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WANT OF A MAN

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Have you ever wondered what men want from a woman in Pakistan? I know what you are thinking and many of you will second my thoughts. Today, I will share with you some of the insights regarding men’s wants.

Previously, I discussed a woman’s want but today I will keep my focus on men exclusively.

Firstly, most men are looking out for a good time with any woman. They are least bothered about the cultural barriers or background or likes or dislikes.

Their uttermost concern is that it has to be something that can be portrayed as a woman even if it is a bottle.

Secondly, most of the time, men will approach women in the name of friendship and it is only a matter of exchanging some messages, they will come to their motives.

You need to be vigilant to understand where the conversation is going. However, men too differ as women do.

Thirdly, sometimes, they just reach out to share their side of the story. Not all men coming after women have the same want.

Wants differ from person to person as well as the situation. And men too, are cultured, to understand this.

Fourthly, every man wants to find true love in the form of a wife or family, or even friends. Every one of us needs to play a positive role in this scenario.

As an individual, we need to think out of the box to assure our insecurities and insecurities of the one called a man. If you have a clear mind, you will know how to go about all this.

Another want of a man is related to something we called vulnerability. He wants an assurance where he and his love can be accepted and nurtured. He may not accept this because he thinks it is childish to accept it in front of a woman of her dreams or wife or even family.

It is a very simple and innocent want and requires acceptance from the person across the border.

Lastly, as a society, we treat our men as superior being unlikely to make any mistake or even commit to one or even accept things. We need to think out of the box and give them space too.

The wants can only be addressed when we are ready to accept them as they are; be they introvert, extrovert, expressive, nonexpressive, self-centered, etc.,

The want of a man needs to be tackled at the family level first. When there is acceptance in the family, everything will ultimately fall in place in the long run.

You don’t have to turn them into Jackal and Hyde to realize this. Think about it.

Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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WANT OF A WOMAN

Hello Folks!

Have you ever thought about the Want of a woman? Today, I will give you an insight into the want in a woman’s life. So let’s start.

Firstly, Wants may differ from women to women but mostly it’s the same thing that every woman wants.

Like men, women too feel the need of being loved either by family or husband or friends or someone near to her heart.

Secondly, she needs acceptance to do things of her own free will. This I believe and strongly propagate is the freedom that every woman needs and feels to feel complete.

Thirdly, a woman wants people around her to recognize her capabilities rather than her beauty. Obviously, who doesn’t like appreciation but again the thinking differs from person to person.

The same is the case with women. She would want people to appreciate her for her work rather than passing romantic comments about her looks and appearance.

Fourthly, a woman seeks the company of good friends who will add positivity to their lives. Not someone who will bring them down with their negativity.

Not that she can’t handle negativity but why put someone through this demise anyway?

Fifthly, those women who tie a knot, wants a husband to be hers only. She is ready to share him with her inlaws and people who are an important part of his life. But for the rest, she can be a total stranger.

It is often said about women that she can be a wax for the man she loves and for the rest she is none other than a stone.

So, my friends those of you who approach women or married women always keep this in mind that she may talk to you or communicate with you on a professional basis or as a good human being but will not let you take the place of the one that she loves or is committed to.

Sixth, a woman wants people to stop taking her for granted. She may or may not like talking about certain things in her or other people’s lives. Still, no one has the right to mess up her brain with futile talks and exaggerations.

And lastly, a woman wants room to breathe. Breathe out the toxics caged inside her. If you want to play your role in a women’s life become that path that allows her to breathe, not a fungus that kills her eventually.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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ALL THAT GLITTER IS NOT GOLD;EXPLOITATION IN THE NAME OF SERVING HUMANITY

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ALL THAT GLITTER IS NOT GOLD;

EXPLOITATION IN THE NAME OF SERVING HUMANITY

Hello Folks!

We have often heard the phrase, All that glitter is not gold. Today, I aim at analyzing this phrase. So let’s start. Below are pieces of evidence of what I have witnessed on a one to one basis.

I reached out to the Integrated Health Services (IHS) to hire a Nurse and an attendant to meet the medical needs of my father. I had heard a lot of good things from the people who hired their services.

Frankly, if you are only hiring attendants from them, you are going to be 100 percent satisfied. The two attendants that I hired are real professionals serving the needs of my father.

However, the nurses that they sent in the name of professionals were crap and nothing near to a professional nurse. The first nurse (Sarfraz) that was sent for my father caused the infection to him in passing the catheter.

As a result of his unprofessional service, we had to rush my father to the emergency where he urinated blood through the catheter to relieve him from the retention.

Instead of being sorry for his actions, instead, he tried to blame my father that he had tried to pull out and the IHS tried to put a cover on the person and put the matter under the carpet.

The second time they sent another nurse(Muhammad Husnain) qualifying him too, as a professional. I kept on telling the organization that the person they have sent again is a student and not a professional nurse but they weren’t ready to listen.

I kept on observing him check out his professionalism but he too was nothing more than a quack. He did not know how to make an injection or read the meds name or even fill insulin.

A professional nurse would know the difference between giving 6 unit insulin and 60 unit insulin. Had I, not known how to fill insulin and the required amount to be given, my father would have gone into a coma.

I was shocked to see his unprofessional attitude and was greatly awed by just thinking about what would these people do in places where the old family members ate exclusively dependant on these nurses.

However, the last thing which I was not expecting he would do was to remove my father’s catheter. I was extremely upset and frustrated at his attitude.

