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November 5, 2020
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GRIEVANCES OF THE SMALLER FISH
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GRIEVANCES OF THE SMALLER FISH
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In the wake of COVID19, we have witnessed a great shift on many fronts. Today, I aim to talk about one such front which is the grievances of the smaller fish. So let’s start.
Keeping in view the health perspective and all, the Educational institutions closed down and that halted the overall studies of children/ students altogether.
After some time the studies were resumed via online teaching. A whole new concept for those who never taught online and only knew how to teach face to face.
Most of the parents criticized this form of teaching in the first place as they too were not well equipped with this setup. As time passed everyone more or less became attuned to the idea of online learning and teaching.
However, one should not forget that the smaller fish were the ones who should and are the ones to be given the credit for updating their methodologies and integrating a fast mode in their educational institutions.
For the bigger fish, the online system was no problem as they have not for a day faced any break down; be it in terms of finances or infrastructure or billing. Everything is covered either in one or the other category. For them, it is a no gain, no loss scenario.
The real affectees are the smaller fish who not only are humble in their overall performance but go a step forward to put a smile on everyone’s face particularly the parents.
The previous few months have been really hard both for the parents and the smaller fish. They had the decency to understand the grievances of the parents by accomodating them in terms of fees even though they too have a system to run.
Keeping the attitude of the smaller fish in view, the parents should have been more than grateful for what was being given to them but instead, some have become defaulters and some even left the school without prior notice.
With the backdrop of the smaller fish, the bigger fish have been enjoying all perks and benefits. They block the student from entering the system if the fee is non paid or even late. Here, we cannot see parents taking their children out of school or children suffering due to non-education. Why?
The reason is that the bigger fish are doing business and everyone in their business is a client; be it a learner or the parent. They have no mercy for the ones who are suffering. They have a bigger fish to fry.
So, why should the smaller fish suffer for their humane treatment with the parents who are thankless for the efforts being made by the smaller fish.
In the end, I would like to say that the smaller fish to have to pay for the salaries of the staff and the ones concerned with running an institution. They, too have homes to run and families to keep together. They do not have miscellaneous pockets to make up for the losses like the bigger fish.
It is a sorry state of affairs when we take the smaller fish for granted and try applying all rules and regulations on them while the bigger fish are Scott free.
In my humble opinion, these are the mediums who make leaders of the future and need to be acknowledged at large for the commitment they provide.
As an individual, it is our duty and responsibility to stand by their side in easing the grievances of the small fish and help them deliver their commitment to equity.
Think about it. Until next time stay safe and healthy.
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PROFESSIONAL JEALOUSIES
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PROFESSIONAL JEALOUSIES
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Today, I aim to talk about Professional Jealousies. It is heart burning when you see the most capable of professionals engulfed with this disease. Today, I will address this ailment and how to keep away from it. So let’s start.
Being human and socially extroverts, most of us have the curiosity of learning new things. And it is the love for learning that brings us across all types of individuals in particular the professionally jealous kind.
They may greet you in the first place and tell you all sorts of fancy things regarding their profession. Once you start questioning then, would you only be encountered with such talk that will automatically help you in taking a firm decision.
A few days back, I too, was encountered with such an incident. And it left a very bad taste in my mouth. So instead of letting it absorbed deep down in me and pollute me with negative thoughts, I decided to share it with all my readers.
And in particular, those people who want to keep on learning. Never be discouraged, no matter how many times you are slighted by people. Keep on pursuing what you want to pursue in life. Don’t worry about the odds.
Don’t let the so-called professional people be judgemental, just because you are asking questions. Questions my friend is a good thing. It only shows you think, observe, and have the curiosity to know more about it.
The private sectors are always hunting for talented, innovative, and honest people.
And frankly, a lot of people are suffering due to the attitude of so-called professionals who in order, to address their insecurities can easily turn a humble person into a rage monster.
Never let the self die in you, just because you have become a victim of professional jealousy. Pursue your passion and move on with dignity.
Every one of us is here on this planet to understand our purpose and to do good to others. When you have the idea of doing good, then there is no space left for professional jealousy.
Each of us will ultimately find our right way stumbling and experimenting but if you come across the professionally jealous lot, change your path. You will eventually find the right people on your road to success.
