic household chores still try their best to balance their lives and in that balance, work hard to raise good children especially girls/daughters.https://www.sabahataamir.com/mental-health-issues-in-teen/

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