I had called the nurse from a nearby hospital to pass the catheter. He was saved from the demise we faced earlier at the hands of the nurse, Sarfraz.

I called the organization and talked to their coordinator Haroon and brought the event to his notice but as usual, he denied saying that the other coordinator Sadiq called the nurse and asked him why had he done such a thing?

The male nurse instead of admitting his mistake said that the family had permitted him and the old member himself told to remove the catheter. Seriously, a person who has Dementia, would you do what he is saying?

You are intelligent to do the calculation yourself, my friends. In the end, I would like to say that even if you hire attendants or nurses for your parents, do ensure your supervisory role instead of trusting them 100 percent.

Regretfully, very few organizations in true spirit serve humanity in spirit and letter.

Parents are an asset. Don’t leave them at the mercy of anyone. Think about the times when you were in their place and what they did for you. Life is a cycle. What you do today will eventually come back to you.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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WANT OF A MAN

Hello Folks!

Have you ever wondered what men want from a woman in Pakistan? I know what you are thinking and many of you will second my thoughts. Today, I will share with you some of the insights regarding men’s wants.

Previously, I discussed a woman’s want but today I will keep my focus on men exclusively.

Firstly, most men are looking out for a good time with any woman. They are least bothered about the cultural barriers or background or likes or dislikes.

Their uttermost concern is that it has to be something that can be portrayed as a woman even if it is a bottle.

Secondly, most of the time, men will approach women in the name of friendship and it is only a matter of exchanging some messages, they will come to their motives.

You need to be vigilant to understand where the conversation is going. However, men too differ as women do.

Thirdly, sometimes, they just reach out to share their side of the story. Not all men coming after women have the same want.

Wants differ from person to person as well as the situation. And men too, are cultured, to understand this.

Fourthly, every man wants to find true love in the form of a wife or family, or even friends. Every one of us needs to play a positive role in this scenario.

As an individual, we need to think out of the box to assure our insecurities and insecurities of the one called a man. If you have a clear mind, you will know how to go about all this.

Another want of a man is related to something we called vulnerability. He wants an assurance where he and his love can be accepted and nurtured. He may not accept this because he thinks it is childish to accept it in front of a woman of her dreams or wife or even family.

It is a very simple and innocent want and requires acceptance from the person across the border.

Lastly, as a society, we treat our men as superior being unlikely to make any mistake or even commit to one or even accept things. We need to think out of the box and give them space too.

The wants can only be addressed when we are ready to accept them as they are; be they introvert, extrovert, expressive, nonexpressive, self-centered, etc.,

The want of a man needs to be tackled at the family level first. When there is acceptance in the family, everything will ultimately fall in place in the long run.

You don’t have to turn them into Jackal and Hyde to realize this. Think about it.

Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

Happy Reading.

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WANT OF A WOMAN

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ALL THAT GLITTER IS NOT GOLD;

EXPLOITATION IN THE NAME OF SERVING HUMANITY

Hello Folks!

We have often heard the phrase, All that glitter is not gold. Today, I aim at analyzing this phrase. So let’s start. Below are pieces of evidence of what I have witnessed on a one to one basis.

I reached out to the Integrated Health Services (IHS) to hire a Nurse and an attendant to meet the medical needs of my father. I had heard a lot of good things from the people who hired their services.

Frankly, if you are only hiring attendants from them, you are going to be 100 percent satisfied. The two attendants that I hired are real professionals serving the needs of my father.

However, the nurses that they sent in the name of professionals were crap and nothing near to a professional nurse. The first nurse (Sarfraz) that was sent for my father caused the infection to him in passing the catheter.

As a result of his unprofessional service, we had to rush my father to the emergency where he urinated blood through the catheter to relieve him from the retention.

Instead of being sorry for his actions, instead, he tried to blame my father that he had tried to pull out and the IHS tried to put a cover on the person and put the matter under the carpet.

The second time they sent another nurse(Muhammad Husnain) qualifying him too, as a professional. I kept on telling the organization that the person they have sent again is a student and not a professional nurse but they weren’t ready to listen.

I kept on observing him check out his professionalism but he too was nothing more than a quack. He did not know how to make an injection or read the meds name or even fill insulin.

A professional nurse would know the difference between giving 6 unit insulin and 60 unit insulin. Had I, not known how to fill insulin and the required amount to be given, my father would have gone into a coma.

I was shocked to see his unprofessional attitude and was greatly awed by just thinking about what would these people do in places where the old family members ate exclusively dependant on these nurses.

However, the last thing which I was not expecting he would do was to remove my father’s catheter. I was extremely upset and frustrated at his attitude.

I had called the nurse from a nearby hospital to pass the catheter. He was saved from the demise we faced earlier at the hands of the nurse, Sarfraz.

I called the organization and talked to their coordinator Haroon and brought the event to his notice but as usual, he denied saying that the other coordinator Sadiq called the nurse and asked him why had he done such a thing?

The male nurse instead of admitting his mistake said that the family had permitted him and the old member himself told to remove the catheter. Seriously, a person who has Dementia, would you do what he is saying?

You are intelligent to do the calculation yourself, my friends. In the end, I would like to say that even if you hire attendants or nurses for your parents, do ensure your supervisory role instead of trusting them 100 percent.

Regretfully, very few organizations in true spirit serve humanity in spirit and letter.

Parents are an asset. Don’t leave them at the mercy of anyone. Think about the times when you were in their place and what they did for you. Life is a cycle. What you do today will eventually come back to you.

Think about it. Until next time, stay safe and healthy.

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