In the end, I would like to say that status of rich and poor is given by God but respect is earned. Do not let anyone take that away from you. Be excellent in your field; one of a kind but do not let the power get to your brain.
The more humble you are, the more respect you have. Treat everyone at par without developing prejudices and categorizing people as “lip pickers”. Your destiny is decided by the creator and no one can change that.
But, my friend, you can change the way people take you. Think about it.
Until next time, stay Safe and Healthy.
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UNVEILING POLYGAMY
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UNVEILING POLYGAMY
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It’s been a while since I addressed an issue like this. Today, I will talk about Unveiling Polygamy, its practice in various Muslim cultures, and the true essence behind the concept of Polygamy. So let’s start.
The Quran not readily but reluctantly accepts Polygamy as the last resort and only in conditions of great social hardship and for humanitarian purposes.
According to the injunctions of the Holy Quran, Polygamy is permissible if justice and equity can be observed.
The equality in the treatment demanded in the Holy Quran is humanly attainable if all conditions are observed in true sense.
Thus, if a person can deal with his wives justly and give each of his wives equal share in food, clothing, material comforts, and consortium; he is free to have as many wives as up to the ceiling of four.
In many Muslim cultures, there is a growing debate towards restricting polygamy.
Here, I will talk about some Muslim countries where various laws are practiced regarding Polygamy and imposes restrictions/conditions on it.
Firstly, in Pakistan and Bangladesh, the husband can only contract a second marriage with the permission of an Arbitration council if the first wife does not permit remarrying.
The wife is entitled to the judicial dissolution of her marriage if the husband fails to treat the co-wives equally by the injunctions of Islam/Quran.
In addition to this, the husband can only take an additional wife if he can satisfy the Arbitration Council with a valid reason for the marriage.
Secondly, in Morroco, the second marriage during the subsistence of the first marriage depends on the financial position of the husband intending to have another wife.
Thirdly, in Iran, the wife has the right to obtain a divorce if the husband marries without her permission or does not treat the co-wives equitably in the court’s assessment.
The practice regarding Polygamy in Malaysia requires the judicial permission contingent upon application to the court and a hearing with the existing wife or wives.
The court requires proof of necessity. Such as sterility of first wife, a willful avoidance of a restitution order, proof of financial capacity, a guarantee of equitable treatment of co-wives.
And proof that the proposed marriage will not lower the standard of life of the existing wife or wives or dependents.
Similarly, in Indonesia, too polygamous marriage depends on the permission from the court, consent of the existing wife by fulfilling conditions by the law and satisfying the court of such marriage.
Fourthly, the Jordan Law of Family Rights 1951, allows the wife to stipulate in the marriage contract that the husband shall not take another wife during the continuance of their marital union.
It also entitles the wife to sue for divorce if the husband does not honor the stipulation.
Fifthly, in Egypt too, the law No. 100/1985, follows the same trend by giving the right to her whose husband has married again.
The wife has the right to apply for a divorce if she suffers a moral injury or material injury as a result of her husband’s second marriage.
Even if there is no stipulation in the marriage contract that he would not marry during the subsistence of her marriage with him.
Similarly, if the second wife comes to know of her husband’s first marriage can also apply for divorce.
Sixth, the Syrian Law of Personal Status 1953, provides that the request for permission to remarry must be presented in the court.
And the court will refuse to a man already married, the permission to remarry a second wife if he cannot support the two wives.
Lastly, in Tunisia, Turkey, Albania, Druze a Nazari Sects, Polygamy is prohibited.
In the end, I would like to say that Polygamy was introduced in the Prophets (P.B.U.H) time to protect the orphans and women who were their caretakers/guardians and address their issues. As stated in Surah 4, An-Nisa’ 3
“And if you have reason to fear that you might not act equitably towards orphans, then marry from among (other) women such as are lawful to you — (even) two, or three, or four but if you a reason to fear that you might not be able to treat them with equal fairness, then (only) one — or (from among) those whom you rightfully possess. This will make it more likely that you will not deviate from the right course.”
If these verses are interpreted in the correct sense, then would the concept of Polygamy be understood in its context. And thus, justice would be served.
Keeping today’s present-day in mind, Polygamy is being used to satisfy one’s lustful desires and has lost its meaning of Fairness and Equality.
Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.
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